BF becomes unresponsive since he started school
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Originally posted by auditor:
You should break up with him and be with me
No She should break up and be with me.I will take good care of her.
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After what you have done, he will surely repent one day.
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Originally posted by Faded^Duck:
I have been together with my boyfriend for more than 3 years. He used to be very sweet and good and put me as priority. But since the commencement of his school, he seems to be drifting further from me. He even forgot our 3 years anniversary despite me reminding him since the week before. He promised to bring me to Cable car dinner/Flyer dinner to celebrate this grand day and I was looking very forward to it, but he forgot everything and broke all the promises.
Secondly, we dont text often. Everytime i Sms him, he will take 2-3 hours to reply and the content he reply is not answering to what i have smsed him. E.g. I ask " what time you going school?" 2-3 hours later He reply" Have you eaten your meal?"..
Thirdly, I feel that he is very snobbish. He seems to look down on people that comes from private school. he will always say that his who ever friend cmi so ended in SIM etc. I feel very inferior as i am also a private school student though I know that he is not referring to me.
Apart from these he is still a kinda nice guy. He will deliver supper to me if i am hungry or fetch me from school if i ended class very late.
I know i am contradicting. but what should i do?
love needs holiday too, give him some air. -
Grandma said to me "Give a guy a space, he will sure go stray"
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Originally posted by angel7030:
Grandma said to me "Give a guy a space, he will sure go stray"
grandpa said to me: "give a guy no space, he will sure bacome ash tray" -
maybe, heaven forbid, he actually wants to concentrate on his studies?
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Originally posted by the Bear:
maybe, heaven forbid, he actually wants to concentrate on his studies?
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maybe... he has someone else in school?
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Originally posted by [imdestinyz]:
your bf seems very unappreciative about whatever that you expect or are doing for him... getting used to the r/s is not an excuse for it. Have you spoken to your bf about it? when you gave him the presents, what was he complaining about?
For the wallet, he says about no coin areas, thread dropping, compartment not enough.
Pillow he never comment anything but he just layed it inside the storeroom.
Ipod Nano he kept trying to "return to me", He said that i need it more than him. Then when i asked him why he did not use, he said that he fear the ipod nano has scratches(blame myself for not getting a casing with it) but his ipod touch is not protected with any casing too...
@FireIce i am unsure what you mean by "the talk" do you mean if i have communicate with him regarding the issues? Yes i did.
These were his replies forPoint 1: Forgotten Important Dates
For instance regarding the Anniversary,he said that he has planned to bring me to a special place but the place he planned was "full house".Furthermore, regarding anniversary gift, he said he plan to get me a couple ring but because i was not there to choose so he did not get ( till NOW he still has not get the ring and has seems to forget about it). I replied him " Is ok. You are busy with school. I understand" and his response was " sorry that he had forgotten our anniversary".
He will always defend himself with tons of Excuses(LIES) which I feel very disappointed and has no strength to hold on :( I do not know why he has cooked excuses to deceive/hurt me?
Point 2: Never reply Text
He said that he has No reception, Did not receive the SMS, Sent but was not send through, or thought he press Sent but actually he did not send,busy with project discussion, attending lectures. Alot and ALOT of reasons..
Point 3:Snobbish
He said he was very sorry about that and promise to change. Weeks later when A level results release, he commented how atrocious his friend has done and said that his friend "chui" and confirm ended up in SIM. He also keep commenting that why my modules are so easy and easy to score. So meaningless, not like him mugging so hard.. i Feel very depress and stupid.. haiz.
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ok. i think u have answered ur own qns.
next step is, how to put it to him?
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boyfwen - unrepsonsive - like cannot stand, cannot shoot - no mood for sex?
rejection for 'no respond'
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@FireIce
I have no idea how to let him understand as i think that he apologize for the sake of pleasing me instead of understanding what went wrong in my POV. Any Solutions that i can heed to let him get through these issues?
@troublemaker
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If you were clever, you wouldn't be asking for advice here. That's why.
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Assuming this is real. Find new bf lor. Want to meet up?
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Originally posted by alize:
If you were clever, you wouldn't be asking for advice here. That's why.
I know i am nt smart. But you cant stereotype by labellin everyone who need helps/advise as an unwise person.. There might be people wise in academic but unwise in r/s vice versa... But i know i am in none of these areas.haiz :(
@hisoka
The whole issue is real.. Duh if not why would i post it.. I dont mind meeting up to know more friends :)
@all really appreciate the constructive solutions. I have thought through the pass few days. Mayb i am no longer his priority in life that y he has been treatin me this way. Like many say he must have decided to place studies on top of me. I have decided to either to give him a final chance in hope for changes or ask for a halt in the r/s so that he can fcous on studies...:/
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hope u find the right one at the right time, and be happy
all the best
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Originally posted by Faded^Duck:
I know i am nt smart. But you cant stereotype by labellin everyone who need helps/advise as an unwise person.. There might be people wise in academic but unwise in r/s vice versa... But i know i am in none of these areas.haiz :(
@hisoka
The whole issue is real.. Duh if not why would i post it.. I dont mind meeting up to know more friends :)
@all really appreciate the constructive solutions. I have thought through the pass few days. Mayb i am no longer his priority in life that y he has been treatin me this way. Like many say he must have decided to place studies on top of me. I have decided to either to give him a final chance in hope for changes or ask for a halt in the r/s so that he can fcous on studies...:/
you deserve someone new. -
TS, he not happy that u withhold 'that thing' from him right?
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If bf no response, throw him away lah, why? no him will die meh??
As a gal, we must treat these all these cocks like handphone, once damaged, call and call no response or no signal, just dump it and get a new one, so many in the market, if you treat them like human, god bless you
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Originally posted by angel7030:
If bf no response, throw him away lah, why? no him will die meh??
As a gal, we must treat these all these cocks like handphone, once damaged, call and call no response or no signal, just dump it and get a new one, so many in the market, if you treat them like human, god bless you
i reply her - you jealous hauh?okay i only remain faithful toouy, my camera shutter only clicks for you , your image alone - no other one else int hsi world
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wow not bad, i can see the 2 peektures of angel in both of your avatars at once..
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lols... ts disappeared!!!
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now u see her, now u dun.
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Originally posted by [imdestinyz]:
lols… ts disappeared!!!
Sure, with all these si lang kengs, from keng kia to trouble kia around, any TS would had just disappear in no time. -
Originally posted by angel7030:
Sure, with all these si lang kengs, from keng kia to trouble kia around, any TS would had just disappear in no time.
i din know you like si lang (corpse). then in hotle loom you can jsut kill me, then do anything you like with my corpse