how to restart the frenship thing?
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Always Friendship is start by trust and honest way so if we take 1st this step then friendship will be for long term until we died
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Originally posted by Bilal.younis4:
Always Friendship is start by trust and honest way so if we take 1st this step then friendship will be for long term until we died
well, it'll take 2 hands to clap
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say your sorry
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Originally posted by Summer hill:
say your sorry
??? sorry for?
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say sorry that you confess to her and scare her, and say u just want to be friends
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Originally posted by Summer hill:
say sorry that you confess to her and scare her, and say u just want to be friends
i dnt find tht i'll need to be apologetic for showing how i feel.
i can be apologetic that i didn't know it'll cause her to be scared but not for telling her i like her.
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Originally posted by redname:
i dnt find tht i'll need to be apologetic for showing how i feel.
i can be apologetic that i didn't know it'll cause her to be scared but not for telling her i like her.
Kudos to you. You are vry brave to tell her how you feel. At least you are still young and have lots more to go. I am in my mid 30s and really regret that I didn't get the chance to live my youth. Back 4 to 5 years ago, I had a motorbike accident and I had to go thru numerous surgeries and painful physiotherapy sessions. I could not work for 4 years and didn't go out to socialise because I was on crutches and had to wear a back brace most of the time.Now I am ok, I can walk a bit but slightly limp (not so obvious). I cannot run or do sports. I really lost a lot of time. I wish i had the chance to meet women and go dating.
Nowadays, I try to make up for lost time by increasing my social circle. But everyone around me is so young, some ladies in their mid 20s. So its hard to find something common to talk about plus I am shy. Most of my peers are already married and have their own kids. So you can imagine how out of place I am.
Keep us updated.
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Originally posted by Oldkamhouse:
Kudos to you. You are vry brave to tell her how you feel. At least you are still young and have lots more to go. I am in my mid 30s and really regret that I didn't get the chance to live my youth. Back 4 to 5 years ago, I had a motorbike accident and I had to go thru numerous surgeries and painful physiotherapy sessions. I could not work for 4 years and didn't go out to socialise because I was on crutches and had to wear a back brace most of the time.Now I am ok, I can walk a bit but slightly limp (not so obvious). I cannot run or do sports. I really lost a lot of time. I wish i had the chance to meet women and go dating.
Nowadays, I try to make up for lost time by increasing my social circle. But everyone around me is so young, some ladies in their mid 20s. So its hard to find something common to talk about plus I am shy. Most of my peers are already married and have their own kids. So you can imagine how out of place I am.
Keep us updated.
wow, there's not much pple out there who actually said what i did was the right thing, as in letting her know i like her. my frens all said i shldn't have let her know so fast lah, blah blah blah, i guess pple just think differently.
tht aside, I'm not exactly far from your age lah. sorry to hear about ur accident, i'm a biker too and have lost a very close fren due to an accident.
I'm in a similar situation as you lah, nowadays those i meet are are 5-7 yrs younger than me, however i met them thru similar interest, so got topic to talk lah then see how it goes from there lor. maybe u can find pple in a similar interest group?
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Originally posted by redname:
wow, there's not much pple out there who actually said what i did was the right thing, as in letting her know i like her. my frens all said i shldn't have let her know so fast lah, blah blah blah, i guess pple just think differently.
tht aside, I'm not exactly far from your age lah. sorry to hear about ur accident, i'm a biker too and have lost a very close fren due to an accident.
I'm in a similar situation as you lah, nowadays those i meet are are 5-7 yrs younger than me, however i met them thru similar interest, so got topic to talk lah then see how it goes from there lor. maybe u can find pple in a similar interest group?
I try to join new interest groups to widen my social outreach but these days i also working hard to make up for lost time, as you know, I haven't work for 4 years. Most of my peers are earning more than me. When I go to an old school reunion, I feel ashame because mostly got married and they earn much more than me. I only hang out with those former school mates of mine who are divorcees.5-7 yrs younger? Well, i don't fancy those who are below 26 because their minds are not mature enough and they don't want to settle down. However those who are 27 to 29, are normally those seeking relationships but they seem to behave like hot commodities. It is very difficult to befriend them because usually a lot of guys want to know them better. The best age are those 30 or 31.
