Week 4/8/2003

• NeonTetra

  4 Aug 03, 15:14

  Originally posted by M:

  there is labor before and after the interrmission from the sabbath.
  why do you feel it would be uncomfortable to have you join us?

  hhmmm.......
• ©(^@^)©

  4 Aug 03, 15:15

  Originally posted by NeonTetra:

  hey xzz: i have nothing against you so u don feel tt i leave forums because i don wanna see you...there's nothing wrong wif u. so u enjoy ur stay here.
  
  

  dan u not intending to keep contact with me?
• NeonTetra

  4 Aug 03, 15:18

  Originally posted by ©(^@^)©:

  dan u not intending to keep contact with me?

  why r u so friendly towards me?
• NeonTetra

  4 Aug 03, 15:18

  Originally posted by ©(^@^)©:

  dan u not intending to keep contact with me?

  why r u so friendly towards me?
• M

  4 Aug 03, 15:20

  Originally posted by skinnybeanie:

  yup, we need both incomes for the house instalments and all other commitments. And well, i do love working and can't really see myself being a housewife

  Yeh, you gotta love ya job (and the lunches) ...
  So your mom will most likely help take care of the child? Then they form the grand-alliance..
  I wonder about the percentage of women who'd like to stay and look after the house..
• ©(^@^)©

  4 Aug 03, 15:21

  Originally posted by NeonTetra:

  why r u so friendly towards me? so many ppl here also mah..........
  
  i have bad expereince for being some how friendly towards some ppl and i simply want a break from all these. i can say i treat all ppl as my potential good frens but today i just learnt that there is such a thing call casual friends or what ever label u call it.............and there can be a line drawn when once you cross over the borders you will be shot dead.
  
  

  /end of conversation
• skinnybeanie

  4 Aug 03, 15:26

  Originally posted by M:

  Yeh, you gotta love ya job (and the lunches) ...
  So your mom will most likely help take care of the child? Then they form the grand-alliance..
  I wonder about the percentage of women who'd like to stay and look after the house..

  i dun mind my job tho' i find it a tad boring at times... but well, i suppose most pple ain't crazy about their jobs.
  My mom have already declared that she doesn't wanna look after the kid. So guess i've gotta look for a day-time babysitter. Or else, if i can negotiate with my company to allow me to work half the time from home, i'll get a maid to look after the kid.
  
  I do have a couple of frens who quit their jobs to be a full-time housewife. If we have lesser commitments and my hubby can handle all the financial burdens, i wouldn't mind being a housewife cuz i can then devote most of my time to the kid. But with the pretty high cost of living nowadays, doubt i can do that, unless i downgrade our standard of living. Nah, dun think i wanna do tat...
  
• NeonTetra

  4 Aug 03, 15:34

  okok.....dunno whats so great abt my ICQ.
  
  told u its not ur fault that i am leaving.
  
  And its not anybody here's fault. ITS ALL MY FAULT.
• M

  4 Aug 03, 15:36

  Originally posted by skinnybeanie:

  i dun mind my job tho' i find it a tad boring at times... but well, i suppose most pple ain't crazy about their jobs.
  My mom have already declared that she doesn't wanna look after the kid. So guess i've gotta look for a day-time babysitter. Or else, if i can negotiate with my company to allow me to work half the time from home, i'll get a maid to look after the kid.
  
  I do have a couple of frens who quit their jobs to be a full-time housewife. If we have lesser commitments and my hubby can handle all the financial burdens, i wouldn't mind being a housewife cuz i can then devote most of my time to the kid. But with the pretty high cost of living nowadays, doubt i can do that, unless i downgrade our standard of living. Nah, dun think i wanna do tat...
  

  Bah, they say that till they see the baby, no?
  work from home looks prime among the choices.
  Gee, what you've related sounds scary, everyday that option seems to distant itself from me should all elements progress consistently. =\
  time to grow wings.
• skinnybeanie

  4 Aug 03, 15:42

  Originally posted by NeonTetra:

  okok.....dunno whats so great abt my ICQ.
  
  told u its not ur fault that i am leaving.
  
