introverted guy

• Estee

  15 Nov 04, 11:02

  sometimes.... u will never get the answers loh.
• icyprincess

  15 Nov 04, 11:03

  Originally posted by Estee:

  sometimes.... u will never get the answers loh.

  so u think i shud not confront him? i shud just let him go like dat?
  
  i.c.y
• ditzy

  15 Nov 04, 11:03

  You should tune down your sensitivity one big notch, don't percieve a guy's action as being nice as that of affections, or love, or passion. If such was the case, my homey should be all over me by now.
• Estee

  15 Nov 04, 11:04

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  so u think i shud not confront him? i shud just let him go like dat?
  
  i.c.y

  i dunno...... it's up to you.....
• Qitai

  15 Nov 04, 11:04

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  no. but he made me think that I am going to be.
  
  i.c.y

  So, what the use of confronting him now? He obviously decided to give you a miss now. I don't think you will be any happier even if you get some answers from him. Like if he says he realized you are not suitable for him, how does that help you?
• icyprincess

  15 Nov 04, 11:10

  Originally posted by ditzy:

  You should tune down your sensitivity one big notch, don't percieve a guy's action as being nice as that of affections, or love, or passion. If such was the case, my homey should be all over me by now.

  watever. i dun believe dat guys will just spend a lot just because they wan to be "nice". I dunno if you are like dat, but if you are, i wud say all ur frens are very lucky ppl and u will go bankrupt pretty soon.
  
  i.c.y
• icyprincess

  15 Nov 04, 11:12

  Originally posted by Qitai:

  So, what the use of confronting him now? He obviously decided to give you a miss now. I don't think you will be any happier even if you get some answers from him. Like if he says he realized you are not suitable for him, how does that help you?

  yea. it is not going to help me. i just wan to pay him back what i owe him and i want to remind him that i wun be able to fulfil the promise i made to him. because unlike sum ppl, i dun believe in breaking my promise just like dat. if i cant keep my words for sum reasons, i wan to let the other party know abt it.
  
  i.c.y
• Patrik

  15 Nov 04, 11:15

  I also introvert
  hehehe
• ditzy

  15 Nov 04, 11:15

  Then I can safely tell you I am indeed bankrupt till I get my money back. Coz I paid with my own money, close to 4000 dollars her rent and her holiday trip to Melbourne which she just left for today.
• icyprincess

  15 Nov 04, 11:16

  Originally posted by ditzy:

  Then I can safely tell you I am indeed bankrupt till I get my money back. Coz I paid with my own money, close to 4000 dollars her rent and her holiday trip to Melbourne which she just left for today.

  and who is she to u?
  
  i.c.y
• ditzy

  15 Nov 04, 11:18

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  and who is she to u?
  
  i.c.y

  She's not even my friend, she's only my friend's friend. My housemate. Nothing more.
• icyprincess

  15 Nov 04, 11:19

  Originally posted by ditzy:

  She's not even my friend, she's only my friend's friend. My housemate. Nothing more.

  and u expect her to pay u back?
  
  i.c.y
• Qitai

  15 Nov 04, 11:19

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  yea. it is not going to help me. i just wan to pay him back what i owe him and i want to remind him that i wun be able to fulfil the promise i made to him. because unlike sum ppl, i dun believe in breaking my promise just like dat. if i cant keep my words for sum reasons, i wan to let the other party know abt it.
  
  i.c.y

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  what do you think of introvert guy? those that dun wan to mix around one, rather coop themselves in their rooms all day long then to go around and talk with people. i tried to get him to join in a gathering just now and he just freaked out. omigod, i will just give up on him. i can't live with someone like this.
  
  i.c.y

  Now, I am confuse. Is it you have no chance to tell him about your promise or are you still trying to ask him out? If you have the chance to ask him out, why didn't take your chance to tell him about your promise? Also, you can easily inform him about your promise easily by sending a SMS or an email. What is so difficult about that?
  
