i am been dumped(part 2)
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Hi! everyone. it's me again! i think we have aparted for a month,but i although i had feel better than before... but when ever i work, my mind always came across '' IS she working today?'' hai.......... so headache and confuse... but not knowing how is she getting?? i ahve told myself to give up on her... her .but i just cant seem to do it... as she is still in my mind flowing.... what should i do? i do sms her sometime... but its just that sometime... i cant find anyother reason to sms her already..further more i dont wish to let her dislike me. i try to skip lunch inorder to void to meet her during that lunch time. am i doing the right thing?? i don know? but i just feel that i really like her alot... so what should i do? just wait for her?one day, i went to pray to the god for advice and the god give me a list of word''On the 1st of the month,the moon is merely a thin strip. on the 15th day.it become round and bright.wait till the time comes,be patient.'' so what you guy/girls think?please advice.
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any kind soul out there just to highlight something to make me feel ease??
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i have lost her since that fateful day of 24 May...
sometimes, i have to put my head down when i'm working to hide tears that well up in my eyes... pretend i'm taking 5 to rest when tears are falling onto the carpet...
it happens...
take heart yah?
whatever you have written, it says that things do not remain static.. things change.. sometimes for the better...
it's a bit cryptic.. the sliver may be good things.. and there's more coming...
or may be your misery, there may be more coming...
most important thing is that you are the master of what you want that sliver to be.. if you want it to be happiness, mayhap in the future, when you are over her, you will find someone else who will love you back as much or even more
or maybe she'll be moved by your sincerity and grow to love you..
who knows what the future brings? that's humanity
just try to be happy, if you love her, continue to love her, she does not have to be around, she does not have to even know...
here's a very difficult thing i do.. not for the faint of heart: LOVE! and damn the consequences!
it means that i will love her, no matter what.. even if she will never be mine, i love her.. she may never know, i'll still love her..
that is my path...
find yours
and may you find peace, joy, love and happiness in your life's journey... -
tHAT really sweet of you to advice... really being touched.Maybe i will try both way like :or maybe she'll be moved by your sincerity and grow to love you..hope it works... but tear keep flowing out in my heart badly...hai.....sometime i just pray to god that ,to take away the feeling of mine loving her away... but... its seem to be not working further more god asked me to be patient. how???Originally posted by the Bear:i have lost her since that fateful day of 24 May...
sometimes, i have to put my head down when i'm working to hide tears that well up in my eyes... pretend i'm taking 5 to rest when tears are falling onto the carpet...
it happens...
take heart yah?
whatever you have written, it says that things do not remain static.. things change.. sometimes for the better...
it's a bit cryptic.. the sliver may be good things.. and there's more coming...
or may be your misery, there may be more coming...
most important thing is that you are the master of what you want that sliver to be.. if you want it to be happiness, mayhap in the future, when you are over her, you will find someone else who will love you back as much or even more
or maybe she'll be moved by your sincerity and grow to love you..
who knows what the future brings? that's humanity
just try to be happy, if you love her, continue to love her, she does not have to be around, she does not have to even know...
here's a very difficult thing i do.. not for the faint of heart: LOVE! and damn the consequences!
it means that i will love her, no matter what.. even if she will never be mine, i love her.. she may never know, i'll still love her..
that is my path...
find yours
and may you find peace, joy, love and happiness in your life's journey... -
love sux...
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you are right!Originally posted by winning 11:love sux...
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i disagree...
it can be liberating
i know even when it is heartbreaking, it is liberatingOriginally posted by winning 11:love sux... -
can i ask did you all encounter some girls that actually wanted to msg but would not dare to directly do it,den she will like *hello people...blah..blah.. anyway you guys have fun and goodnight*as yesterday, i receive a msg from her...happy in my heart when saw her name.. but after seeing the msg... asking myself what she trying to mean....hai......
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who knows?
i prefer not to message or whatever someone.. i would talk to her face to face.. for things this important, should not be done in a voiceless faceless way
but that's me.. i'm old-fashioned -
sometimes i wonder my ex-bf will think this way or not?
i miss him too. but i dun cry so much now, after the painful event that happened 4 months ago. i sometimes wonder if he would think of me every now and then like i still do think of him when things i do, or see reminds me of him. he is a rather egoist guy, which would keep his feelings inside rather than showing it out to me. so even if he does think of me sometimes, i also won't know, as he also won't show it to me.
thinking back, i broke up with him because i wanted to talk to him about some things i'm not happy about, and he doesn't seem to want to listen to me. then when i regret my actions, its too late. i can't turn back the clock.