  And its not anybody here's fault. ITS ALL MY FAULT.

  obviously xzz didn't think that you are at fault, otherwise she won't be asking for your icq number.
  
  Also, nobody is asking whose fault it is tat you are leaving. We know it ain't our fault and we also didn't say that tat it is your fault. We just acknowledge tat you are leaving.
  
  Cheer up, will you ?
• skinnybeanie

  4 Aug 03, 15:45

  Originally posted by M:

  Bah, they say that till they see the baby, no?
  work from home looks prime among the choices.
  Gee, what you've related sounds scary, everyday that option seems to distant itself from me should all elements progress consistently. =\
  time to grow wings.

  nah, am pretty sure my mum will stand her ground even if i put the baby in her arms. Anyway, she's already 53 yrs old this year and think it'll be pretty tiring for her to look after a baby.
  
  Having a baby needs lotsa sacrifices to be made, emotionally, physically and financially. So when i have my baby, i wanna be sure tat hubby n i are ready and happy to make all the sacrifices. Only then, will we enjoy parenthood
• NeonTetra

  4 Aug 03, 15:51

  enjoy ur parenthood. hope u will bring the child up in the ways of God
• skinnybeanie

  4 Aug 03, 15:52

  Originally posted by NeonTetra:

  enjoy ur parenthood. hope u will bring the child up in the ways of God

  thanks, i will do my best and of cuz, the Lord will help me in guiding the child.
  
  
• NeonTetra

  4 Aug 03, 15:52

  
• M

  4 Aug 03, 16:01

  Originally posted by skinnybeanie:

  nah, am pretty sure my mum will stand her ground even if i put the baby in her arms. Anyway, she's already 53 yrs old this year and think it'll be pretty tiring for her to look after a baby.
  
  Having a baby needs lotsa sacrifices to be made, emotionally, physically and financially. So when i have my baby, i wanna be sure tat hubby n i are ready and happy to make all the sacrifices. Only then, will we enjoy parenthood

  wonderful, yall have lots thought out, blessings.
  I've always thought of grandchildren the archille's heel of most grandparents..
• skinnybeanie

  4 Aug 03, 16:17

  Originally posted by M:

  wonderful, yall have lots thought out, blessings.
  I've always thought of grandchildren the archille's heel of most grandparents..

  thanks, i need all the blessings i can get for this lifelong project
  
  
• the Bear

  4 Aug 03, 16:30

  hmm.. planning for Project B.. a farewell...
  
  Neon, good luck and may God shine on you whatever you do, wherever you are
  
  beanie, we await your good news
  
  back to work now
• Inzaghi

  4 Aug 03, 16:31

  me back for a while...
• skinnybeanie

  4 Aug 03, 16:32

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  hmm.. planning for Project B.. a farewell...
  
  Neon, good luck and may God shine on you whatever you do, wherever you are
  
  beanie, we await your good news
  
  back to work now

  will definitely make a declaration once the 1st phase of ProjB is successful !
• skinnybeanie

  4 Aug 03, 16:36

  Originally posted by Inzaghi:

  me back for a while...

  hi hi!
• Inzaghi

  4 Aug 03, 16:40

  Originally posted by skinnybeanie:

  hi hi!

  damn sian..now my datas got stuck in the system..cant do much about it until the IT got those done..
• M

  4 Aug 03, 16:41

  i'll need to borrow this xzz..
  
  
  
  
• skinnybeanie

  4 Aug 03, 16:42

  Originally posted by Inzaghi:

  damn sian..now my datas got stuck in the system..cant do much about it until the IT got those done..

  start of the month is a busy time for u huh?
• skinnybeanie

  4 Aug 03, 16:44

  Originally posted by M:

  i'll need to borrow this xzz..
  
  
  
  

  me too.. and i've got manicure classes tonite...
  *blink blink ... yawnz*
• Taufiq

  4 Aug 03, 16:46