Lecture 3 : The Fine Art of Flirting
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Flirting is a form of communication that shows appreciation, attraction, and/or interest. It is of the moment and should be offered WITHOUT long-term goals! When you flirt, have only flirting in mind. Don't think about what it could turn into, because you should flirt for the enjoyment of putting your positive feelings out there for someone to enjoy. Flirting should be genuine and sincere, not flighty and irresponsible. The ability to flirt is the ability to take control of yourself and have an impact on the world! I can't stress enough that flirting is to make someone else feel good about themselves. When properly achieved, it is healthy, enjoyable, and refreshing for both people involved.
Now I suppose the greatest question is "How do I flirt?!?" Good, because that's my next answer! Two BIG words: EYE CONTACT! I cannot possibly cover this one enough. It is the absolute most important part of flirting! Make eye contact with your target. Glance away on occasion - this is very important because otherwise you'll appear to be staring. Once you've established eye contact, smile. REALLY smile - not the little grin you offer your teacher when you hand in a test - offer a heartfelt smile. A smile is the primary form of nonverbal flirting!
Other forms of nonverbal flirting
The Wink 
- There is only one rule for winking i.e. Wink Only Once. This is very important! If you wink more than once, you're not flirting, you're getting something out of your eye. 
Body Positioning - Make yourself look friendly. Don't stand straight and cross your arms. That says "GO AWAY!". Lean a bit and splay your arms and legs about as if to say "COME ON OVER!" Twirling Objects - From drinking straws to ink pens and peanuts, twirling or fiddling shows you're a little nervous - it's important to make your target feel more comfortable and less like a target. The Touch - Feathery touches and minimal grooming gestures (such as flicking a piece of dust off of a jacket) are a way to show interest. Use good judgment here, as you don't want to invade your target's "space". Mimic body language - Don't be a parrot, but if your target shifts to the left leg, you shift the same direction (your right). It's another subconscious way to set your target at ease.
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oh no....let's hope he has response or Skinny beanie is going to come here n tear down our sign board.....Originally posted by skinnybeanie:hmmm.... hubby shall b guinea pig 2nite -
can u be our Adjunct Trustee cum Lecturer?Originally posted by skinnybeanie:hmmm.... hubby shall b guinea pig 2nite 
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wont lah, will only bash hubby up for not respondingOriginally posted by harryryan:oh no....let's hope he has response or Skinny beanie is going to come here n tear down our sign board.....
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Originally posted by Master -_-:can u be our Adjunct Trustee cum Lecturer?
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our 1st online student!Originally posted by skinnybeanie:hmmm.... hubby shall b guinea pig 2nite -
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ha....first buayaette...me first buaya...he...he....Originally posted by skeujin:our 1st online student! -
i think i need lessons
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u buaya or buayette?guy or gal....me need to register ur name for e course....how come me like become COB secertary liao.... -_-"Originally posted by sillyme:i think i need lessons -
we r a volunteer association. we appreciate all the help we can get.Originally posted by harryryan:u buaya or buayette?guy or gal....me need to register ur name for e course....how come me like become COB secertary liao.... -_-" -
we even have testimonials to prove it
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oh mr harryryan,
u haven't been a good student.. by now you still dunno i'm a guy or girl?Originally posted by harryryan:u buaya or buayette?guy or gal....me need to register ur name for e course....how come me like become COB secertary liao.... -_-" -
Originally posted by sillyme:oh mr harryryan,
u haven't been a good student.. by now you still dunno i'm a guy or girl? -
i feel asleep during that lesson....Originally posted by sillyme:oh mr harryryan,
u haven't been a good student.. by now you still dunno i'm a guy or girl? -
dozed off? i wonder how the buaya teachers handle students who dozed offOriginally posted by harryryan:i feel asleep during that lesson....
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they didn't notice n now that the lesson is over liao....they cannot do anything about it...ha...ha...... man i'm evil.Originally posted by sillyme:dozed off? i wonder how the buaya teachers handle students who dozed off -
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