This is sad...
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a lotta my frens (both guyz n gerz) broke up wif their beloveds...
becos the guy is in NS...the ger in Uni/poly
gerz tell me that...they find tt they had difted apart after they he went NS...they had less to tok abt..and when he booked out on weekend...he oni care abt goin home and sleep or go cheong wif his "brothers"...
eben if they did go out gai-gai..they found tt they cannot communicate as smoothly as b4...no topics to tok abt tt type of thing...
guyz tell me that...his gf found someone "better" in uni/poly...so he got dumped...some said that he had somehow "lost the feeling" when he went NS...one guy confided in me tt dunno why he suddenly dun like his gf to tok to other guyz when they go out on weekends...last time when they were in JC..he did not mind at all...but now it bothered him A LOT...he felt kinda insecure (the lame reason he used to break up wif his ger)
sigH~...
sometimes..i relli dunno how to console them..(farnie...dunno why they all come to tok to me when they broke up...)
some couples were relli together for very long liao (2,3 years)...
of cos..there are those who break-patch-break-patch...but i dont see the point of playing this game...
isit relli due to NS tt separated them?...or isit that they themselves cant stand the test of time and each other's feelings?...
and while all these are happening...i oso have a fren who is gettin married...he is in NS (commando somemore) and she is in uni...
both 19 this year...well...a shotgun marriage...and i think she is quitting sch...
i dunno whether to congratulate them...or to offer my sympathies...
sigH~
wat is this world comin to?...
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~~EviL AngeL~~
and her power -- [Frozen Flames] -
When a person is in NS,he will be facing a lot of physical and mental stress while agirl going on to Uni or working life will be adapting to a totally new environment and meeting new people altogether.Somemore the guy only gets to come out on weekends which are spents mostly sleeping to make up for lost sleep or out clubbing to make the most of the weekends.There is also a loss of communication compared to last time when the couple could talk every night till the cow comes home as in NS,the phone is not so easy to reach for.But not all relationships end up in the dump when the guy goes NS.One of my good friend knew his gf in poly and are still going strong even though he is a navy regular and she is studying in Uni,ehehe
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Makan begins with a drool, grows with a chomp, ends with a burp.When you were born, you were hungry and everyone around you was full. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one full and everyone around you is hungry.
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Diablo 2 rockzzzzzz -
Hmmm.....there are lot so of cases lah.
Another is the guy is too tired cos I used to sleep the moment my head touch the bed. Even my g/f call or come to my house, she have only 1 answer, I Zzzz.......
But wat to do????
Guess we were damn too tired liao.
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~ JuSt AnoTher StiNgrAy iN thE sEa ~ -
moose:
i have a fren who "endured" the 2 and 1/2 years wif his gf...
but...they broke up after he ORD...
weird...
plain weird...
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~~EviL AngeL~~
and her power -- [Frozen Flames] -
There are cases of couple who broke up after the guy finish NS and went to work or study,but those are isolated.Most couple that break up occurs during NS.But i think if a couple can survive NS,then they can survive mostly anything,ehehe
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Makan begins with a drool, grows with a chomp, ends with a burp.When you were born, you were hungry and everyone around you was full. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one full and everyone around you is hungry.~~~
Diablo 2 rockzzzzzz -
I dunno wads wif relationship but I am bery shocked when I received the news that one of my good fren broke up wif his gf..the best thing is..I heard my fren vowed that he loved his gf dearest and will neber break up wif her and then was like 2 yrs later I received news of their break. Then I call him up and he jus said tt the relationship kinda 'mutually' broke off cos that they no longer has feelings for each other..I mean he actually told me that the 'sparks' r no longer there and finds it no point to carry on the relationship.. I jus find it..erm...hard to take it...
breakin up becos THE SPARKS ARENT THERE ANYMORE is not acceptable...sometimes I jus wish they take relationship more seriously..
FnU
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Thank you for loving me baby
You'll always be the one who drives me crazy
I think this is a gift from God to have you here..
Thank you for loving me baby
I'll treasure all your love and all the things we share..
And I wanna tell you, how much I love you..... -
It is up to the couple to put the sparks back in their relationship,so if there is no sparks left,then they should deep and hard into themselves,heheeh
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Makan begins with a drool, grows with a chomp, ends with a burp.When you were born, you were hungry and everyone around you was full. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one full and everyone around you is hungry.~~~
Diablo 2 rockzzzzzz