approaching a girl...

• </3sad

  14 Jan 12, 16:50

  There is this gal in my guitar class that I have not met for 3 yrs, but recently I saw her and chat with her for awhile, and I fell in love with her because I felt really comfortable talking to her. So I took the initiative to sms her out for a movie with a bunch of old friends whom we know,but after she replied who are you and I replied, she did no replied ever since, what should I do? Is she not intrested in me? I really hope I could have a chance to find out more about her. You all may be wondering y I did not ask her out 3 yrs ago. Because I felt that I was too young then. Help please:(
• Summer hill

  14 Jan 12, 16:51

  just a chat and you are in love?

• </3sad

  14 Jan 12, 16:58

  I alrd liked her abit 3 yrs ago, forgot to mention above

• Darkness_hacker99

  14 Jan 12, 17:00

  how long has she not been replying you?

  Yea, I also experience the same thing as you. Like when I wanna ask my friend out for a meal, that person also never reply me

• TehJarVu

  14 Jan 12, 17:01

  can like, call, instead of sms?

• </3sad

  14 Jan 12, 17:06

  She never reply my last msg since 2 days ago, I tried smsing her again just now, still no replies I dun wana call because it is awkward if she wants to avoid me, since she doesn't want to reply my msg
• Summer hill

  14 Jan 12, 17:13

  Originally posted by </3sad:

  She never reply my last msg since 2 days ago, I tried smsing her again just now, still no replies

  I dun wana call because it is awkward if she wants to avoid me, since she doesn’t want to reply my msg

  some people dun have their phone 24/7 with them. 

• </3sad

  14 Jan 12, 17:15

  Really hope that's the case, if not
• Summer hill

  14 Jan 12, 17:20

  Originally posted by </3sad:

  There is this gal in my guitar class that I have not met for 3 yrs, but recently I saw her and chat with her for awhile, and I fell in love with her because I felt really comfortable talking to her. So I took the initiative to sms her out for a movie with a bunch of old friends whom we know,but after she replied who are you and I replied, she did no replied ever since, what should I do? Is she not intrested in me? I really hope I could have a chance to find out more about her. You all may be wondering y I did not ask her out 3 yrs ago. Because I felt that I was too young then. Help please

  1st bolded line: love last for so long?

  2nd: Its the insecurities you have,  i also have alot of people i am comfortable talking with.

  3: So fast want outing, you crazy? 

• </3sad

  14 Jan 12, 17:26

  Why can't love last for so long? My pri sch crush was 6 yrs. Outing so fast, cuz I gona be shaving bald soon, do not ask me y I asked her out so late, just take it that my balls jus appeared after it was gone for such a long time.
• Summer hill

  14 Jan 12, 17:27

  Originally posted by </3sad:

  Why can’t love last for so long? My pri sch crush was 6 yrs.

  Outing so fast, cuz I gona be shaving bald soon, do not ask me y I asked her out so late, just take it that my balls jus appeared after it was gone for such a long time.

  i got over my crush of p6.

   

• </3sad

  14 Jan 12, 17:34

  So am I supposed to give up after I got my balls back? I just need to know what to do next:(
• Summer hill

  14 Jan 12, 17:40

  

  Yes, please get over her

• </3sad

  14 Jan 12, 18:23

  Is there other solution?
• Summer hill

  14 Jan 12, 18:27

  

  Add her on facebook

• Darkness_hacker99

  14 Jan 12, 18:53

  Originally posted by </3sad:

  She never reply my last msg since 2 days ago, I tried smsing her again just now, still no replies

  I dun wana call because it is awkward if she wants to avoid me, since she doesn’t want to reply my msg

  
  Ya la! Same case like me.

  Since she never reply your sms, means she'd probably brush your SMS aside.  Perhaps she's taken already.

  What I'll do is PM on facebook and ask her out. If she's already attached, then don't break up them, toss away all your thoughts, and be friends with her first.  

• Summer hill

  14 Jan 12, 18:54

  Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:

  
  Ya la! Same case like me.

  Since she never reply your sms, means she'd probably brush your SMS aside.  Perhaps she's taken already.

  What I'll do is PM on facebook and ask her out. If she's already attached, then don't break up them, toss away all your thoughts, and be friends with her first.  

  darkness hacker always have good advice

• FireIce

  14 Jan 12, 18:56

  how u got her lumber?

  just suddenly pop out like tt will scare ppl mah

   

  u shd try to say hi agn during the class

   

  mai kan cheong

• Darkness_hacker99

  14 Jan 12, 18:57

  Originally posted by Summer hill:

  darkness hacker always have good advice

  
  jiani  the most experience one is actually fifi jie.

  I notice her advice are really good most of the time.  short, simple, and straight to the point

• </3sad

  14 Jan 12, 19:26

  I am already frens with her on facebook, I chat with her, but half way through the conversation she stop replying too. About the say hi in class, we are not in the guitar class anymore:( btw she is 2 years younger and I feel that I might not have the time anymore cuz I am getting enlisted soon Hais blame myself for being so balless back then
• TehJarVu

  14 Jan 12, 19:29

  u want to go in oredi 算了�

• motoway

  14 Jan 12, 19:30

  FELL IN LOVE.

   

  Cool story bro

• </3sad

  14 Jan 12, 19:34

  I think is the alredi want to go in feeling that make me dun wan to lose her and got my courage back to ask her out.
• motoway

  14 Jan 12, 19:36

  How can u lose her when she isnt urs in the first place?

• motoway

  14 Jan 12, 19:40

  She chio not?