A poll :)
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Another opinion question coming up:
If a guy asked a girl out...to a movie let's say. He insisted on paying for her. Some of their other friends are with them, but the guy refuses to pay for em as well. As a result both of them were endlessly teased by the whole group. So what is the possibility of the guy's feelings towards the girl?
(Let's say this has happened for sumtime already, but it varies..sometimes it is dinner, movies, some ticket to games, etc)
1. He wants to go after her. Wants her to be his gf
2. He is flirting with her, no serious intent detected.
3. He is trying to be a gentleman.
So any opinion?
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Think it will be quite obvious to be 1 and 3.Originally posted by icyprincess:Another opinion question coming up:
If a guy asked a girl out...to a movie let's say. He insisted on paying for her. Some of their other friends are with them, but the guy refuses to pay for em as well. As a result both of them were endlessly teased by the whole group. So what is the possibility of the guy's feelings towards the girl?
(Let's say this has happened for sumtime already, but it varies..sometimes it is dinner, movies, some ticket to games, etc)
1. He wants to go after her. Wants her to be his gf
2. He is flirting with her, no serious intent detected.
3. He is trying to be a gentleman.
So any opinion?
i.c.y
As to him paying for other friends... is quite insane for him to pay as the prices of movie tickets nowadays are quite hefty. Imagine 5 tickets on a weekend is already close to $50 bucks!
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1Originally posted by icyprincess:Another opinion question coming up:
If a guy asked a girl out...to a movie let's say. He insisted on paying for her. Some of their other friends are with them, but the guy refuses to pay for em as well. As a result both of them were endlessly teased by the whole group. So what is the possibility of the guy's feelings towards the girl?
(Let's say this has happened for sumtime already, but it varies..sometimes it is dinner, movies, some ticket to games, etc)
1. He wants to go after her. Wants her to be his gf
2. He is flirting with her, no serious intent detected.
3. He is trying to be a gentleman.
So any opinion?
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yea..and when he dun pay dat poor guy became the butt of joke within the group *sigh* it is really hard to lease everyone.Originally posted by :Think it will be quite obvious to be 1 and 3.
As to him paying for other friends... is quite insane for him to pay as the prices of movie tickets nowadays are quite hefty. Imagine 5 tickets on a weekend is already close to $50 bucks! Poor guy!
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1 & 2
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isn't 1 and 2 contradicting each other? You can't be serious and not serious at the same time...Originally posted by SnowFlag:1 & 2
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i am just stating the two possibilities from the given scenarioOriginally posted by icyprincess:isn't 1 and 2 contradicting each other? You can't be serious and not serious at the same time...
i.c.y
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Is she the only girl? if she is, then maybe he's trying to be gentleman ba.
But if she's not the only single and available girl, then maybe the guy knows that the girl is very 'tight'?
Yao bu rang, he likes her ba..trying to give her a gd impression. -
got other girls there...Originally posted by browniebaobao:Is she the only girl? if she is, then maybe he's trying to be gentleman ba.
But if she's not the only single and available girl, then maybe the guy knows that the girl is very 'tight'?
Yao bu rang, he likes her ba..trying to give her a gd impression.
what do you mean that the girl is very tight?
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Originally posted by icyprincess:got other girls there...
what do you mean that the girl is very tight?
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meaning dun have extra money to spend.. -
got that girl has money to spend..he wun let her spend it...Originally posted by browniebaobao:
meaning dun have extra money to spend..
the girl is the only one single and available there and this has occured over a period of time..
there was once he asked her out and when she declined he told her that he wanted to treat her to the movie...
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Originally posted by icyprincess:got that girl has money to spend..he wun let her spend it...
the girl is the only one single and available there and this has occured over a period of time..
there was once he asked her out and when she declined he told her that he wanted to treat her to the movie...
i.c.y
oh....
then the girl till now never accept? -
she accepted once ina whileOriginally posted by browniebaobao:
oh....
then the girl till now never accept?
but sumtimes she declined also because she is not sure of his intention.
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Originally posted by icyprincess:she accepted once ina while
but sumtimes she declined also because she is not sure of his intention.
i.c.y
Are u the girl? Haha...
Ask guys for more opinion... -
I am kinda the girlOriginally posted by browniebaobao:
Are u the girl? Haha...
Ask guys for more opinion...
Yea I need more guys' opinion..I have asked him already (as in my close guy fren) and he is the one who gave me those 3 possibilities
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1 & 3 are high possibilities. Of coz not ruling out any others which have not been stated
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Ai, it looks as though he wants to get into the good book of the girl.
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go dutch betterOriginally posted by icyprincess:she accepted once ina while
but sumtimes she declined also because she is not sure of his intention.
i.c.y
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trying to do that but he wud not hear of it.Originally posted by SnowFlag:go dutch better
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icy, u r in control.Originally posted by icyprincess:trying to do that but he wud not hear of it.
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go dutch better if u not interested in him. or else will gv him too much hope.
btw, whether he is a 1 or 2, will depends on your judgement liao -
shld be 1 or 3 in my opinion...next time choose a more exp place for dinner & outings
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The guy asked the gal out, he wanna pay... it's option 1.
He asked his friends along and the gal dun know them? Looks like he wanna the whole situation less embrassing for her and himself in case things dun work out as in a one on one date. -
the girl does know the frens he brought along..and yea, he is the shy-shy typeOriginally posted by BÃ¥seline:The guy asked the gal out, he wanna pay... it's option 1.
He asked his friends along and the gal dun know them? Looks like he wanna the whole situation less embrassing for her and himself in case things dun work out as in a one on one date.
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the thing is that girl is not sure right now. she is willing to try out but she can't say for sure that she really likes him yet..at leat in dat way...but she can't say she doesn't like him also...so that's why she is willing to hang out but she felt guilty about him paying...Originally posted by SnowFlag:icy, u r in control.
go dutch better if u not interested in him. or else will gv him too much hope.
btw, whether he is a 1 or 2, will depends on your judgement liao
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I assumed the gal is rather forgiving lor cos I understand there are gals who appreciate the guy to let them know before hand that his frens coming along.Originally posted by icyprincess:the girl does know the frens he brought along..and yea, he is the shy-shy type
i.c.y
shy shy type huh.... pros and cons.
Some gals do find men who exudeds confidence are sexy.