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Originally posted by Oldkamhouse:
I try to join new interest groups to widen my social outreach but these days i also working hard to make up for lost time, as you know, I haven't work for 4 years. Most of my peers are earning more than me. When I go to an old school reunion, I feel ashame because mostly got married and they earn much more than me. I only hang out with those former school mates of mine who are divorcees.5-7 yrs younger? Well, i don't fancy those who are below 26 because their minds are not mature enough and they don't want to settle down. However those who are 27 to 29, are normally those seeking relationships but they seem to behave like hot commodities. It is very difficult to befriend them because usually a lot of guys want to know them better. The best age are those 30 or 31.
well, earning a living is more impt in this case i guess, so i wld concentrate on that.
for me, i got a job tht pays me enough for my own.
30 or 31? hahaha, the one that played me like a toy is 31. well i guess we just haven't met the ONE :)
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Earning more or less is not an issue, the issue is spending more or less, you can take home 10k, but spend everyweekends at clubs and girls, buy high COE cars and wearing Gucci fashion, 20k also not enough.
Happiness is more important, as long as you got a honest job, a honest paid, be happy,
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Originally posted by Oldkamhouse:
I try to join new interest groups to widen my social outreach but these days i also working hard to make up for lost time, as you know, I haven't work for 4 years. Most of my peers are earning more than me. When I go to an old school reunion, I feel ashame because mostly got married and they earn much more than me. I only hang out with those former school mates of mine who are divorcees.5-7 yrs younger? Well, i don't fancy those who are below 26 because their minds are not mature enough and they don't want to settle down. However those who are 27 to 29, are normally those seeking relationships but they seem to behave like hot commodities. It is very difficult to befriend them because usually a lot of guys want to know them better. The best age are those 30 or 31.
Not really, because we gals below 25yo still have the time to look and see, and certainly we will be looking for a younger ones, rich or not is a general term guy use when they feel inferior when they are unable to get the girl of their wish, they turn around and curse us for being money minded girl which is not true. -
Originally posted by angel7030:
Earning more or less is not an issue, the issue is spending more or less, you can take home 10k, but spend everyweekends at clubs and girls, buy high COE cars and wearing Gucci fashion, 20k also not enough.
Happiness is more important, as long as you got a honest job, a honest paid, be happy,
did your dog logged in this accoutn and typed these words
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Originally posted by angel7030:
Not really, because we gals below 25yo still have the time to look and see, and certainly we will be looking for a younger ones, rich or not is a general term guy use when they feel inferior when they are unable to get the girl of their wish, they turn around and curse us for being money minded girl which is not true.
okay noted. next photoshoot i test you again -
Originally posted by angel7030:
Earning more or less is not an issue, the issue is spending more or less, you can take home 10k, but spend everyweekends at clubs and girls, buy high COE cars and wearing Gucci fashion, 20k also not enough.
Happiness is more important, as long as you got a honest job, a honest paid, be happy,
hahaha, so random. well, i shall remember this for something else next time :)
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Originally posted by angel7030:
Not really, because we gals below 25yo still have the time to look and see, and certainly we will be looking for a younger ones, rich or not is a general term guy use when they feel inferior when they are unable to get the girl of their wish, they turn around and curse us for being money minded girl which is not true.but there are some gals who are really money minded and it isn't even my assumption cause those gals said it themselves :)
of cus there are gals out there who dnt mind a simple living too. guess this is partly what attracts me to the gal i'm talking abt. she dnt mind eating at kopitiam and hawker ctr (in fact she everytime suggest these places), likes simple stuff and even willing to sit on my motorbike. haha, the best part is that she's pretty also
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Originally posted by redname:
but there are some gals who are really money minded and it isn't even my assumption cause those gals said it themselves :)
of cus there are gals out there who dnt mind a simple living too. guess this is partly what attracts me to the gal i'm talking abt. she dnt mind eating at kopitiam and hawker ctr (in fact she everytime suggest these places), likes simple stuff and even willing to sit on my motorbike. haha, the best part is that she's pretty also
Redname,Since me and you are guys in our 30s, I want to ask you, how to you increase your social circle? Its because most of our friends are already married or attached.
