i have been dumped!! ARGggggg.......
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yeah I can understand that.
You are not in a hurry to forget everything, anyway you cant forget everything as well. Don't rush in it, else you'll have reverse effects.
U have all the time to let time to heal your wound, but don't take too long though... you'll be well in no time. Trust me.
Originally posted by hONdA_rIDeR:hmm....sometimes.. i could get over it... but when i have some free times... i am gone... again.. just like a soul...searching for body... feeling very helpless and so lame...i am actally working for furture too.. but still... needed more time to console myself to STOP. -
k.... hope time.. heals. One of my fren advice me to wait for her... den after aperiod ask her again.. will this work..(he say if i feel that she is realli the one) any comment?Originally posted by ^cereal^:yeah I can understand that.
You are not in a hurry to forget everything, anyway you cant forget everything as well. Don't rush in it, else you'll have reverse effects.
U have all the time to let time to heal your wound, but don't take too long though... you'll be well in no time. Trust me.
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It's your call really.. go by your guts feeling. this is something not anyone can tell you what to do.
bear mentioned something along the line of 'love if you want and damn the consequences'
you decide what and how you want to run your life...
quote]Originally posted by hONdA_rIDeR:
k.... hope time.. heals. One of my fren advice me to wait for her... den after aperiod ask her again.. will this work..(he say if i feel that she is realli the one) any comment? [/quote] -
[/b][/quote]Originally posted by ^cereal^:It's your call really.. go by your guts feeling. this is something not anyone can tell you what to do.
bear mentioned something along the line of 'love if you want and damn the consequences'
you decide what and how you want to run your life...
quote]Originally posted by hONdA_rIDeR:
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k.... hope time.. heals. One of my fren advice me to wait for her... den after aperiod ask her again.. will this work..(he say if i feel that she is realli the one) any comment?
thanks...girl... you had been nice to advice... will keep you posted on my detail more... care to join my studio.. and help mi to run... if could... be my new moderator.how about that? -
dont mention, all for that you'll pick urself up soon... next time when i need someone to chant and 'nian jing' to.. i'll come to you
moderator? but i know nuts abt ur studio... then how to help you? what do i have to do?
Originally posted by hONdA_rIDeR:thanks...girl... you had been nice to advice... will keep you posted on my detail more... care to join my studio.. and help mi to run... if could... be my new moderator.how about that? -
no worries... own you one.... hai...just be my new team... its fine that you don know... anything about yr hp... things... just post any topic that you want... k... c ya... welcome abroad to xhristopher's studio.cheers cereal.Originally posted by ^cereal^:dont mention, all for that you'll pick urself up soon... next time when i need someone to chant and 'nian jing' to.. i'll come to you
moderator? but i know nuts abt ur studio... then how to help you? what do i have to do? 
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Originally posted by ^cereal^:
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hai... one week has past.... ! guess what... today...i din msg her... at alll... feeling like... but she din msg me... should i do it?feeling very uneasy.... bearing with sweat....
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*pats pats*
take it easy.. dont be too hard on urself wor...
noone said it's going to be easy anyway... it really takes alot of time, disciplined and effort. but i know u will be able to do it...
hang in there.. all will be fine soon... -
hmmm.... keeping myself very.. busy... hai! this doesn looks like...me... before this girl.. had one... girl too.... i treat her just like princess.... go fetch her from work to home.... and spend as much time as i could....Originally posted by ^cereal^:*pats pats*
take it easy.. dont be too hard on urself wor...
noone said it's going to be easy anyway... it really takes alot of time, disciplined and effort. but i know u will be able to do it...
hang in there.. all will be fine soon... -
cereal... hahaha... guess.. what... she just msg me.... good night..hai! what should i do what should i do ah?hehehehe
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boss, got a quote for u... kinda meaningful..
"When love is in excess, it brings a man not honour nor any worthiness...."
I'm once in your shoes, definitely I understand.
Life was just as tough if not any tougher. For everywhr I went, I saw his footprints. For everything I ate/drink, I saw his shadow. For everything I do, I saw him with me....
Think about it, if its meant to be, after going in rounds, you guys will still be together. If it's not meant to be, you cry your heart out, live a lifeless life, things will not happen...
What you can do is to make the best of your time.
Why am I optimistic about life? It's becoz when I stop to think, I remembered a story sent to me... about how appreciative we will be when we have shoes to wear compared to one who has no feet... there're too many unfortunate people out there and we're considered lucky enough to have loved before... many people don't even have the chance, isn't it?
Please dont be too hard on yourself.. take things one step at a time, wont you? -
well....you always talk round me for a day... hehehe...i understood....time time time....ah..... btw, you sound experience hai... how many love portion have you got?Originally posted by ^cereal^:boss, got a quote for u... kinda meaningful..
"When love is in excess, it brings a man not honour nor any worthiness...."
I'm once in your shoes, definitely I understand.
Life was just as tough if not any tougher. For everywhr I went, I saw his footprints. For everything I ate/drink, I saw his shadow. For everything I do, I saw him with me....
Think about it, if its meant to be, after going in rounds, you guys will still be together. If it's not meant to be, you cry your heart out, live a lifeless life, things will not happen...
What you can do is to make the best of your time.
