What should i do? i am friendless (pls read).
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i am being bullied in my current school and have no friends to stand up for me. i dread going to school everyday, and i am still a long way from graduating (currently in sec 2 NA, still 3 mre yrs T-T) my parents don't know that i have no friends. well actually, when i was in p5 my form teacher noticed that i was friendless and contacted my parents. since then, my mum has always thought that i was a little bit mentally unstable and started telling her friends about me. my brother (Whom i never got along with) was even worse. he will always find little things to pick on me every sunday (he does not have to go to work every sunday) and scold me very loudly. literally every sunday :(
since then, i have been hiding in my room every sunday to avoid my brother. when i got into secondary 1, i lied to my family that i have made friends. they all believed me including my brother and stopped picking on me.
however, the bullying in school has not stopped. i have been picked on since p5 because i am different. i am thinking of going into home-schooling or transferring schools. but my bullies from p5-p6 are in all the secondary schools in yishun (i live in yishun) except for yishuntown,anderson and ahmad ibrahim. they are also very hard to get into as my psle aggegrate was only 164. i would of course prefer to go into home-schooling but what'll i do to get cca points? i also don't have any reasons to convince my parents into letting me home-school. i don't wanna let them know that its cos i am having trouble fitting in.
do you think i can transfer to one of the schools i mentioned above if i study harder this year?
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I can be your friend. :)
come on sgf more often, i will not be the only 14 year old here.
tell me, what did they do to you?
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Jiani sayang him with your kitty and duckling picture lah.
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i am using my mobile now.
tomorrow i use my desktop to paste the sayang pic.
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TS, u need to tell us what happen
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Then dun go school lor, like me, last time also never go sch, went cineleisure walk walk, play play, then go over to the Heeren sit there, buy drink and talk and talk, then later go home.
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Why can't you stand up for yourself when you are bully?
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When you last had friends, how do you talk to them?
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Transfer to another school wont help u, sometimes u need to stand up for urself, dun be too weak or they will keep bullying u, when I was in school some students bullied me too, but I let them regreted of what they hv done, after I became angry them nvr bully me again and beg for my forgiveness. Come sgf more often lah, I can be ur friend too.
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I think he want real life friends la....not virtual friends....><"
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TS must try to stand up for himself/herself loh... changing the environment might help but it is minimal if you do not change urself.
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Originally posted by maxsee:
I think he want real life friends la....not virtual friends....><"
Oops, then cant help liao -
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He'll feel comforted by that picture, Jiani.
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Originally posted by mancha:
He'll feel comforted by that picture, Jiani.
i am very curious, are u a reporter?
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I am an observer.
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Suck it up.. Prove them wrong by performing well, now 'N' level got Direct Poly also hor, so go ace that 'N' level and leave the bloody school.
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Be independent, self-reliant and self-reliant. Eventually, you'll have friends, :). You know what you want and you've already taken the first step - To source ways to help get you out of your current predicament. Don't be discouraged and disheartened. Many people have friends who aren't true to them. You don't want that to happen to you, right? Be patient, the right ones will come along, :).
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Originally posted by mancha:
I am an observer.
and I am the delegate -
Before allow other to accept you, ask yourself first, are you acceptable of what you are yourself, if not, what should you improve on, fashion? communication skill? habits? or simply, your character which is the most difficult to change.
Many asked why I got no gf, bf or fren, but forget to ask about themselves who they are??Who am I?
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Hey! Transferring to other schools won't really alleviate your situation. If this problem has been persisting for so long, maybe it is time you face it and not escape it.
Try to ignore the bullies. Open up and get to know other people. Develop your own personality. Why should you let the bullies have their way?
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TS still hasn't replied yet.........
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home-school = screwed up O levels.
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TS
i cry for u
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Originally posted by Summer hill:
TS still hasn't replied yet.........
nvr reply cus i was busy studying (to transfer to ahmad ibrahim). but ive been checking this thread ever since it was posted. thank you all for ur advices.