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why you all girls like to break up already den regret of it leh??? i don understand, its hurts ours guys althought we are look as we are strong enough to take it but our heart could not do so... its just like got a kidney failure cant even die have to take on the pain forever...Originally posted by winky:sometimes i wonder my ex-bf will think this way or not?
i miss him too. but i dun cry so much now, after the painful event that happened 4 months ago. i sometimes wonder if he would think of me every now and then like i still do think of him when things i do, or see reminds me of him. he is a rather egoist guy, which would keep his feelings inside rather than showing it out to me. so even if he does think of me sometimes, i also won't know, as he also won't show it to me.
thinking back, i broke up with him because i wanted to talk to him about some things i'm not happy about, and he doesn't seem to want to listen to me. then when i regret my actions, its too late. i can't turn back the clock. -
Originally posted by hONdA_rIDeR:why you all girls like to break up already den regret of it leh??? i don understand, its hurts ours guys althought we are look as we are strong enough to take it but our heart could not do so... its just like got a kidney failure cant even die have to take on the pain forever...
when i regretted it, i got apologised to him. i even plead with him to ask him back. but he just said "no". says he preferred his life the way it is now. i also cannot say anything else can i? i asked him if we could have another go, he said no. it was a moment of anger i broke up with him, and he didn't even asked me then, why break up? whether we could talk about anything. just said okie lor.
thinking of it now, i feel my heart aches again. we were together for about 3 years, and he just let it go like that without talking much about it. when i asked him back, he also don't want.
i guess, he already wanted to break up with me liao, just that he don't dare to say it. just trying to make me pissed off with him, so that i would say break up. -
Originally posted by winky:
when i regretted it, i got apologised to him. i even plead with him to ask him back. but he just said "no". says he preferred his life the way it is now. i also cannot say anything else can i? i asked him if we could have another go, he said no. it was a moment of anger i broke up with him, and he didn't even asked me then, why break up? whether we could talk about anything. just said okie lor.
thinking of it now, i feel my heart aches again. we were together for about 3 years, and he just let it go like that without talking much about it. when i asked him back, he also don't want.
i guess, he already wanted to break up with me liao, just that he don't dare to say it. just trying to make me pissed off with him, so that i would say break up.
i guess so for yrs!!... mine is she have no reason for it as i treated for the best of of me.... she just keep apologise only... although we don get togther long... but she is the one i found thati wanted to marry....that why i cant give up on this.... she told me that she still like me... but....she just cant be with anyone... for now... what should i do!!! -
she still likes u? got hopeOriginally posted by hONdA_rIDeR:
i guess so for yrs!!... mine is she have no reason for it as i treated for the best of of me.... she just keep apologise only... although we don get togther long... but she is the one i found thati wanted to marry....that why i cant give up on this.... she told me that she still like me... but....she just cant be with anyone... for now... what should i do!!!
maybe she thinks she is still young, still got many kind of people she wanna meet, many things she wanna do.... she don't wanna be tied down? maybe she feels she is not ready for a long term relationship for now, cos she is still not settled, still 'wild' at heart..
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[quote]Originally posted by winky:
she still likes u? got hope
maybe she thinks she is still young, still got many kind of people she wanna meet, many things she wanna do.... she don't wanna be tied down? maybe she feels she is not ready for a long term relationship for now, cos she is still not settled, still 'wild' at heart..
good luck.[/quote
i hOpe so... but just waiting for her lor... maybe you are right sometime...thanks for giving me the blessing...as i always remember that time when i meet her at the working canteen... after that i walk pass her and sit down with her and after eating she pass me a napkin... i felt so sweet at that moment... haii.... but now only can hope.... -
cos at some point of time, i feel lost too. as a female point of view, i can tell u that sometimes, i feel that the bfs i had they were very good to me already. of cos they are not perfect, but, they are good people whom i loved. but, sometimes i feel that i don't wanna settle down with a guy so fast, even if he is a wonderful guy... i feel wanna 'play' first. but, if i were to meet any of my (good) ex-bfs, i would have no qualms about getting married with them, but, current moment, i still wanna have some fun first....Originally posted by hONdA_rIDeR:i hOpe so... but just waiting for her lor... maybe you are right sometime...thanks for giving me the blessing...as i always remember that time when i meet her at the working canteen... after that i walk pass her and sit down with her and after eating she pass me a napkin... i felt so sweet at that moment... haii.... but now only can hope....
