Is there a way to win ex back.
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Originally posted by troublemaker2005:
so not trhue
where you gt this idea 1? wikipedia or readers' digest?
From the book, Trouble with guys, by John Hopkins -
actually i am a sexy office lady. online i have to pretend to be dirty uncle - so you got secrets tell me pm me.
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Originally posted by troublemaker2005:
actually i am a sexy office lady. online i have to pretend to be dirty uncle - so you got secrets tell me pm me.
If I believe you, pigs can fly -
Hi, after some thoughts and attempt, i decided to move on. My last straw is when i asked her for 10min of her time to chat, and she get irritated and accused me for distrusting her that she really had no time even 10min to chat. And she can posted on her fb, chilling out and clubbing.
Sighz.. i still love her deeply, i guess it really no point for me to hang on if she become irritated and her indifferent attitude toward me.
Thank guys. I been recently reading up this book "The 5 love languages" I picked up a few notes from this book. There are 5 different type of ways to be love or being feel loved. 1.Act of services, 2.Words of affirmations, 3.Quality time, 4.Touchs, 5 gifts.
Each of us have a primary love language which might be different. From this book, i came to realise, i am a "act of service" person, I alway thought doing things for her, driving her from work and help her with her work is love and care for her. But i think all she wants is "Quality time" and words of affirmation which i fail to realise.
=) i guess i learn from this mistake and trying to read more on the differences. Guys are from Mars afterall. We think logic, but i think next time I have to settle the lady's emotionals feeling before i fill up with my logic. Quarrels could just be avoided.
Cheers.
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Originally posted by BadzMaro:
Interesting.. logic and emotion. Are u vulcan by any chance ?
I think you are just a little too late. I see that you begged.... but have you cried? On you knee's all teary and puffy eyed swearing to heaven and hell your undying devotion and sacrifice and never again be who you were.
No lah. i didnt. In fact because of my ego, when she initated the breakup, i agreed suarvely. Only then i realise i cant lose her.Nope, i have not done anyting bad toward her. Mabe my words i said to her makes her feel insecures and cried. And yesh, i did foolish things, acting cute to ease up our tension but ending up she feel more irritated before the breakup.
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Originally posted by infernolord:
No lah. i didnt. In fact because of my ego, when she initated the breakup, i agreed suarvely. Only then i realise i cant lose her.Nope, i have not done anyting bad toward her. Mabe my words i said to her makes her feel insecures and cried. And yesh, i did foolish things, acting cute to ease up our tension but ending up she feel more irritated before the breakup.
Ya know what is the men's biggest mistake?Always self blaming and saying the woman is right.
Well, I got news for you, the woman is just as wrong as the man.
You done the right thing, move on. She's a bitch.
But there is something better you should do.
Go find a vietnamese girl friend. They are more subservient. Malaysian and singaporean women are bitches.
Ask Aneslayer, he concurs.
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So bias, hope u get a cheating viet gal..good luck
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Originally posted by speakoutfor:
Ya know what is the men's biggest mistake?Always self blaming and saying the woman is right.
Well, I got news for you, the woman is just as wrong as the man.
You done the right thing, move on. She's a bitch.
But there is something better you should do.
Go find a vietnamese girl friend. They are more subservient. Malaysian and singaporean women are bitches.
Ask Aneslayer, he concurs.
I wouldn't make such a sweeping statement... It takes time and wisdom to know if someone you are interested in is suitable to walk through life together... I was just lucky to have a fantastic wife who happens to be Vietnamese....
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there are some gals, who are kind, understanding and seldom throw tantrums and hard to get angry and pretty too.
these kind of girls are rare to come by, but they exists though. those girls who always throw tantrums and petty and bimbo type, are aplenty in the streets.
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My ex, just posted her new bf photo. I tot i get over her.. but all the sudden, my heart stopped a beat. :(
I viewed her bf fb. Was very disappointed. I really dun understand why she picked him over me.. feel very sad. In comparsion, i think i am much a better looking person, nice and definitely dun see myself losing to him physically.
sighz, the worst part is that, from that guy fb, they already been together only a mth after we broke off!!!! suck!!! i really feel shit!
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Originally posted by infernolord:
My ex, just posted her new bf photo. I tot i get over her.. but all the sudden, my heart stopped a beat. :(
I viewed her bf fb. Was very disappointed. I really dun understand why she picked him over me.. feel very sad. In comparsion, i think i am much a better looking person, nice and definitely dun see myself losing to him physically.
sighz, the worst part is that, from that guy fb, they already been together only a mth after we broke off!!!! suck!!! i really feel shit!
How do you know that he is her new bf? it could be fb misunderstanding -
Originally posted by infernolord:
My ex, just posted her new bf photo. I tot i get over her.. but all the sudden, my heart stopped a beat. :(
I viewed her bf fb. Was very disappointed. I really dun understand why she picked him over me.. feel very sad. In comparsion, i think i am much a better looking person, nice and definitely dun see myself losing to him physically.
sighz, the worst part is that, from that guy fb, they already been together only a mth after we broke off!!!! suck!!! i really feel shit!
Well let's face it dude.
