Need help on friends :(
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just act normal .. give her some private space to think also, but also give her maybe some messages from time to time to show that u are always there for her :D
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Originally posted by Bluepop:
My best friend, broke up with her bf just three days ago kept on crying when we talk on phone. I tried to comfort her but I didn't go into relationship before so I think my way of comforting didn't rly make any difference. What to do? I feel so sad seeing her like this.
I feel you.
However, not all the times we can give what others need. There is no correct or wrong ways of comforting. Perhaps the comfort she needs is not something you could give. Let her know you are there for her. She will feel it.
If you want to help her, try not to get affected by her emotions.
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Be there for her! Just let her cry it out and go k-box sing your lungs out! Time, no matter how long, will heal all wounds.
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do ur best
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Sometimes if we can't say anything good, better we keep quiet but company her. All she need is a listening ear. If we keep pitying them, they end up won't wake up and they can't help themselves. Life is cruel, if they can't survive over a break ups, how they supposed to say "life must go on"?
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Listen to her~
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Important for that person to have a bit of idle time to sort out her thoughts tho
sometimes if u always pester her to go out or do whatever thing, she might notice ur good intentions, but youll seem like "sweet but annoying"
it wont hurt to get rid of the annoying bit
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just try go some where at peace place where you can get some peace and try to sort our the difference
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Bring her out and participate in leisure. It will help in distracting her
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Give her time, be supportive, and just be there to let her know that you will always be there for her!