sometimes, i will think this way. sometimes i will think of what i'll do when i'm married to one of them. blah, blah, blah... -
Harlow Honda Rider,Originally posted by hONdA_rIDeR:Hi! everyone. it's me again! i think we have aparted for a month,but i although i had feel better than before... but when ever i work, my mind always came across '' IS she working today?'' hai.......... so headache and confuse... but not knowing how is she getting?? i ahve told myself to give up on her... her .but i just cant seem to do it... as she is still in my mind flowing.... what should i do? i do sms her sometime... but its just that sometime... i cant find anyother reason to sms her already..further more i dont wish to let her dislike me. i try to skip lunch inorder to void to meet her during that lunch time. am i doing the right thing?? i don know? but i just feel that i really like her alot... so what should i do? just wait for her?one day, i went to pray to the god for advice and the god give me a list of word''On the 1st of the month,the moon is merely a thin strip. on the 15th day.it become round and bright.wait till the time comes,be patient.'' so what you guy/girls think?please advice.
Dun be sad lah, i understand how you feel. Try to think that you are not alone in this world facing this kind of love problems. There are alot of misfortunate ppl in the hospital. Imagine that you are one of the SARS paitents now, and your conditions is getting worst. Will you still think of this problem, will you still feel heart pain? Try to appreciate simple things in life, like your parents and family members, they also love you.
Try to read up books which can inspires you. Maybe you can try Chicken Soup for the Soul, or some biography of some famous person.You may find that your troubled heart will open up. Try to see things with a open mind.
Life is full of ups and down. Cheer up there are many things waiting for you man!! -
But this feeling is not come as you like you know. suddenly had this feeling den further more we both crush on to each other ... i thought was a happy ending but... hai... that why i am so heartbroken.ALEAST if pui pui, i got sars i will know what i am going to do next as to complete my life by doing the thing i wanted but.... now i do know what can i do... will affect my future or not . you got my point???Originally posted by Umikun:Harlow Honda Rider,
Dun be sad lah, i understand how you feel. Try to think that you are not alone in this world facing this kind of love problems. There are alot of misfortunate ppl in the hospital. Imagine that you are one of the SARS paitents now, and your conditions is getting worst. Will you still think of this problem, will you still feel heart pain? Try to appreciate simple things in life, like your parents and family members, they also love you.
Try to read up books which can inspires you. Maybe you can try Chicken Soup for the Soul, or some biography of some famous person.You may find that your troubled heart will open up. Try to see things with a open mind.
Life is full of ups and down. Cheer up there are many things waiting for you man!! -
have fun?? aha! in a sense of what?play with all the guy and hurt more issit? den you will see forum of i have been dumped by winky coming out!aha.Originally posted by winky:cos at some point of time, i feel lost too. as a female point of view, i can tell u that sometimes, i feel that the bfs i had they were very good to me already. of cos they are not perfect, but, they are good people whom i loved. but, sometimes i feel that i don't wanna settle down with a guy so fast, even if he is a wonderful guy... i feel wanna 'play' first. but, if i were to meet any of my (good) ex-bfs, i would have no qualms about getting married with them, but, current moment, i still wanna have some fun first....
sometimes, i will think this way. sometimes i will think of what i'll do when i'm married to one of them. blah, blah, blah... -
i'm just stating the possibilities.... don't need to get to worked up. its not as if i've never been dumped anyway.Originally posted by hONdA_rIDeR:have fun?? aha! in a sense of what?play with all the guy and hurt more issit? den you will see forum of i have been dumped by winky coming out!aha. -
Cos maybe i am feeling so down, i am sorry. i understand but try to really know what if the person were you.den you will really know how we got a bloody strong blow inside us.Originally posted by winky:i'm just stating the possibilities.... don't need to get to worked up. its not as if i've never been dumped anyway.
