Originally posted by jojobeach:Aiyoh.. Here u are ranting off about other lousy parents.. Then u get offended when people say your parents are stupid ? Wow... When was the last time u looked in the mirror?
I got offended ?
fark lah your comprehension skills got problem ah? the ones in that quote aren't even my parents. plus I'm not even malay
I'm just mimicking your behaviour in posting.
Originally posted by jojobeach:Really leh. I heard Indians like to get drunk and beat their wives. Malays beat abuse their children like dogs, thats why they all grow up stupid..although hearsay lah..But dunno true or not wor...
this is why I don't usually dare to say I'm chinese online.
and I'll probably beat you if you're my kid if I see you posting stuff like these
Originally posted by oldbreadstinks:My parents have never had to smack me or my brothers for crying outside, neither have they ever to stop us from crying by buying us what we want.
"NO money, we don't spend so much money on frivious things" end of story
if that's the way you think, please, let the dogs off.
Lol... Don't want to spend on frivolous things ? Hahahaahh ! That's old school way of brushing stupid children off lah... Nowadays children are smarter lah... Old tricks like that don't work anymore lah dude.
Your parents so poor, then don't have kids lor. Children are expensive what.. They have no money to buy condom ? Then give the kids away lor...to someone with money to spend on their children.
Oh, so how do u know not to cry in public? Maybe ur parents will get u that toy if u do? Or maybe they will smack the crap outa u instead ! Heck, u r so full of shit Anyway.
Originally posted by oldbreadstinks:what's my child's character like?
if he/she's like me I wouldn't even have to beat them in the first place. they won't even make a public scene.
any noise would quell with one word
Say.. U hav a bratty child lah... How beat him the right way ?
Originally posted by oldbreadstinks:this is why I don't usually dare to say I'm chinese online.
and I'll probably beat you if you're my kid if I see you posting stuff like these
Yes I know..that's why u have anger management issues..
Originally posted by oldbreadstinks:that's why you attack the kids and then publicly shame the parents.
That's why u CMI , cannot make it.. Ok ? Good.
Originally posted by jojobeach:Lol... Don't want to spend on frivolous things ? Hahahaahh ! That's old school way of brushing stupid children off lah... Nowadays children are smarter lah... Old tricks like that don't work anymore lah dude.
Your parents so poor, then don't have kids lor. Children are expensive what.. They have no money to buy condom ? Then give the kids away lor...to someone with money to spend on their children.
Oh, so how do u know not to cry in public? Maybe ur parents will get u that toy if u do? Or maybe they will smack the crap outa u instead ! Heck, u r so full of shit Anyway.
children aren't smarter, they just argue better and parents are more lenient.
I find the generation before me smarter and the current batch getting dumber.
but they have access to more knowledge, but the judgment is getting atrocious..
parents so poor, then don't have kids lor?
Sound familar right? usually the bratty kids mouth words like these and grow up with the same view. Children aren't that expensive, children are expensive if you want to enjoy life and have kids at the same time. Just met an 80yr old lady who was abandoned by her husband at 30 with 6 kids, sent them to University all by herself.
what would happen to her kids if she thought like you?
first time I'm just dropping a random comment, now I'm really wondering what kind of parents you have.
My memories extend to around 4years old? never cried in public. I ask and if rejected I accept the decision. all the way back then never knew how they did it.
anyway when I was a kid, you don't see bratty kids crying for stuff so often, no one's rude to their grandparents.
I see parents defending kids being rude to their parents by saying yeah no choice times are like these.
fark lah
your kid spoilt liao , either you love your kid and smack them now or they get smack by society later.
Originally posted by jojobeach:Say.. U hav a bratty child lah... How beat him the right way ?
how can I have a bratty child if I teach the correct values from the start?
if you do the right things and stand by the correct values your child would never grow up bratty and do bratty stuff like making fun of other people's parents online.
Originally posted by jojobeach:Yes I know..that's why u have anger management issues..
nope, that's decisive action, wait until they grow up and vent their poor parenting on their colleagues and people online too late liao.
Originally posted by jojobeach:That's why u CMI , cannot make it.. Ok ? Good.
too bad for you then if the rest of society consider it 替天行�
only those who like to sit on the sidelines and watch people suffer and laugh think this way.