Why am I optimistic about life? It's becoz when I stop to think, I remembered a story sent to me... about how appreciative we will be when we have shoes to wear compared to one who has no feet... there're too many unfortunate people out there and we're considered lucky enough to have loved before... many people don't even have the chance, isn't it?
Please dont be too hard on yourself.. take things one step at a time, wont you? -
I learn from experience. Learn with a open mind... Afterall life's ordeals are meant to make one better and stronger... and there're many other things in life which I wanna do, have to do... setting priorities is what you can do now, like me? I'm doing fine, so can you...
As to love potions, I've got a bagful of them if you ever needed one...Originally posted by hONdA_rIDeR:well....you always talk round me for a day... hehehe...i understood....time time time....ah..... btw, you sound experience hai... how many love portion have you got? -
hmmmmm... yap... trying to be like you... now... setting all priorites..... no worries... will listen yr lovely advice... if the spell works on me.....hai.... going to rest tok to you tomorrow... chao!... have an early nites... don work too had...k... will increase yr pay..if could..heheheheOriginally posted by ^cereal^:I learn from experience. Learn with a open mind... Afterall life's ordeals are meant to make one better and stronger... and there're many other things in life which I wanna do, have to do... setting priorities is what you can do now, like me? I'm doing fine, so can you...
As to love potions, I've got a bagful of them if you ever needed one...
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yeah..!! don't let my effort go down to drain...
/casts 'Life is B.E.A.U.Tiful' and 'Positive Outlook' spell on hONdA_rIDeROriginally posted by hONdA_rIDeR:hmmmmm... yap... trying to be like you... now... setting all priorites..... no worries... will listen yr lovely advice... if the spell works on me.....hai.... going to rest tok to you tomorrow... chao!... have an early nites... don work too had...k... will increase yr pay..if could..hehehehe -
Guess what? Bang on to her today... at the lift....just smile to each other only ... din talk or asked any question.... but... she still smile as beautiful as she is......hai!hehehee
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hmmmmmmmm..... guess that i and her...are damn... funny... sometimes.. when i never msg her but... she will msg me... does this mean anything?
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maybe she wants the friendship? maybe wants some attention?
hm... dun read too much into it. just treat her a normal friend? i think it'll be better for you that way...Originally posted by hONdA_rIDeR:hmmmmmmmm..... guess that i and her...are damn... funny... sometimes.. when i never msg her but... she will msg me... does this mean anything? -
Its good that she does msg u when u didnt in the sense that she is putting some effort in to sustain the friendship that she wanted... mine didnt even reply when i msg her... needless to say about her msg me when i didnt... and she says want to be friends...
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hmmm... k.. as before we broke up... she say.. she still like me... issit... that the reason... i think.hai?Originally posted by Imperfect:Its good that she does msg u when u didnt in the sense that she is putting some effort in to sustain the friendship that she wanted... mine didnt even reply when i msg her... needless to say about her msg me when i didnt... and she says want to be friends... -
hmmm... k.. as before we broke up... she say.. she still like me... issit... that the reason... i think.hai?Originally posted by Imperfect:Its good that she does msg u when u didnt in the sense that she is putting some effort in to sustain the friendship that she wanted... mine didnt even reply when i msg her... needless to say about her msg me when i didnt... and she says want to be friends... -
Hmmm... hello everyone and cereal.. just had a chat with her by sms.... she told me that at the moment,being with someone is not the life that she is looking for.she don wan to put in emotions and stuffs now when she is trying to get over the previous.hai........... in think she still loves the previous guy. den i ask her was is a game or was that a prank being with me for a moment she say its wasnt a prank nor a game.. it was serious and she just cant be with anyone right now.lasty she still say ashe still regard me as a someone special.hai......why must all girl think... like that, make guys confuse cum heartbroke only.
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That's to leave for herself an alternative, should one day she feels she's lonely and needs companion. She knows she's got you in the net. It can happen to not just you, but other guys as well, I hope you get what I mean.
Although I'm giving her the benefit of the doubt, still I don't think anyone should treat someone whom they consider special this way. When we think this person is special, shouldn't we take the extra effort to treasure/care/love for him/her? Why go around breaking people's heart if he/she is really that special? If so, then I think the word 'Special' has been misused/abused. I don't 'test water' with someone special and then telling him a couple of weeks later 'Sorry, I don't think I can be with anyone now.' It's clearly the case of a rebound r/s and then she realised you're just not the one. All those are sweet nothings to make you hang around, that's as simple as that.
Honda, think about it... Cast away all you have, think logically and rationally. Don't becoz of a few sentences, your whole life goes awy again... If you have a friend facing the similar situation, what will your advice be?
Lastly, I should say all human beings are selfish.Originally posted by hONdA_rIDeR:Hmmm... hello everyone and cereal.. just had a chat with her by sms.... she told me that at the moment,being with someone is not the life that she is looking for.she don wan to put in emotions and stuffs now when she is trying to get over the previous.hai........... in think she still loves the previous guy. den i ask her was is a game or was that a prank being with me for a moment she say its wasnt a prank nor a game.. it was serious and she just cant be with anyone right now.lasty she still say ashe still regard me as a someone special.hai......why must all girl think... like that, make guys confuse cum heartbroke only.