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hey brother, i understand how u feel. i got dumped twice before too.Originally posted by hONdA_rIDeR:Cos maybe i am feeling so down, i am sorry. i understand but try to really know what if the person were you.den you will really know how we got a bloody strong blow inside us.
the first one was a change of heart, i feel so betrayed. at least, i could have a feeling to focus on, thats hatred. but, the second one was all of a sudden like urs. no warning or what, just dumped me like that. he was like my world then, my like revolved around him. and suddenly, he just wrote me a letter and that's it, refused to take my calls.
i was wondering what i did wrong. y does he has to do this to me? what am i not good at? i want a chance to change, to do anything for him, but, he just disappeared in my life. leaving me to rot alone.
those were the most difficult times of my life. the loneliness that seeps in every night, the busy street filled with loving couples are all too painful for me to see. but, i got a life to carry on.
at first, i pretend to be strong. i want to be able to carry on living as if nothing has happened, and even living better than what i was like than i was with him. only one person knew how weak i was.
i hate to admit it, but, the breakup with the second guy turn me into a wild girl who loves having fun a lot. and i enjoy (after the sorrow times) myself with my friends who gave lotsa support for me.
maybe because i see myself as nothing to lose, i mean what was most important to me then had already gone, what else does it matter?
i throw away all the norms, all the proper stuff and start doing things i like. i enjoy doing it for the fun of it, which people will not do because its not the norms.... but who cares, i like it that way.
and its was thru this, i start to build back what i had lost after the breakup - my self-confidence, my self-esteem.
i hope to inspire u to pick up urself again. this is a true story about myself, not spinned to help u, but, told to help u realise there's more to life than a person who doesn't appreciate u.
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but,the whole thing is that she just like hinting me that i still have the chance but its still not ripe yet... and noy sure what she wants too...making me feeling very uneasy and confused about her. Maybe god could let a girl appear and make me forget her and make me really feel that she or me not worth for her/me... den i will give up.. as advice from god before as i felt terrible, advice me to be patient. hai........how??( Answer by bugis temple there)Originally posted by winky:hey brother, i understand how u feel. i got dumped twice before too.
the first one was a change of heart, i feel so betrayed. at least, i could have a feeling to focus on, thats hatred. but, the second one was all of a sudden like urs. no warning or what, just dumped me like that. he was like my world then, my like revolved around him. and suddenly, he just wrote me a letter and that's it, refused to take my calls.
i was wondering what i did wrong. y does he has to do this to me? what am i not good at? i want a chance to change, to do anything for him, but, he just disappeared in my life. leaving me to rot alone.
those were the most difficult times of my life. the loneliness that seeps in every night, the busy street filled with loving couples are all too painful for me to see. but, i got a life to carry on.
at first, i pretend to be strong. i want to be able to carry on living as if nothing has happened, and even living better than what i was like than i was with him. only one person knew how weak i was.
i hate to admit it, but, the breakup with the second guy turn me into a wild girl who loves having fun a lot. and i enjoy (after the sorrow times) myself with my friends who gave lotsa support for me.
maybe because i see myself as nothing to lose, i mean what was most important to me then had already gone, what else does it matter?
i throw away all the norms, all the proper stuff and start doing things i like. i enjoy doing it for the fun of it, which people will not do because its not the norms.... but who cares, i like it that way.
and its was thru this, i start to build back what i had lost after the breakup - my self-confidence, my self-esteem.
i hope to inspire u to pick up urself again. this is a true story about myself, not spinned to help u, but, told to help u realise there's more to life than a person who doesn't appreciate u. -
maybe she's not ready... wait a while... in the meantime, do some soul-searching... be totally honest with yourself
be well yah?Originally posted by hONdA_rIDeR:but,the whole thing is that she just like hinting me that i still have the chance but its still not ripe yet... and noy sure what she wants too...making me feeling very uneasy and confused about her. Maybe god could let a girl appear and make me forget her and make me really feel that she or me not worth for her/me... den i will give up.. as advice from god before as i felt terrible, advice me to be patient. hai........how??( Answer by bugis temple there) -
soul research of what? like???i know she is not ready that why. hai!!