3rd day after breakup
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your mother 10 months pregnancy wasn't that easy. take care!
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OK lah, you didn't meant it. But he was waiting for it.
He will go back to you, only when he can't get a replacement for you. Remember that. Otherwise he will be busy with his new attraction.
Suggest you move on, someone will come along.
And its not that you are no good, you are alright, it is just that he is thinking of himself and not you.
Just be glad the relationship is over, because he has quietly stayed for sometime out of pity for you. That's why when you say 'break', pooof! he is gone.
Next time you see him, break his leg, and pity him.
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I didn't use "break" test his love, because i knew it sure won't be successful. Actually most of time he is the one say break, but i didn't agree, because i believed he will fall in love with me one day. However, i found it is impossible n felt more n more tired. that's why i choose break this time. Sometimes people is contradictory, already decided break, but still hope he can come to me n say he love me. Very stupid right?
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Yes, i have to move on... hope i can be brave enough this time to go though this terrible time.. hope one day i meet him, i found my life is more happy without him...
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Ya know. Its much easier for girls to overcome breakup. Why?
1) You have your girlfriends to listen to you and comfort you. People tend to show compassion for girls. But for guys who get breakup, no mercy for them. The guy who whines is considered unmacho. Other guy friends would stay far far away from the guy because guys normally don't like to listen to whinners.
2) Its easier for girls to find replacement. All they have to do is to put on some make-up, long hair and look nice, some fool clueless guy will be magnetically attracted to her. Right away she will get suitors. For guys, after break-up, not only we have to get over it but we also need to go out there and fight with other guys for the girls. The girls get to choose from a pool of 10 guys going after them simultaneously.
3) People tend to show compassion to girls who are heartbroken because they are the "weaker sex". Or are they?
4) As mention all the girl needs to go is to put on some make-up. For guys, we not only need to look handsome but also need to make more money to attract the desired girls we want. We need to have stable jobs, own property, drive nice and fast cars. We compete with other guys who have unfair advantage, such as those who already rich due to rich parents who spoil them with sports and luxury cars and armani business suits. We poor guys are no match against these competitive playboys. Competition is tough.
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Originally posted by speakoutfor:
Ya know. Its much easier for girls to overcome breakup. Why?
1) You have your girlfriends to listen to you and comfort you. People tend to show compassion for girls. But for guys who get breakup, no mercy for them. The guy who whines is considered unmacho. Other guy friends would stay far far away from the guy because guys normally don't like to listen to whinners.
2) Its easier for girls to find replacement. All they have to do is to put on some make-up, long hair and look nice, some fool clueless guy will be magnetically attracted to her. Right away she will get suitors. For guys, after break-up, not only we have to get over it but we also need to go out there and fight with other guys for the girls. The girls get to choose from a pool of 10 guys going after them simultaneously.
3) People tend to show compassion to girls who are heartbroken because they are the "weaker sex". Or are they?
4) As mention all the girl needs to go is to put on some make-up. For guys, we not only need to look handsome but also need to make more money to attract the desired girls we want. We need to have stable jobs, own property, drive nice and fast cars. We compete with other guys who have unfair advantage, such as those who already rich due to rich parents who spoil them with sports and luxury cars and armani business suits. We poor guys are no match against these competitive playboys. Competition is tough.
Hmmm.... some of your points are right, but not all the gal come over easier... i think the one who love more is harder to recover. The one who love more will be hurt more, no matter she or he. Yes, it's not difficult for me to find another guy after leave him. But, i won't be so easy have feeling with replacement. Do you believe that he haven't ever bought me any gift? I'm not such money face, but i really suspect has he ever put me in his heart? I guess you are man, can you answer me this? -
Originally posted by graynimo:
Hmmm.... some of your points are right, but not all the gal come over easier... i think the one who love more is harder to recover. The one who love more will be hurt more, no matter she or he. Yes, it's not difficult for me to find another guy after leave him. But, i won't be so easy have feeling with replacement. Do you believe that he haven't ever bought me any gift? I'm not such money face, but i really suspect has he ever put me in his heart? I guess you are man, can you answer me this?I cannot answer why he didn't buy you any gifts. Maybe you never tell him that you needed them so he felt it not necessary.
Besides, you should be thankful that you don't have any gifts from him so you don't have to stumble upon in his gifts at your room every day and remember back all those painful memories.
At least you can find another guy after a breakup but its difficult for a guy to find a replacement after his breakup. For example, it took anotehr friend 6 years after his girlfriend of 7 years dumped him before he found one and married her.
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Originally posted by speakoutfor:
I cannot answer why he didn't buy you any gifts. Maybe you never tell him that you needed them so he felt it not necessary.
Besides, you should be thankful that you don't have any gifts from him so you don't have to stumble upon in his gifts at your room every day and remember back all those painful memories.
At least you can find another guy after a breakup but its difficult for a guy to find a replacement after his breakup. For example, it took anotehr friend 6 years after his girlfriend of 7 years dumped him before he found one and married her.
I never expect he buy such expensive things to me. Such small n cheap things already can make me very happy, at least it shows he care about me. Maybe you are right, all the good memory become thorns after break. I dislike anyhow find a replacement because of breakup, it will let me feel more bad.. -
Originally posted by graynimo:
I never expect he buy such expensive things to me. Such small n cheap things already can make me very happy, at least it shows he care about me. Maybe you are right, all the good memory become thorns after break. I dislike anyhow find a replacement because of breakup, it will let me feel more bad..
