approaching a girl...
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True, I agree wif u bro. Btw , for me I think she is very very chio, on the inside and outside. Ty all for ur replies, helped me alot:)
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when ppl (esp girls) stop replying halfway in a conversation, can be many reasons
- need to go toilet (can wait for like 10 mins to see if later come back)
- someone else walked into the room..... �方便 chat liao
- too busy on other windows with other ppl toking abt more impt stuff
- watching video/drama. so fullscreen and no see the incoming msgs
- answering fone call, busy sms-ing or whatsapping on hp
- dozed offunless she is the rude type, at least if no want continue the convo can say, gtg or i wanna sleep liao. bye.
or just bye.all is not lost yet.
neber let serving the country be the hindrance or excuse bcos if u both can get thru tt, it's relli a big achievement for the rship
u still 被放出� on weekends and u will treasure the time more and plan some quality stuff to do together......... except stuff tt u shd not do without protection yo.even if not together, at least there is a fren to look 4ward to every week to tok
if u have the courage, u can 告白 now
if green light, then happy lah
if sollie, i think u are a nice guy, then at least u can serve the country more whole-heartedly -
u bery sweet leh hope u succeed lah hor
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hanor hanor
u oso no so schweet to me hor
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Thank you for the advice fireice, I shall not give up then. I will try even harder to get her attention and I think eventually my patience and preserverance will pay off, hopefully:)
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what is yours is yours....
one of the biggest mistake is the thought that the more u put into a relationship the more u could control its outcome ...
we have seen too many putting in too much efforts and failed....
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in the world of equality, women must put in equal efforts than to think that men must do everything....its about time to change the perception...
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True, but eventually no matter how we think that the women should put in the same amount of effort, we men will still put in the most effort to please the women.
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at first is sure liddis lar
30 yrs later u see is like how
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Guitar class.
Learn the guitar real well first.
She see you dedicated to playing well, she will be interested in you.
You go guitar class, and tackle girls, you make a bad impression on her.
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i learn gutar because the teacher very chio. that's all. really.
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I did not go to guitar class to tackle girls..btw I did not attend the class for 3 years already because I learnt it for 5 years, so the fee was too high. Lastly, she finally replied telling me not to disturb her, so end of story. Life goes on hais.
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Haha.
The. End.
U wont die dont worry.
Life has greater obstacles out there
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Morale of this thread, please get some balls.
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Fish or sotong ball? ping pong or tennis balls? golf or foot balls?
no balls, how to play?
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wow. she 快刀斩乱麻
me like.at least no give u false hopes.
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This type, dun want also nevermind, for me, I will said, as usual, "let just be friend"
But for pple like TS, I might not even said anything, just cut off everything from him, change sch, change hp nos, change hse or change office..run!!
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after giv birth the birth cord must also cut off and tie inside womb k
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Give birth?? siao or not, suffer not enough ar?? still want to give birth and bring someone into a misery life here
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then marry me lor
this lunar new year i can meet your father, open a few tables, tok dowry the same time
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Dont setup a date like a movie date or something like that.....because it is too obvious.....and some girls dont like that type of high-pressure setup........You must think of how to approach her in a low-key manner, make it seem as if it is a coincidence......You said you are no longer in the same guitar class....maybe you can find out what other classes shes in, and then try to join it......or try to befriend her friends and slip in / insert yourself in social settings..........the point here is to approach her in a "natural" manner....
Also....seems like you pushed too hard & too fast, and she is avoiding you........so now you must be extra gentle and extra soft.......pull back a bit.......dont make her think you are a creep.......you must pace yourself.......
Ok, good luck.