problem with daughter
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The mother got personality disorder lah.
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I repeat what I have said.
"Let her go. The more you try, the more will she resent you."
This problem started on its course a long time ago.
When the child was younger, the parent may impose on the kid.
As she grows older, she fights back. And the more you try.......
I do not think the damage is immediately repairable.
Back off and lets things be.
Meanwhile reflect on yourself, what you have done.
Till today, I have hated all my disciplinary masters, dragon teachers, and others stern teachers. I know they mean well, but their methods make me dislike them, till today.
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I see one unforgiveable mistake made. Revealing personal details to all and sundry.
Your daughter won't forgive you for that. Imagine how she would feel if her other relatives, friends, colleagues, or people who know her, read it.
It is you that need to apologise to her, but the damage has already been done.
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emmavalentino.com? I saw that, looks like some musician.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Lol... R u really so dense ?...
Where in this thread got this part from the blog ?
"i am her mother.
she had never cleaned up after herself.
eversince she started her periods, she would leave blood in the toilet,
never want to dispose her sanitary pads
i have told her many times but she still expect me to clean up after her mensturation cycle
i think she hates me and that's why she had did it on purpose just to make me work on it
why she hates me .. is what i am trying to figure out
maybe because i am not that highly educated
she hates talking to me because she has to speak to me in mandarin
she herself dislike the chinese language
it was me who had taught her chinese and maths when she was in primary school
she had made use of me and my ignorance to get away with doing things that is not acceptable
she made me sign for her withdrawal of physics from her O level
all because she do not like the teacher
she made me approve her piercing on her lower lips, tattoos on her body.
yet all along she treated me like a "slave" or "maid"
i bore with it, hoping that she would not be like this....
DIS RESPECTFUL
ILL MANNERED
DIS HONORING ME ...HER MOTHER
NEVER GAVE ME A CHANCE AFTER HER GRADUATION TO TAKE CARE OF HER
MAYBE SHE EXPECT ME TO PICK UP HER LEFT OVERS AFTER SHE HAS BEEN SERVED ON A SILVER PLATTER AT THE RAFFLES TOWN CLUB
I HAVE DEVELOP A FEAR FOR HER, UNKNOWINGLY, AND AM NOW UNDERGOING THERAPY FOR IT.
during those years at NTU, she had bullied me by telling to wash her week's accumulation of clothes in one night and to be delivered to her the next morning, ironed properly.
i did not want to complain, during those years, because i wanted her to complete her tertiary
education.
so i laboured on for those years, even though she did not talk to me, and treated me like invisible.
this is how her boy friend is as well.
i guess she had been influenced with such unacceptable behaviour that she has grown to accept it as a part of herself
so i suffering because of it.
it started with the convocation
which is why, she is able to have refuge when her father chased her out of the house
the persons who instigated her realised it
i expected her to return with apoogies
but she return with a desire to remove her belongings"
are u a mother?if not u talk too much
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Originally posted by lce:
are u a mother?if not u talk too much
Yes. I am a mother. What's your problem ?
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And I am the grandmother
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Simple logic on we girls,
No girl will understand her mother until she become a mother herself
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yep, that's why before getting a dotter, you must get the pre-dotter a father - i highly receomend my self to be the father of the dotter
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You better go and be the father of dot com dot sg lah
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only you.
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Only Love lah
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don;t want baby? a dotter for the two of us will be good. she will like after you. boy look after me
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Than end up like Tom cruise and Katie Holmes, 5 years later, see u in court,
Tampines Courts
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angel your recent post really like a problematic dotter. leh. i wonder at home you obebient or not, give your father headache or not. hiazz... problem this girl
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I guai guai at home one, wash laundry, cook for family, do groceries, sweep and mop floor.
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so can you marry me?
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