Gifts are not good because after break-up, you don't want to see break-up trinkets in your room. You just want to get rid of them. Unless if its a diamond ring, then its worth keeping for $$$$.You feel bad but after 6 months you be ok, and start hunting for new guy. Don't wait too long because you are ageing by the year.
There are a lot of desperado guys out there.
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Originally posted by speakoutfor:
Gifts are not good because after break-up, you don't want to see break-up trinkets in your room. You just want to get rid of them. Unless if its a diamond ring, then its worth keeping for $$$$.You feel bad but after 6 months you be ok, and start hunting for new guy. Don't wait too long because you are ageing by the year.
There are a lot of desperado guys out there.
Hehe... hope i can remover within 6 months.. but now really no mood to think of other guys.. -
Buddha said u r unhappy because u expect too much.. u should let go...
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I am not going to touch on religion topics but... I am interested in the study of buddhism, particularly on the topic on karma and inner peace.
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Today saw his photo with another gal on fb.. they are so sweet.. my mood just like shit... want to msg him, but i hold back, because i guess he won't like to receive my msg. It's meaningless to keep think whether he love me. The answer is very clear now..
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Originally posted by graynimo:
Today saw his photo with another gal on fb.. they are so sweet.. my mood just like shit…
want to msg him, but i hold back, because i guess he won’t like to receive my msg.It’s meaningless to keep think whether he love me. The answer is very clear now..
U doono how to remove him from fb meh ?
Over already, u still want to stalk him on fb. Are you a psycho chick ?
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need time to recover from a broken heart.
find other things to occupy your time
do some other activities like walking in the park, gatherings with friends, charity work
remove objects that may remind you of him
tell everyone around you that you have broken up with him, starting with your best friend, followed by rest of the world
tell yourself that you can find a better one
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give yourself time, actually i tink deep down you already saw this coming. Just that te blow is still hard to take.
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you should remind yourself why you initiated the breakup.
remind yourself of all the unhappiness that you've endured.
if you have to lie to yourself to make yourself better, then by all means.
there are guys out there willing to make you smile. dont worry, enjoy yourself while you're single.
do things you havent done before. go for a trip with your friend with intention of having fun. go for a trip alone. experience the culture overseas. go see the sun rise, see the sunset, see the simple things in life, see the clouds forming shapes which you've never notice before. treat your parents dinner, treat your friends to drinks. you wana do something, do it! you wana eat something, eat it!
do whatever you want without obligation. have fun!
after my horrible relationship, i went to the whole of taiwan alone for 12days. i mingled with the locals. i had awesome fun! i would go back again after i get a motorbike license.
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I am from taiwan, we are more open in term of relationship, in singapore, the stigma of failure remain strong if one fail miserably in relationship.
It is a culture breed by the society, because Singapore breed perfection, but in the eyes of many other outside, they are the most imperfect,
The education is a race rather than a place to get knowledge, race to be 1st, grade A somemore got AAA or A star star, this is wrong, this only breed peoples unable to withstand the failure in their future life.
In Taiwan, we were taught , since young, that failure is the begining of success. And Acer built on this idealogy
Even my taiwan relatives who visited here tell me, many local looks sour in their face, I told them they ate too much sour plum from taiwan
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If Taiwan didnt kiasu like Sgeans.. they wouldn't be where they are today, that also explains thier decline u know. lol Same with the Koreans.
It's like comparing oranges to apples, when they are both fruits to begin with. lol
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hopefully you find a better one =)
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Originally posted by Jocelyntxh:
hopefully you find a better one =)
Want to find a better one , must first make sure she herself is a better person
Even if she can attract a good guy with her outside appearance, that guy won't stay very long if she has ugly character lah.
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Originally posted by angel7030:
I am from taiwan, we are more open in term of relationship, in singapore, the stigma of failure remain strong if one fail miserably in relationship.
It is a culture breed by the society, because Singapore breed perfection, but in the eyes of many other outside, they are the most imperfect,
The education is a race rather than a place to get knowledge, race to be 1st, grade A somemore got AAA or A star star, this is wrong, this only breed peoples unable to withstand the failure in their future life.
In Taiwan, we were taught , since young, that failure is the begining of success. And Acer built on this idealogy
Even my taiwan relatives who visited here tell me, many local looks sour in their face, I told them they ate too much sour plum from taiwan
Never ever date a taiwanese. They talk cock all the time. "I told them they ate too much sour plum from taiwan"....?????What the hell is that????
Taiwanese women are self centered and only want your money. Sometimes some Taiwanese women who claim to be women in the forum is actually a cross dresser guy (work in a pub all night long with no customers, dress like a girl). A very fat one.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Want to find a better one , must first make sure she herself is a better person
Even if she can attract a good guy with her outside appearance, that guy won't stay very long if she has ugly character lah.
Instantly made me recall a post I saw on facebook
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Originally posted by BadzMaro:
If Taiwan didnt kiasu like Sgeans.. they wouldn't be where they are today, that also explains thier decline u know. lol Same with the Koreans.
It's like comparing oranges to apples, when they are both fruits to begin with. lol
Oranges and apples in actual fact, do not differ much, both are from trees, both alway harvest side by side and place at supermart also side by side, wherever you go, if got oranges, there will be apples, so dun give me the shit about comparing, we are humans, born to make mistake.We can be kiasu, but not kiasee like Singa. And because of Kiasee and kiasu singaporean, that is why your govt open up the floodgates for foreigner to come, to see and to conqueror. Every PRC or Indian coming here think of doing business and earn Sing dollars, it is only the locals that still think how to increase wages, what to do? MNC breeded