ohh haha dun forget guys who instead, go n talk to their jock frens abt their problems & seek solutions from them! *hilarity ensues*Originally posted by Lingos:
Yeah..
Post another hate women thread!
I think guys tend to keep stuff to themselves.If they feel hurt, they resolve it themselves instead of advertising it on the web.
Errr......have U just been jilted???Originally posted by the_don:men are assholes, bastards, scum of the earth, lying devils, no better then the pad that holds the monthly blood!!!!!
~ a gal devotes her life to you, you take her for granted
~ a gal trusts you, you lie to her
~ wife carries your child, you can only think of where to get the next fcuk
~ she trust you over a long distance relationship and you go look for 'fun'
~ you lie she is the only one when you are still fooling around with another
~ who the hell gave you the right to raise your hand against her?
go fcuk your own kind !
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fine print: those who know who is chasing me, he did none of the above. he is concerned that he will be viewed as a baddy so i am adding this to maintain his innocence.
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Oh yeash.. how can i forget.Originally posted by True_Xerion:ohh haha dun forget guys who instead, go n talk to their jock frens abt their problems & seek solutions from them! *hilarity ensues*
Originally posted by Lingos:Oh yeash.. how can i forget.
It should go something like this.
Dude.. sweet..
dude... sweet.
Where's my car?
Originally posted by the_don:thank you all who contributed their flames to this thread, it's been an eye opener.
thank you all who contributed their support to this thread, it's been comforting.
thank you all who tried to sit on the fence whether by choice or watever, it's been good hearing it.
thank you most of all to a few (and i really meant few) who know the whole picture and understand the reasons to this post.
finally i want to say this,i never said ladies are angels but fact remains men are scum.
Not all guys are like that lah...I know gals who did the same thing to their bf/hubby other than the get pregnant part...Originally posted by the_don:men are assholes, bastards, scum of the earth, lying devils, no better then the pad that holds the monthly blood!!!!!
~ a gal devotes her life to you, you take her for granted
~ a gal trusts you, you lie to her
~ wife carries your child, you can only think of where to get the next fcuk
~ she trust you over a long distance relationship and you go look for 'fun'
~ you lie she is the only one when you are still fooling around with another
~ who the hell gave you the right to raise your hand against her?
go fcuk your own kind !
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fine print: those who know who is chasing me, he did none of the above. he is concerned that he will be viewed as a baddy so i am adding this to maintain his innocence.
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i hope tt one dae, u will meet someone who will convince u otherwise.Originally posted by the_don:finally i want to say this,i never said ladies are angels but fact remains men are scum.
i hope tt one dae, u will meet someone who will convince u otherwise.Originally posted by the_don:finally i want to say this,i never said ladies are angels but fact remains men are scum.
Originally posted by wuming78:i hope tt one dae, u will meet someone who will convince u otherwise.
hm.. erm.. its realli not worth it changing ur sexual orientation cos of one particular person or a few persons whom u met rite...? it wil be like becoming exactly wat they wan u to become!Originally posted by the_don:if that day comes it would probably be a girl.
Isn't that the classic victim mentality? In the end it still takes two hands to clap. If abused ladies insist on staying in abusive relationships with half-witted neandertals because they want their partner to be happy, then it's their funeral and choice isn't it?Originally posted by the_don:i'm just stating facts about what men do. [/quote]
Maybe you would like some of the burnt gentlemen here to state facts about what women can do? And then refuse any kind of logic you try to put into them? Like you?women who love their men often suffer in silence. victims? yes they are! in order to keep a r/s, i've seen some extremes gal are willing to go. all these just so the men is happy. but are they? NO, they ask for more and do things that does injustice to the love these women give. these women are willing to be 'victims' in hope the men of their life is happy and well, are they really victims then? i may agree they are silly but never victims. it takes a lot of selfless-ness and love to sacrific the way they did.
Isn't that great? The perfect solution then? The problem with plenty of girls is that they go into a relationship with a shifty character with all heart and no brains, take no measures to guard themselves, and then blame everything when things fall apart.i am woman as that is wat is on my birth ceritificate. i don't believe in all that mambo jumbo about gal power and equality. what i believe is to treat the one you love with love. if you don't love her, please don't even start. if you don't know how to love her, think and ask. if you expect the gal to be faithful, you have to be faithful. if you intend to fool around, you better let your other half know and be prepared you will get the same treatment.
i never said all guys are against me. even if they are i don't care. i am not bothered with scum.
