mind say no but heart say yes
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I didn't post this in aunt agony because I don't find myself in agony, but it's quite weird. I have these few nice girls who like me but I don't fancy them.. So I don't waste their time by not giving them any signals. Because I don't want them to lose out on other good opportunities/guys in their life.
But there is this other girl who likes me and say sweet things to me but the problem? She's a very bad girl... she's only 20 but she smokes and is a drug addict, have tattoos all over, not working, don't like to study, basically a good for nothing but i like her more than other girls, lol... i find the whole situation so funny basically but i keep telling her that she's just a good friend to me. no sex involved at all because i don't want to give her wrong signals... but she keeps taking me as her bf... but i keep thinking about her because she's super sweet and say sweet things to me. she's like super caring towards me and makes me smile whenever we're together... but although i have feelings for her but logically i don't want to marry such a girl.
i find that god is playing a joke and i don't know what to do... secretly i hope she don't ask me out but if she do, i find it hard to say no, even if i have so much work... whereas other girls ask i can flatly say i dun want.
this is a situation where my heart and mind go different directions. mind says no, heart says yes. *sigh sigh sigh!!!*
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every person has their good qualities.
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Originally posted by alize:
every person has their good qualities.
you're so optimistic... what about those serial rapist cum murderers? -
this is fate.
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Good for you
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stupid fireice again... changed my topic title and moved it to aunt agony when it was at chit chat... if i see her i sure throw durains at her.
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Originally posted by DailyFreeGames.com:
stupid fireice again... changed my topic title and moved it to aunt agony when it was at chit chat... if i see her i sure throw durains at her.
this is a situation where ur heart and mind go different directions. mind says no, heart says yes.
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Originally posted by FireIce:
this is a situation where ur heart and mind go different directions. mind says no, heart says yes.
it is a situation where i see u i will throw durians towards ur direction. -
so if you go out with her and she secretly put drugs into your drinks and you drink liao also become drug addicit how?
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For god sake...u think she really likes u meh...i thinks she treat u more as her next meal ticket la.....wake up la.....
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I also got same experience as you. I have a friend, she is only 21, uber pretty. She like to smoke and she got one dragon tattoo behind her back. She got one time so uber care for me. I almost had a chance to go after her. But I another guy got to her first.
Then their relationship never lasted longer than 6 months. She dump him. She hook up with a rich guy driving mercedes.
So i reckon i would have suffered same fate.
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dick say what?
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Originally posted by DailyFreeGames.com:
you're so optimistic... what about those serial rapist cum murderers?I didn't say anything.
Everyone has their good qualities and you fell in love with those. If I were you, I would just have sex and go. After making sure she has not many brothers or male cousins in her family.
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Originally posted by alize:
I didn't say anything.
Everyone has their good qualities and you fell in love with those. If I were you, I would just have sex and go. After making sure she has not many brothers or male cousins in her family.
Your life is so sad.
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Originally posted by alize:
I didn't say anything.
Everyone has their good qualities and you fell in love with those. If I were you, I would just have sex and go. After making sure she has not many brothers or male cousins in her family.
maybe i never have sex with her that's why she so nice to me... if not then i become like any other guys ler... she not super chio but it's her character lah... then she also drive bike... i thinking about sitting on her bike but then i also scare accident...i just hope quickly forget her and move on with my life... but it's a boring working life lor...
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I'm quite sure she needs someone to provide for her.
She might be willing to do anything to be with you, including have sex. Hope you areconfident of impressing her in bed. On the other hand, even if you don't she might still be happy to have you providing for her.
Since life is boring why not go for it? Just don't fall too deep, waste time, let her waste your time etc...
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Originally posted by DailyFreeGames.com:
maybe i never have sex with her that's why she so nice to me... if not then i become like any other guys ler... she not super chio but it's her character lah... then she also drive bike... i thinking about sitting on her bike but then i also scare accident...i just hope quickly forget her and move on with my life... but it's a boring working life lor...
That means she always have sex with guys except you?
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Originally posted by alize:
I'm quite sure she needs someone to provide for her.
She might be willing to do anything to be with you, including have sex. Hope you areconfident of impressing her in bed. On the other hand, even if you don't she might still be happy to have you providing for her.
Since life is boring why not go for it? Just don't fall too deep, waste time, let her waste your time etc...
yah she's willing but i'm not willing, my friend said i gay (nnbccb)... i will feel so guilty if i do it and then later she needs my help and i don't help her, lol... at least no sex nothing, i won't feel so bad... and she's not my type of girl look wise / character wise... that's why i find the whole thing quite funny... also i am not a ticket to an easy life for any girl/guy lah... that's the wrong way to live a life.this thread not supposed to be in aunt agony but it's here and the titled changed because the stupid fireice did it lah... i want to strangle her so bad...
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Try. Nothing wrong trying. Where I come from it is so hard to find somebody. The Men are having trouble finding and even the Women are having trouble finding. I think if you think this girl is suitable - you should try. If not work out then walk your separate ways.
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Originally posted by DailyFreeGames.com:
.this thread not supposed to be in aunt agony but it's here and the titled changed because the stupid fireice did it lah... i want to strangle her so bad...
I am sure she wants to ban you badly..
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I tell you you will end up having sex. One day you'll go out on a date and end up cuddling and end up kissing and end up screwing. It can begin with a movie date. This girl is easy.
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Originally posted by alize:
I tell you you will end up having sex. One day you'll go out on a date and end up cuddling and end up kissing and end up screwing. It can begin with a movie date. This girl is easy.
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Originally posted by DailyFreeGames.com:
this thread not supposed to be in aunt agony but it's here and the titled changed because the stupid fireice did it lah... i want to strangle her so bad...Which forum did you post this thread in the first place and what was the original title?
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What has marriage got to do with this?
You are a guy and she is a gal.
Thats enough. (Unless you are gay.)
Basic instinct.
Complementary.
She wants you, you want her.
You are letting societal norms interfear with your instincts.
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It seems like she listens to you a lot. Maybe you can try to influence her and change some of her bad habbits bit by bit?