Hi, I have been troubled by someone in my class ever since last year but
yesterday was quite a terrible day, so I am going to explain why later
on. At first, he is the same class as me in last year's N level maths
class. He sit beside me on the first day after he arrive and look at me.
I did not look at him or even bother him. When weeks goes by, he asked
me something about the class break then I reply him. Later at around
June, I talk to him and said there might be no class today as I am not
sure the teacher said that there is a break and people still come to
class. When time goes, he start to talk to me about my self personality
matter such as he asked me, do I have a job and I say no, I am currently
concentrating on my N level first then he keep on asking why don't I
find one, now job is difficult to find then I was like don't want to
talk to him about this matter because it is regarding about self
personality matter and I am only concentrating on passing my exam to get
my N and O level cert. I did reply him and say I concentrate on my
study first, then later he did not bother me anymore. From June onward,
he did not come to class for the whole year which I think that he
doesn't not want to study anymore.
Yesterday was my first O level A-maths class and in the middle of the
lesson, a challenger approach and guess who, that guy again. I was like
oh god not him again and he is the only guy who is the same class as me
last year. He saw me and we smile to each other. During break, he came
to talk to me about how is last year's class, how have I been doing and
so on. We chat a little about last year's class as I ask him how did he
get to O level class and I thought he did not study anymore since last
year he did not come to class or I am not sure if he had taken his N
level exam. He told me that he actually have the certs for a very long
time ago and come to attend lesson to refresh his memory.
Later, he start to talk about my self-personality matter again which
pissed me off like did I have a job, I say no and he say why not, I said
I am concentrating on my O level first then he say hiya why do you
think you can study like that all day? what have you been doing at home,
study all day? oh god you really think you can study all day at home?
so I told him I did take some break in between days and so on. So I tell
him, of course I can study like that, why not aren't it normal then he
shake his head which anger me. I was wondering what is wrong with this
guy? He is older than me 10 years or so. He just come here to refresh
his maths skills and I come here to take my O level cert and now he is
talking to me these nonsense like trying to corrupt me not to study. I
do not know how to handle such person so I came here to ask for advice
what I should do.
I think of a few ways to avoid this troublesome busybody guy like trying
to change my class but this is the only A-maths class that is
available, ignoring him would be offending him as well as get angry at
him. So I do not have any ideal what I should do, anyone please advice
me what I should do?
If you don't want to speak to him, you could just give him an excuse or give the slip, or just answer one-word per question.
He'll get the message. Ok, he should.
If all of that fails, just ignore him.
I think he is just trying to know you better. If you are a girl, may be he is interested in you.
Seriously you are unfriendly and weird.
Yap, give him some excuses and don't talk more to him. Concentrate on your studies and don't let this affect u..... study hard.... all the best to your studies...:)
imo sometimes ppl can be quite dense headed, if its really bothering u so much, jus tell him straight. Best of luck in ur studies : )
Lokey:
I seriously hope he is not a gay if he is interested in me :P but anyway it is not that I am unfriendly and weird because this guy keep on asking something personal and I don't even really want to know him at all and just want to concentrate on my study why does he keep on asking so many personal things about me? he seems to be like against my study ways which really pissed me off like one of the scenorio:
see this is why I am pissed off about this guy and it is so unlucky that he is the only guy who is the same class as me last year. So the bottom line is he is coming here to refresh his maths skill and he has already got his O level cert for over 10 years ago while I am here to get my O level cert and this guy come and talk some nonsense like trying to disrupt my study but yeah, I will try the above method from the other members and see how it goes
Lokey:
I seriously hope he is not a gay if he is interested in me :P but anyway it is not that I am unfriendly and weird because this guy keep on asking something personal and I don't even really want to know him at all and just want to concentrate on my study why does he keep on asking so many personal things about me? he seems to be like against my study ways which really pissed me off like one of the scenorio:
I am studying in classThat guy: hey, you are studying, can you study like that meh?Me: well why notThat guy: aiya, you are wasting your time, didn't you study at home already?Me: well, why can't I study againThat guy: well seriously, you need to get job, work part time, do some job, so what you doing at home everyday or during weekend?Me: studying of courseThat guy: oh god, are you sure, you can cope meh, I don't believe itsee this is why I am pissed off about this guy and it is so unlucky that he is the only guy who is the same class as me last year. So the bottom line is he is coming here to refresh his maths skill and he has already got his O level cert for over 10 years ago while I am here to get my O level cert and this guy come and talk some nonsense like trying to disrupt my study but yeah, I will try the above method from the other members and see how it goes
Get that guy with a troublesome nick to help you lah, he is very good in all this kiddy stuff, PM him.