I am seriously thinking of going for dating agency. It is really hard to find somebody these days. If I am over friendly to a lady, they get phobia at me. If I am not friendly enough, they say I am snobbish. Sometimes, I really don't understand women.
First step is to increase social circle. Second step to hope that you meet somebody who is open to talk to you. Third step if you can ask her out for a date. But in so far, I always fail in meeting somebody who will like me. Sigh.
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Originally posted by Oldkamhouse:
Redname,Since me and you are guys in our 30s, I want to ask you, how to you increase your social circle? Its because most of our friends are already married or attached.
I am seriously thinking of going for dating agency. It is really hard to find somebody these days. If I am over friendly to a lady, they get phobia at me. If I am not friendly enough, they say I am snobbish. Sometimes, I really don't understand women.
First step is to increase social circle. Second step to hope that you meet somebody who is open to talk to you. Third step if you can ask her out for a date. But in so far, I always fail in meeting somebody who will like me. Sigh.
like i said lor, join grps with the same interest.
i like photography and music, so i try to know more pple through there lor.
fortunately i also got some frens who really wanna help me out of this, as in to move on from this gal, so now i can shamelessly ask them to intro gals :D
seriously, u asking the wrg person lah, i also in bad situation one, esp when now still trying to move on
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i also like phootgpahry and music. becasue now digital photgraphy and mp3 player so many difffernt ype - even ahndphone also got. with these gadget sin hand, i am a photograophera nd a musician hahahhaha
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Originally posted by Oldkamhouse:
Redname,Since me and you are guys in our 30s, I want to ask you, how to you increase your social circle? Its because most of our friends are already married or attached.
I am seriously thinking of going for dating agency. It is really hard to find somebody these days. If I am over friendly to a lady, they get phobia at me. If I am not friendly enough, they say I am snobbish. Sometimes, I really don't understand women.
First step is to increase social circle. Second step to hope that you meet somebody who is open to talk to you. Third step if you can ask her out for a date. But in so far, I always fail in meeting somebody who will like me. Sigh.
No need to go to agency, waste of time and money, come my pubs here in joo chiat or our branches at duxton road, peoples tends to see pubs as for fun, but actually there are alots of lonely girls and guys looking for serious friendship, they came, they see, they conquored, got a few even sent me wedding invitation, knew each other from my pub.
But I hate people coming here and get a relationship, cos after they found their love one, they never come already.
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Originally posted by troublemaker2005:
i also like phootgpahry and music. becasue now digital photgraphy and mp3 player so many difffernt ype - even ahndphone also got. with these gadget sin hand, i am a photograophera nd a musician hahahhaha
thanks for the comical interpretation but i'm actually a semi-pro photographer and musician, so your assumptions doesn't apply :)
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You are replying to a old camera man
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Originally posted by redname:
thanks for the comical interpretation but i'm actually a semi-pro photographer and musician, so your assumptions doesn't apply :)
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Originally posted by angel7030:
No need to go to agency, waste of time and money, come my pubs here in joo chiat or our branches at duxton road, peoples tends to see pubs as for fun, but actually there are alots of lonely girls and guys looking for serious friendship, they came, they see, they conquored, got a few even sent me wedding invitation, knew each other from my pub.
But I hate people coming here and get a relationship, cos after they found their love one, they never come already.
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Originally posted by troublemaker2005:
so like i fucking care?you wldn't have posted this if you really didn't give a fuck :)
save it dude