Originally posted by wuming78:hm.. erm.. its realli not worth it changing ur sexual orientation cos of one particular person or a few persons whom u met rite...? it wil be like becoming exactly wat they wan u to become!
oh ok.. tts good.Originally posted by the_don:i was just kidding about the gal part. i am still straight as an arrow
Originally posted by SingaporeTyrannosaur:
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Maybe you would like some of the burnt gentlemen here to state facts about what women can do? And then refuse any kind of logic you try to put into them? Like you?
Isn't that the classic victim mentality? In the end it still takes two hands to clap. If abused ladies insist on staying in abusive relationships with half-witted neandertals because they want their partner to be happy, then it's their funeral and choice isn't it?
If it's their sacrifice is so selfless and loving, then why on earth are you complaining about it? After all, there are plenty of exit routes from such a situtation and they by personal choice, are choosing to stay in it. This is hardly selfless love I'm afraid, it is a show of emotional dependancy, disfunction and depravity on the girls' part to stay in such a destructive relationship.
What did they expect? That such a person will treat them better with time? I'm afraid this is the real world. If you cannot take responsibility for your own situtation, or worse, decide to stay in their mire when they can jolly well escape, it's their own fault as much as it is their abusive partner.
What's more tragic is that there are plenty of gentlemen out there who know how to honour their partners that can treat these girls better but they are being demonized because of their neandertal counterparts.
As long as you refuse to take responsibility and actions for your situtation and yet insist that things change for you, don't expect much sympaty to your opinions, for they are clearly biased and illogical, based more on emotions then logic.
Yep, the true victim mentality.
Isn't that great? The perfect solution then? The problem with plenty of girls is that they go into a relationship with a shifty character with all heart and no brains, take no measures to guard themselves, and then blame everything when things fall apart.
Why would a girl get into a relationship with a guy that does not honor her? And worse, why on earth would she want to stay in one when it is obvious that the person treats her no more then a plaything? There is no emotional bond or relationship, it is an unhealthy emotional dependancy.
When you can't quit smoking just by blaming the sticks, citing great moral ideas and systems and then take no action yourself.
That's your problem you see. By refusing to see things as they really are, and keep shooting from your own biased point of view, you will never see the truth and hence hit the wrong people. For all your screaming, I doubt you served anything other then to tell a S.O.B.S of an emotionally damaged, dependent lady who blames everything but herself.
Plenty of solutions are already there, and as any social worker can tell you, mindlessly screaming nonsense about men is hardly one of them. If you want to contuine to get burned by fire by standing close to it citing tales of selfless love ironically at the same time hurling abuse at the very thing you are supposed to "love" selflessly, then be my guest.
Oh, so what are you implying exactly? That they do not exist?
Let me put your amazingly flawed logic to the test:
A good doctor will automatically treat a patient well and heal him. If there were such doctors around then there will be nobody dying and suffering.
Nuff said. Please...
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heh i didn't know there is a Headlines competition for sgForums lol! Eberydae i learn something new!Originally posted by Parka:This has got to be one of the nominees for "Headline of the Year"
Originally posted by jOhO:just how many women do u think you are doing a favour for? really?
i mean perhaps many of ur female friends and relatives have had major problems with men, i don't know, but from where i'm standing, i dun see many of the womenfolk i know suffering. these are the women closest to me, one of which is my mother, whom will be celebrating her 30th wedding anniversary with my father (of course!) and that is why i'm going back to australia next month. if my mum tells me (or anyone else) she has suffered all these years, i will take my head and offer it to u on a platter.
so back to the question, how many women do you think u are speaking up for? pls, first you drill half the population 10ft into the ground, then u put words into the mouths of a significant percentage of whoever's left over (the women).
and a statement i always like to present to enstranged women like urself: since men suck so much, i never ever want to see u married. for YOUR sake. this is not meant to be a curse at all.
Originally posted by True_Xerion:hmm okies peeps; sorry to break up what seems like a potential flamefest here but mayhaps we shld let this topic die? Don wants to be flamed and uhh, if she's not gonna provide any1 with info abt what happened etc etc, no1 can advise any better ..... Everything is gonna be based on if's and maybe's.
my 2 cts,
TX