introverted guy
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what do you think of introvert guy? those that dun wan to mix around one, rather coop themselves in their rooms all day long then to go around and talk with people. i tried to get him to join in a gathering just now and he just freaked out. omigod, i will just give up on him. i can't live with someone like this.
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hhmm, sounds like me....
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I'm an introvert...
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but if u r a guy and u supposedly like this girl and u know she will be there in the gathering and she asks u to go, wun u give her a bit of face and go?Originally posted by laurence82:hhmm, sounds like me....
god, i hate him. to think dat last time he asked me to go out with him i always agreed because i want to give him face.
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this type of people do exist...but it's not possible if you want them to change overnight and open up
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New guy?
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Yes, I will, although I m introvertOriginally posted by icyprincess:but if u r a guy and u supposedly like this girl and u know she will be there in the gathering and she asks u to go, wun u give her a bit of face and go?
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Same guy, i guessOriginally posted by Qitai:New guy?
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uh oh. i've got split personalities.
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If my memory serve me right, she just mentioned about not seeing the guy recently on the birthday present thing. So, is it that guy or a new guy?Originally posted by SnowFlag:Same guy, i guess -
i also introvert.
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I am kinda like that, but not to a large extent la.Originally posted by icyprincess:what do you think of introvert guy? those that dun wan to mix around one, rather coop themselves in their rooms all day long then to go around and talk with people. i tried to get him to join in a gathering just now and he just freaked out. omigod, i will just give up on him. i can't live with someone like this.
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and when u open up, it's like a machine gun loaded with sardonic ammo.Originally posted by the.raven:I am kinda like that, but not to a large extent la. -
Hey!
I'm also an introvert.
However, meeting new people to me is exciting and fun. haha -
does the gathering consist of all strangers?? all ur frens?? maybe he scared if it's all ur frens.... u would have no time to entertain him, he will feel out of place and very bored....
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try crocoOriginally posted by icyprincess:what do you think of introvert guy? those that dun wan to mix around one, rather coop themselves in their rooms all day long then to go around and talk with people. i tried to get him to join in a gathering just now and he just freaked out. omigod, i will just give up on him. i can't live with someone like this.
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I am thinking of confronting him next week. it will be the best time to do it, because both of us will be having a one week holiday after that. so if anything bad happened, I will have that one week to get over it.
I am thinking that I should do this face to face, because I dun feel comfy doing it over the phone or even over messenger, and this is strange for me because I usually wud prefer to talk to him over MSN. But this time, i want to see his reactions, his every facial expression when he answers my questions. if under that circumstance he can still lie, he must be a damn good actor. I want to ask him what he sees me as now, does he take me as a plaything or ?? And if he wasn't interested in the first place, why did he start it by doing all those things for a period of time?
But I dunno how I can get him to meet me face to face. I have been asking to meet him these few days and he has always managed to not show up. I am thinking that I should write him either an e-mail or message him to tell him to meet me because I want to discuss something important with him. And if he still cares about me even as a friend, he should show up.
Do you all think I should do this? I would really like to put a close to this chapter once and for all. I dun wan to feel like I am being cheated anymore, and this has dragged on for long enough. I am not feeling happy as it is, and the way he kept messaging me, telling me shit about not hurting him and the people around me are bothering me.
I wish I have enough courage. Somehow I am bothered about what others will think of me once I do this. I am pretty sure he is going to complain to his friends about this and soon everything will be out.
Any opinions?
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as a friend u shouldn't force it upon him, if u like him all the more u shouldn't. maybe u should just drop him a short non-hostile noteOriginally posted by icyprincess:I am thinking of confronting him next week. it will be the best time to do it, because both of us will be having a one week holiday after that. so if anything bad happened, I will have that one week to get over it.
I am thinking that I should do this face to face, because I dun feel comfy doing it over the phone or even over messenger, and this is strange for me because I usually wud prefer to talk to him over MSN. But this time, i want to see his reactions, his every facial expression when he answers my questions. if under that circumstance he can still lie, he must be a damn good actor. I want to ask him what he sees me as now, does he take me as a plaything or ?? And if he wasn't interested in the first place, why did he start it by doing all those things for a period of time?
But I dunno how I can get him to meet me face to face. I have been asking to meet him these few days and he has always managed to not show up. I am thinking that I should write him either an e-mail or message him to tell him to meet me because I want to discuss something important with him. And if he still cares about me even as a friend, he should show up.
Do you all think I should do this? I would really like to put a close to this chapter once and for all. I dun wan to feel like I am being cheated anymore, and this has dragged on for long enough. I am not feeling happy as it is, and the way he kept messaging me, telling me shit about not hurting him and the people around me are bothering me.
I wish I have enough courage. Somehow I am bothered about what others will think of me once I do this. I am pretty sure he is going to complain to his friends about this and soon everything will be out.
Any opinions?
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I am not trying to be hostile or anything. I just wan him to explain it to me...is dat too much to ask for?Originally posted by chunyong:as a friend u shouldn't force it upon him, if u like him all the more u shouldn't. maybe u should just drop him a short non-hostile note
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Just let that poor guy be what he wants to be. You can't force love and love can't be forced. You can't force it upon him if he doesn't want to. Same goes for him, he can't force anything upon you.
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Originally posted by ditzy:
You said "that poor guy"? So you think i am the one in the wrong instead? Is it right for guys to lead a girl on like this? Is it right for him to just toy with her feelings, just for the heck of it?
Just let that [b]poor guy be what he wants to be. You can't force love and love can't be forced. You can't force it upon him if he doesn't want to. Same goes for him, he can't force anything upon you.[/b]
You are one of those ppl who make me think like I am the one doing wrong instead. And I am also the one hurting, while he is probably now off somewhere laughing because I am stupid enuff to get duped by all his sweet acts.
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You already posted before you closed the chapter behind, now you want to close it again. So when you really going to close the chapter?
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What did he do? Were you ever his GF?Originally posted by icyprincess:You said "that poor guy"? So you think i am the one in the wrong instead? Is it right for guys to lead a girl on like this? Is it right for him to just toy with her feelings, just for the heck of it?
You are one of those ppl who make me think like I am the one doing wrong instead. And I am also the one hurting, while he is probably now off somewhere laughing because I am stupid enuff to get duped by all his sweet acts.
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i will close it when all my questions are answered. and when i have let him know it is not possible for me to fulfil my promise to him anymore. so far, neither of these two things have been fulfilled.Originally posted by ditzy:You already posted before you closed the chapter behind, now you want to close it again. So when you really going to close the chapter?
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no. but he made me think that I am going to be.Originally posted by Qitai:What did he do? Were you ever his GF?
i.c.y