She is just not your type.
that's just really shallow
If your not attracted to her, it's not your fault. As one poster above stated, if she doesn't take care of appearance, than what else is lacking??
It would have been nicer to judge her based on her personality rather than her looks :/
Got rejected for that reason before then I lose weight and he regret. But too bad
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Just say" i am sorry but i appreciate that you confessed to me, thank you, but i don't accept you. We can be just friends okey?"
I know a woman in her early 30s. She's fat and not so pretty. So that why she still single until now??
i think being "fat" sometimes is one of the many indicators of one's health and personality.
there is never a good enough excuse for someone to stop exercising and stay healthy.
but of course, it still boils down to what you seek for in your partner. being happy together is still the most important of all.
cheers
I'm VietNamese ,and I'm dating SG guy right now ~
First ,yeah ~ may be I'm the chubby type ,and he says ,yes ,chubby is my type ,so I love your chubby . Time fly ~ 1.5 y ago ~ he said ,you're fat so why I hate you ? ~ damn
I'm not your toy , you like because i'm chubby ,and when you dont like chubby anymore ,you hate me ~~ :)))
So I try to renew myself , 3 weeks for lost 12kg . everyone say i'm really lost so much but hr still not ,nope ,you re fat . first ,im 65kg ~ now im 49kg -158cm+_+
Yeah ~ problem is not fat or not ,just because men change ~~
I still dating him but , yeah ~ im not lose by him anymore .
i will say its up to your preferences to reject a girl if shes not up to your standards.
but please put it nicely and dont break her heart
No shit everyone has does it before. End of the day, what you're looking at is physical appearances, not the personality bullshit.
Originally posted by Pearly.Mh:I know a woman in her early 30s. She's fat and not so pretty. So that why she still single until now??
assumption?
Greetings ! Not sure if I may double post this as my previous reply was not displayed.
If a guy rejects a girl who is fat or ugly , he is deemed to be heartless and shallow , women will demand that we MEN accept their flaws and that it would be morally obligated to do so . However , when a fat or ugly guy is rejected by the girl , guess what ? It's the guy's fault for being a delusional lazy slob and therefore the girl has all the rights to reject him and to DEMAND a better suitor . You see where I'm going with this ? Most of society accepts this kinds of double standards but you don't have to . So do not feel bad for rejecting a girl whom you are not physically attracted to for they will not even hesitate to shrug you off when the same is done to them . I must emphasis that inner beauty is truly what's most impt but , these days , finding a group of unicorns and flying pigs having a tea party with the three little pigs is easier then finding a genuinely decent girl that is right for you ! Hope I helped .
Originally posted by sgmonster:Got anyone here reject at least one girl before just because she's ugly or fat?
Beauty is not seen on the outside,
Yes, because I'm doing her a favor by not wasting her time.
when you grew older, it is more on personaility
The only time I rejected a girl was not because she was ugly. For me, behavior is more important.
Actually, one's inner self determines her beauty. Trust me, those who knows manner are beautiful and good looking.
I believe there are ugly girls (contrary to many replies in this topic). Those who knows no manner, greedy, angry, etc are less attractive.
But this is also depends on your own self. A good person can only be attracted with another good person. A bad person can be attracted with both good and bad.