  Time to move on I say. Also, don't fall so easily next time, for your own good. Take more time to communicate and understand the other party before going too deep.
• ditzy

  15 Nov 04, 11:20

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  and u expect her to pay u back?
  
  i.c.y

  Why don't I expect her to pay back?
• icyprincess

  15 Nov 04, 11:22

  Originally posted by ditzy:

  Why don't I expect her to pay back?

  because u say u r a nice guy who will easily pay for ur frens, and wun expect em to pay u back in return
  
  man, when u said dat, i really want to be ur fren.
  
  i.c.y
• icyprincess

  15 Nov 04, 11:25

  Originally posted by Qitai:

  Now, I am confuse. Is it you have no chance to tell him about your promise or are you still trying to ask him out? If you have the chance to ask him out, why didn't take your chance to tell him about your promise? Also, you can easily inform him about your promise easily by sending a SMS or an email. What is so difficult about that?
  
  Time to move on I say. Also, don't fall so easily next time, for your own good. Take more time to communicate and understand the other party before going too deep.

  i asked him out still but he will always decline. it is like now he sees me as someone wif sum kinda disease to avoid. so i still can't tell him abt wat i have in mind until now. he will always use sum kinda excuse, like he is busy la, have to work la, bla bla bla.
  
  u said i fall easily? this is definitely not. he did a lot of things for me over the period of one year. it is not just he said sum sweet words, then i fell for him. this time i really did think it thru before going in. and i was wrong, as always, again.
  
  i.c.y
• ditzy

  15 Nov 04, 11:25

  If she doesn't want to, she can stay in Melbourne permanently. Coz if she comes back, its 33 floors down to the building's facade.
• icyprincess

  15 Nov 04, 11:26

  Originally posted by ditzy:

  If she doesn't want to, she can stay in Melbourne permanently. Coz if she comes back, its 33 floors down to the building's facade.

  well the bottom line is...wud u pay for someone just because u r trying to be nice, and wun expect em to pay u back?
  
  i.c.y
• ditzy

  15 Nov 04, 11:29

  If its genuinely helping them, I will fork it out. I am helping my homey, because its genuine. And usually when my money goes out, I take it I won't be seeing it again. But this case is for sure, I know I will get it back.
• Qitai

  15 Nov 04, 11:30

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  i asked him out still but he will always decline. it is like now he sees me as someone wif sum kinda disease to avoid. so i still can't tell him abt wat i have in mind until now. he will always use sum kinda excuse, like he is busy la, have to work la, bla bla bla.
  
  u said i fall easily? this is definitely not. he did a lot of things for me over the period of one year. it is not just he said sum sweet words, then i fell for him. this time i really did think it thru before going in. and i was wrong, as always, again.
  
  i.c.y

  If I am him, I also scare of you liao. Don't want to go out with you liao means don't want to go out with you liao. Still keep asking. And I don't think he care a single bit about your promise. Probably more important for him is you don't bother him anymore.
  
  If you really want to trash things out with him, go to where he stays and make him talk to you. If not, let go.
• Ito_^

  15 Nov 04, 11:30

  wooot.. twist of events. i think u have the rights to confront him but expect the worst.
• icyprincess

  15 Nov 04, 11:37

  Originally posted by Qitai:

  If I am him, I also scare of you liao. Don't want to go out with you liao means don't want to go out with you liao. Still keep asking. And I don't think he care a single bit about your promise. Probably more important for him is you don't bother him anymore.
  
  If you really want to trash things out with him, go to where he stays and make him talk to you. If not, let go.

  i din ask him to go out with me exclusively. i asked him to go out in a group, as a fren. and i dun and never force him to go. i just ask and if he says no, then i said fine, up to him.
  
  abt the promise, it is not abt him caring or not. it is abt my matter of principle.
  
  i.c.y
• Qitai

  15 Nov 04, 11:39

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  i din ask him to go out with me exclusively. i asked him to go out in a group, as a fren. and i dun and never force him to go. i just ask and if he says no, then i said fine, up to him.
  
  abt the promise, it is not abt him caring or not. it is abt my matter of principle.
  
  i.c.y

  Doesn't matter if it is group or just you. He is scare of you liao.
• amuletgurl

  15 Nov 04, 11:51

  Guys......icyprincess is just mentally stressed out,as u can c...she just wants to save her frenship,its as simple as that.......
  
  sorry icyprincess,i agree wif the guys that u do expect n think too much
  
  but i do know she does not want to push that guy to accept her as a lover wat
  
  but the way he repel from her adds insults
  
  so there, she is now trying to learn to accept that he is just that way,i guess