Originally posted by Summer hill:no, you are streotyping chinese as "brats".
again you are being racist to yourself
Summer, no need to sweat over these kinda remarks.
Perhaps oldbread forgets that in Singapore, Chinese is in fact the majority. He is a minority.
In Singapore, u see more Chinese brats. In India, u see Indian brats, in USA, u see more Caucasian brats. In Africa, u see african brats. Brats r all around the world.
He wants to sum up that only Chinese people hav brats, well.. It just shows how ignorant he is, nothing more.
No need to go down to his level of stupidity, he will beat you with experience. Ok? Good.
Originally posted by Bikeforceful:
Ha?? alamak !sial mia orang , penyapu lu ! you started attacking everyone and then you tell other to learn to play nice ? buah tahan!
Ooh huh.... U Malay ? No wonder lah..... I heard malays abuse their children leh.. Is it true ?
Originally posted by jojobeach:
Funny how u all seem to think u were such a well behaved kid. Have u asked your own parents ? They'll probably tell u , u were just as shitty when u were young. Except last time u had bigger places to go nuts in, instead of crowded restaurant n shopping centers. even playgrounds r over crowded nowadays..
nope, kids were shitty back then but no one behaves in a shitty way because there are obvious consequences to it.
back then the chances of getting thrash when you misbehaved is definitely higher. your parents would kill you first before anyone else gets the chance.
nowadays your parents would invent excuses after excuses for you, write complain letters to the MP.
Originally posted by Bikeforceful:
Ha?? alamak !sial mia orang , penyapu lu ! you started attacking everyone and then you tell other to learn to play nice ? buah tahan!
Be nice to her lah. SgF is suppose to be therapeutic.
Originally posted by jojobeach:Ooh huh.... U Malay ? No wonder lah..... I heard malays abuse their children leh.. Is it true ?
Originally posted by mancha:Be nice to her lah. SgF is suppose to be therapeutic.
Lol.. Yes indeed. We r all in this together.
Originally posted by jojobeach:
I agree, children running amok in a busy restaurant is a hazard, I personally hates it too when I go restaurants in Singapore. In USA, the kids don't do so, because the restaurant manager will promptly tell the parents to control their kids. Same as in other public places.
in singapore, the manager would promptly tell the parents, who would then tell the manager off and threaten to complain to upper management if that doesn't work, they'll write to the papers.
and a damn lot of managers in singapore usually surrender to threats like these, I've encounter countless situations like these where the manager usually suck thumb rather the offend the customer who would then go around and badmouth the business.
look in the straits times, look at all the ridiculous letters bitching about being treated "unfairly" for minor transgressions
Originally posted by jojobeach:
Do not attack the children, always ask the child where their parent is, then speak directly to the parents in a calm manner.
When u attack the child, parents will instinctively become defensive n will attack u back.
that's why you attack the kids and then publicly shame the parents.
Originally posted by oldbreadstinks:nope, kids were shitty back then but no one behaves in a shitty way because there are obvious consequences to it.
back then the chances of getting thrash when you misbehaved is definitely higher. your parents would kill you first before anyone else gets the chance.
nowadays your parents would invent excuses after excuses for you, write complain letters to the MP.
Dude, back then parents only got their fist and cane. And they grow u as retirement insurance. Of cors they have no problem beating u up. Treat u like dog. They no love u, understand?
Nowadays there r plenty of other ways to discipline children lah.
Also, u want parents to discipline children in public ? Can u tahan their aftermath crying or not ?
You know children cry harder when being punished right ?
Originally posted by jojobeach:Yes, we tend to give the child what they want in public, not because we want to spoil them, on the contrary, we want to shut them up. Because people start staring and they want parents to shut their kids.
at home, they won't get their way, because we'll let them cry their eyes out. If the public don't mind prolong crying of a child, then parents won't need to buy that toy n seem like they are spoiling their child.
So, it's damn if u do, damn if u don't.
Yes I agree, those of u too stupid to understand what parenting is about, please get sterilize or those already too old to have one..get a dog, please make sure they don't annoy thy neighbors n clean up after they poop on the street. Ok? Good.
My parents have never had to smack me or my brothers for crying outside, neither have they ever to stop us from crying by buying us what we want.
"NO money, we don't spend so much money on frivious things" end of story
if that's the way you think, please, let the dogs off.