Originally posted by jojobeach:Say.. U hav a bratty child lah... How beat him the right way ?
Originally posted by Bikeforceful:
Actually my children will not be bratty because I think their genes not bratty genes . Yours hard to say hor!
I honestly doubt it's the genes, it's usually the parents who, in the name of love decides their child cannot suffer at all.
when the kid don't suffer, he doesn't learn. you need to suffer a few knocks to gain some experience.
when their kid falls from a swing they'll write a letter to the MP to remove the swings(happened in my old estate)
back then any kid who falls only need his mom/dad to apply medicine to the wound and learn how not to fall down next time, now must see doctor and write letter.
Yawn. this is not even an aunt agony issue.
I want to read some intense romance. I want to know if somebody is having trouble with their love life. So I can kepo and comment.
Instead...sigh. Arguing about disciplining children. Gosh, wrong forum, man. Wrong forum.
Originally posted by oldbreadstinks:
I honestly doubt it's the genes, it's usually the parents who, in the name of love decides their child cannot suffer at all.
when the kid don't suffer, he doesn't learn. you need to suffer a few knocks to gain some experience.
when their kid falls from a swing they'll write a letter to the MP to remove the swings(happened in my old estate)
back then any kid who falls only need his mom/dad to apply medicine to the wound and learn how not to fall down next time, now must see doctor and write letter.
Originally posted by speakoutfor:Yawn. this is not even an aunt agony issue.
I want to read some intense romance. I want to know if somebody is having trouble with their love life. So I can kepo and comment.
Instead...sigh. Arguing about disciplining children. Gosh, wrong forum, man. Wrong forum.
Originally posted by Bikeforceful:
Actually my children will not be bratty because I think their genes not bratty genes . Yours hard to say hor!
Genetics or parenting style, no one can control the outcome.
We can only try our best.
Example.. In a family of 5,, each child will behave differently.
Even the best parents may produce criminal, or professors , or plain o joe.
I think it had a lot to do with environmental factor.
Kids in Singapore live in a much higher stress environment. It's no wonder they tend to act out.
Originally posted by Bikeforceful:
But so many aunties here offering their views ......and agonising over the issue ...until even quarrel...lol!
U do realize you r the thread starter, yes ?
Originally posted by BadzMaro:Kids nowadays have the good life.
Material wise, perhaps.
But I don't think they are happier than our era.
During my time as a kid, we had more space to run about, our home works r not as difficult. We had more time to play.
More friends to play with because our parents are less uptight about safety.
Nowadays where kids play that's free ? Go every where must pay money !
I look at what kids had to learn at school... I shudder n feel glad I was born much earlier.
Originally posted by speakoutfor:Yawn. this is not even an aunt agony issue.
I want to read some intense romance. I want to know if somebody is having trouble with their love life. So I can kepo and comment.
Instead...sigh. Arguing about disciplining children. Gosh, wrong forum, man. Wrong forum.
U r quite the nag dude. Go read some romance novel lah, I don't think they r R-rated. Maybe P-G .
Originally posted by jojobeach:Material wise, perhaps.
But I don't think they are happier than our era.
During my time as a kid, we had more space to run about, our home works r not as difficult. We had more time to play.
More friends to play with because our parents are less uptight about safety.
Nowadays where kids play that's free ? Go every where must pay money !
I look at what kids had to learn at school... I shudder n feel glad I was born much earlier.
Let's face it.
No parents want to admit their child is a brat.
Even if their parents r strict, they may behave well infront of them, but when out of sight, they can still misbehave.
The more affluent the society, the less children are a commodity/ retirement fall back, the more cherished they become.
Even dogs live better life than some humans.
Originally posted by Bikeforceful:
Alamak! I start the thread yes .... but ..i didn't start the quarrel of so many agonizing aunts leh!
I think u are mistaken.
Theres really not many adults here. Most are teenagers with severe lack of life experience.
Originally posted by jojobeach:I think u are mistaken.
Theres really not many adults here. Most are teenagers with severe lack of life experience.
Threads here often goes like this too.