How to deal with your superiors at work if they shout at you
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I have attended a talk and it was funny.
If your boss shouted at you at work, just treat them as barking by dogs, ignore their barking and continue to do your work. dun let it affect you by any means. Just visualise your boss to be dogs. all they ever do is bark and bark everyday at work
dun waste so much energy thinking about it, just focus on your work anyhow. my 2 cents worth.
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People shout at me at work everyday, and I have to shout at them too, prolly coz its really noisy where we work.
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是 chef!
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just learn to be cool and visualise them as barking dogs. people shouted at you because they cannot take stress, a little bit they are jumpy already.
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Raising their voice and shouting is entirely two different things.
Allow your heart to tell you the difference, not your ears.
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Mood swings. if face with enormous stress at work, shouting is inevitable. if abuse by your supervisors or managers, just walk away. they have no right to abuse you. if they ask you why you walk away, just tell them, talk to me when you have calm down.
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just throw your resignation letter and look for a better job lah
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Originally posted by Rooney9:
just learn to be cool and visualise them as barking dogs. people shouted at you because they cannot take stress, a little bit they are jumpy already.
Send them to attend EQ course. -
give them a surprise ...... scream at them!
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Originally posted by InnoHippo:
give them a surprise ...... scream at them!
Pack your things and bag and go after that.
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Originally posted by Rooney9:
I have attended a talk and it was funny.
If your boss shouted at you at work, just treat them as barking by dogs, ignore their barking and continue to do your work. dun let it affect you by any means. Just visualise your boss to be dogs. all they ever do is bark and bark everyday at work
dun waste so much energy thinking about it, just focus on your work anyhow. my 2 cents worth.
What if the dog decide to give you work that you struggle to do? What if the dog decides to cut your bonus because you underperform? What if the dog give you low appraisal points? What if the dog give more better treatment to other people than you? What if the dog give you so much work, you have to work overtime while your other co-worker get to go home early? What if the dog decide to promote other people when you think you deserve it? What if the dog give you an assignment and refuse to teach you but make you have to struggle to learn to do it yourself? What if the dog blames you for every mistake you make, call you useless in front of everybody?
Hard to visualise as dogs isn't it? Need to handle to situation more than visualising. Need to confront the problem than to visualize.
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What ts said is correct.
Just imagine your boss got a dog head and is barking.
You will be gradually smiling while the dog is barking.
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Alot of cowardly people with escapist attitude nowadays.
This is how they lied to themselves in order to fake their happy lives.
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Originally posted by parn:
Alot of cowardly people with escapist attitude nowadays.
This is how they lied to themselves in order to fake their happy lives.
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Originally posted by onźźa:
Do you hve any suggestion?
Be honest to yourself, this is an online forum.You don't need me to think that you're cool because you got great imaginations to shrug it off easily.
Easiest way is to be honest to yourself, face your own anger, and overcome your own anger.
Then you will be ready to look for a permanent solution when you're at peace.
Running away from all bad attitude and behaviour will NEVER resolve anything in your lives. Because everyone around you will eventually give you bad attitude and behaviour, and you cannot run away from everyone for the rest of your lives.
UNLESS YOU KILL YOURSELF.
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you cannot control other people emotions and outbursts, but you sure can control your emotion to a certain extent.
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report to hr, send email to hr, cc hr bosses and MD. not only bossess if if prolong like that for no reason and you also talked to bossessa and no action taken you just hve to send email and make it big. but do like that be prepared with your resignation letter. nothing much in the creative manner youcan do. but if you alrdy prepared to go anytime then i guess you can do many things if not happy at work.