i have been dumped!! ARGggggg.......
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hmmm... you are right...all human are selfish.but now... i am feeling really better than the usual time... don know why?... hmmmm...feeling normal...sometime. when i am lame... i really will think back ...all those shit... hai!maybe you cereal you can keep me accompany... lor...Originally posted by ^cereal^:That's to leave for herself an alternative, should one day she feels she's lonely and needs companion. She knows she's got you in the net. It can happen to not just you, but other guys as well, I hope you get what I mean.
Although I'm giving her the benefit of the doubt, still I don't think anyone should treat someone whom they consider special this way. When we think this person is special, shouldn't we take the extra effort to treasure/care/love for him/her? Why go around breaking people's heart if he/she is really that special? If so, then I think the word 'Special' has been misused/abused. I don't 'test water' with someone special and then telling him a couple of weeks later 'Sorry, I don't think I can be with anyone now.' It's clearly the case of a rebound r/s and then she realised you're just not the one. All those are sweet nothings to make you hang around, that's as simple as that.
Honda, think about it... Cast away all you have, think logically and rationally. Don't becoz of a few sentences, your whole life goes awy again... If you have a friend facing the similar situation, what will your advice be?
Lastly, I should say all human beings are selfish.
she told me that she ahve not kissed anyone before... for all her ex.... do i have to trust her?? as she really look and react like one... hmmm... that time she kiss on my cheek was her first virgin kiss....hai... -
I think somethings there is no point in finding out the truth... just got to believe in what she says... with freedom comes responsibilities...
Maybe you can think it in the sense that she is good enough to stop here when she feels that she has been unfair to you??? -
let's give her the benefit of the doubt, though it's hard to convince myself that bf and gf never did kiss throughout the r/s...
oh well, sometimes, its best to let sleeping dogs lie, yeah? the more you know, the more you think, the more you think, the more you'll hang on to it...
yes, of coz i will be ard whenever i can, i try to be no matter how much work i have got... u can be sure to find me ard somewhr yeah?
Originally posted by hONdA_rIDeR:hmmm... you are right...all human are selfish.but now... i am feeling really better than the usual time... don know why?... hmmmm...feeling normal...sometime. when i am lame... i really will think back ...all those shit... hai!maybe you cereal you can keep me accompany... lor... she told me that she ahve not kissed anyone before... for all her ex.... do i have to trust her?? as she really look and react like one... hmmm... that time she kiss on my cheek was her first virgin kiss....hai... -
hmmm..... as all her r/s are all very short...there is one.... longest is a year... don know...lah...yap... the more i think the more i hang on.... hai......... going to clear my leave soon... don know what to do leh..... any idea??? anyway thank for being with me..hehehOriginally posted by ^cereal^:let's give her the benefit of the doubt, though it's hard to convince myself that bf and gf never did kiss throughout the r/s...
oh well, sometimes, its best to let sleeping dogs lie, yeah? the more you know, the more you think, the more you think, the more you'll hang on to it...
yes, of coz i will be ard whenever i can, i try to be no matter how much work i have got... u can be sure to find me ard somewhr yeah? -
If it's block leave or some sort, then go take a short holiday or something. if it's a short one, then plan a wkend getaway with a couple of close friends, go sentosa, have some sun... watch the beach babes, play beachvolley with them
everything will be fine... the clouds are slowly moving away... rainbow is what comes after the rain.. im seeing rainbow on your side... -
raining days are soon to over.. i hope ...what about you yrself telll me more....??? how yr work?Originally posted by ^cereal^:If it's block leave or some sort, then go take a short holiday or something. if it's a short one, then plan a wkend getaway with a couple of close friends, go sentosa, have some sun... watch the beach babes, play beachvolley with them
everything will be fine... the clouds are slowly moving away... rainbow is what comes after the rain.. im seeing rainbow on your side... -
my day... cant be any better!~
it's already at its best..
bz with school work at the moment... quite some work to do but i think it's quite manageable... taking time to rest whenever i can, recharge myself for the road ahead...
midweek is here.... yippiez!~ another 2 more days to weekend... -
Poly student ?? must be....so where did you hang around at usually??Originally posted by ^cereal^:my day... cant be any better!~ it's already at its best..
bz with school work at the moment... quite some work to do but i think it's quite manageable... taking time to rest whenever i can, recharge myself for the road ahead...
midweek is here.... yippiez!~ another 2 more days to weekend... -
wrong guess.. try again... too old for polytechnic..Originally posted by hONdA_rIDeR:Poly student ?? must be....so where did you hang around at usually??
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NUS or Ntu??Originally posted by ^cereal^:wrong guess.. try again... too old for polytechnic..
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hmmmmmmmm.... two days never msg each other already... kinda..of ... hai!! but ..only sometime ... will think of her only... slowly faded already but there is still a bit of her in me.... how!!!got a few of my work mates... keep asking me... how you and yr girlfren ... i was like... errr.... ! hai... den had a few played me... when... we were having lunch..den happen she came for lunch too... den ... every of my staff was like.... wow... girlfren come already.... make...me so embarrass... make me... keeping mute and keep eating only.
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shouldnt u acknowledge the fact that both of u r no longer together? hiding will further allow u to deceive urself... you dont have to feel embarrass...
somehow it seems to me, you seem to be waiting for a chance, hopefully that she'll patch back with you and then u dun have to disannounce your togetherness...
help yourself before others can help you...Originally posted by hONdA_rIDeR:hmmmmmmmm.... two days never msg each other already... kinda..of ... hai!! but ..only sometime ... will think of her only... slowly faded already but there is still a bit of her in me.... how!!!got a few of my work mates... keep asking me... how you and yr girlfren ... i was like... errr.... ! hai... den had a few played me... when... we were having lunch..den happen she came for lunch too... den ... every of my staff was like.... wow... girlfren come already.... make...me so embarrass... make me... keeping mute and keep eating only. -
hmm... as before we both got togther nobody... know... den further more...someone.. see us been together...den..spread out... and now... nobody... presume that we are still attached. that why! as din know... din she tell anyone...?not aware..but all her work mates when saw me.. thay will like ..smile so sweetly with me.Originally posted by ^cereal^:shouldnt u acknowledge the fact that both of u r no longer together? hiding will further allow u to deceive urself... you dont have to feel embarrass...
somehow it seems to me, you seem to be waiting for a chance, hopefully that she'll patch back with you and then u dun have to disannounce your togetherness...
help yourself before others can help you...