Originally posted by jojobeach:Lol.. Yes indeed. We r all in this together.
Alamak! We have agreement on this matter, hope I don't become like troublemaker2005.
Anyway I also wanted to tell Summer Hill what you told her about where there are majority races.
Originally posted by oldbreadstinks:that's why you attack the kids and then publicly shame the parents.
U have some serious anger issues dude. City life is not for you..
Originally posted by jojobeach:Dude, back then parents only got their fist and cane. And they grow u as retirement insurance. Of cors they have no problem beating u up. Treat u like dog. They no love u, understand?
Nowadays there r plenty of other ways to discipline children lah.
Also, u want parents to discipline children in public ? Can u tahan their aftermath crying or not ?
You know children cry harder when being punished right ?
as above, my parents never hit us for crying. we only got wacked for doing things we aren't suppose to do.
and trust me, if your kids continue crying after you hit them, you're hitting them the wrong way.
and I'm sorry back then your parents treated you like a dog. I know mine didn't
Originally posted by Bikeforceful:
Ha?? alamak !sial mia orang , penyapu lu ! you started attacking everyone and then you tell other to learn to play nice ? buah tahan!
...... you still don't get what I mean ah?
she's like that one, everytime.
just join in, no hard feelings.
Originally posted by jojobeach:Summer, no need to sweat over these kinda remarks.
Perhaps oldbread forgets that in Singapore, Chinese is in fact the majority. He is a minority.
In Singapore, u see more Chinese brats. In India, u see Indian brats, in USA, u see more Caucasian brats. In Africa, u see african brats. Brats r all around the world.
He wants to sum up that only Chinese people hav brats, well.. It just shows how ignorant he is, nothing more.
No need to go down to his level of stupidity, he will beat you with experience. Ok? Good.
another one who can't read
Originally posted by oldbreadstinks:My parents have never had to smack me or my brothers for crying outside, neither have they ever to stop us from crying by buying us what we want.
"NO money, we don't spend so much money on frivious things" end of story
if that's the way you think, please, let the dogs off.
Huh? Dude.. First u say your parents will beat the crap out of u when u misbehave.
Now u claim your parents never lay their hands on you, because u are such a wonderful kid...
Really ? How contradicting. Don't bull crap lah dude.
Originally posted by mancha:Alamak! We have agreement on this matter, hope I don't become like troublemaker2005.
Anyway I also wanted to tell Summer Hill what you told her about where there are majority races.
what's with troublemaker2005?
Originally posted by oldbreadstinks:as above, my parents never hit us for crying. we only got wacked for doing things we aren't suppose to do.
and trust me, if your kids continue crying after you hit them, you're hitting them the wrong way.
and I'm sorry back then your parents treated you like a dog. I know mine didn't
How is the right way to hit a child ?
Originally posted by jojobeach:U have some serious anger issues dude. City life is not for you..
no I don't , if I do from my posts here then does your insulting other parent's upbring imply poor upbringing on your parents part?
Originally posted by jojobeach:Huh? Dude.. First u say your parents will beat the crap out of u when u misbehave.
Now u claim your parents never lay their hands on you, because u are such a wonderful kid...
Really ? How contradicting. Don't bull crap lah dude.
go back and read again lah
my parents beat us when we misbehave
but we never cry outside and they don't beat us outside.
Originally posted by jojobeach:How is the right way to hit a child ?
who's the child?
Originally posted by oldbreadstinks:who's the child?
Say.. Your child ? If u have one, how do u beat your child the "right" way ? Teach us oh great one !
Originally posted by oldbreadstinks:no I don't , if I do from my posts here then does your insulting other parent's upbring imply poor upbringing on your parents part?
Aiyoh.. Here u are ranting off about other lousy parents.. Then u get offended when people say your parents are stupid ? Wow... When was the last time u looked in the mirror?
Originally posted by Bikeforceful:
Auntie ah! you hear very strange things leh! go eat a kueh koswee hor!
Really leh. I heard Indians like to get drunk and beat their wives. Malays beat abuse their children like dogs, thats why they all grow up stupid..although hearsay lah..But dunno true or not wor...
Originally posted by jojobeach:Say.. Your child ? If u have one, how do u beat your child the "right" way ? Teach us oh great one !
what's my child's character like?
if he/she's like me I wouldn't even have to beat them in the first place. they won't even make a public scene.
any noise would quell with one word