No matter who she chosen, as long as you are not the guy, theres gonna be something u won't like about it.
If her new bf is better looking than u, you 'd say she shallow.
If he has more assets than u, you'd say she materialistic.
If he better looking and has assets, you'd call her a slut. Yes?
The problem is you think too highly of yourself.
You can claim to be mr nice guy, tall dark and handsome, but u did treat her like shit.
So honestly, you pretty much deserved being kicked to the curb by your ex.
A girl just wanna be treated well by her guy, good looks and money are just extra bonuses.
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Originally posted by infernolord:
My ex, just posted her new bf photo. I tot i get over her.. but all the sudden, my heart stopped a beat. :(
I viewed her bf fb. Was very disappointed. I really dun understand why she picked him over me.. feel very sad. In comparsion, i think i am much a better looking person, nice and definitely dun see myself losing to him physically.
sighz, the worst part is that, from that guy fb, they already been together only a mth after we broke off!!!! suck!!! i really feel shit!
Told ya so. Some women are bitches. They just lure you to after her...then she release the whopper on you. Maybe she got some unfinish score to settle..with you.
Fb is garbage. i cut off my fb account. You should do the same for yours.
They jsut showing pics of them together, but in real life who knows? Maybe the new bf, is a sadist, always tie her up and whip her and drop candle wax on her body. Ya think, he would post this in his fb?
Just unfriend both of them. Spare yourself the pain.
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Originally posted by Aneslayer:
I wouldn't make such a sweeping statement... It takes time and wisdom to know if someone you are interested in is suitable to walk through life together... I was just lucky to have a fantastic wife who happens to be Vietnamese....
Its not a sweeping statement, its a fact.I have had chinese and eurasian/east malaysian girlfriends.
I can really see the big contrast.
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how many of each? one 2 or ten sample size out of how many? but its true the chances of getting one truely like you is very slim. you mean in their country don;t have good men meh? for most cases - the reason is uite simple and straight forwaard
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Originally posted by troublemaker2005:
how many of each? one 2 or ten sample size out of how many? but its true the chances of getting one truely like you is very slim. you mean in their country don;t have good men meh? for most cases - the reason is uite simple and straight forwaard
Well, most men like to believe they are better than the other men.
While Sg men condemns SPGs, they don't seem to label foreign chicks that way.. Strange isn't it?
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Well, most men like to believe they are better than the other men.
While Sg men condemns SPGs, they don't seem to label foreign chicks that way.. Strange isn't it?
its these men that anyhow pick foreign talents to marry that encourages gahmen to import them in with the open arse policies. if our men hold, these talents will never succeed, then gahmen will really sit down and resolve the issue of low birth rate. -
Originally posted by speakoutfor:
Its not a sweeping statement, its a fact.I have had chinese and eurasian/east malaysian girlfriends.
I can really see the big contrast.
sometimes its your size, pattern positon and skill levels that matters. -
Originally posted by angel7030:
So bias, hope u get a cheating viet gal..good luck
don't anger .. i sayang u my dear -
Originally posted by troublemaker2005:
don't anger .. i sayang u my dearhave you met up with the real angel7030?
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Originally posted by Jacky Woo:
have you met up with the real angel7030?
Yes I have, she is a very gayish chinese guy with hairy armpits. -
speakoutfor must have PM her, then no reply or rejected or get introduction to gay and prostitute by her, so becum angry post stuff like this. angel's account might be used by multiple parties if heshe was running a genuine gay prostitute business.
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Please do not go out of topic, let help TS to win back his Ex, otherwise he could be the 10th person at Bedok R.
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Originally posted by infernolord:
Hi, after some thoughts and attempt, i decided to move on. My last straw is when i asked her for 10min of her time to chat, and she get irritated and accused me for distrusting her that she really had no time even 10min to chat. And she can posted on her fb, chilling out and clubbing.
Sighz.. i still love her deeply, i guess it really no point for me to hang on if she become irritated and her indifferent attitude toward me.
Thank guys. I been recently reading up this book "The 5 love languages" I picked up a few notes from this book. There are 5 different type of ways to be love or being feel loved. 1.Act of services, 2.Words of affirmations, 3.Quality time, 4.Touchs, 5 gifts.
Each of us have a primary love language which might be different. From this book, i came to realise, i am a "act of service" person, I alway thought doing things for her, driving her from work and help her with her work is love and care for her. But i think all she wants is "Quality time" and words of affirmation which i fail to realise.
=) i guess i learn from this mistake and trying to read more on the differences. Guys are from Mars afterall. We think logic, but i think next time I have to settle the lady's emotionals feeling before i fill up with my logic. Quarrels could just be avoided.
Cheers.
Hi, glad that you finally get liberated from Love, and please do not read too much of those love guru books, it can make one sell and sold his soul, tho men are from Mars and women from Venus, but please, not all men are from Mars, most are from some Bukit Timah hill or pulau Ubin and some from Buangkok green. -
Originally posted by angel7030:
Please do not go out of topic, let help TS to win back his Ex, otherwise he could be the 10th person at Bedok R.
what haven't married wan 2 command me this and dat, married already how?relax, don;t be so tense, i should be the one firm. like that things will work itself out.