not confident to ask a girl out
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So basically im in a dilemma .. there's this girl i like and she's pretty cute and sorts . I've chat with her rather frequently on msn or sms . But i don't really dare to ask her out on a date because im not confident about my looks and im afraid that it might not work out .
But basically im just not confident about my complextion and sorts . I have afew pimples on my face and some hyperpigmentation marks . But at least I know how to dress well . i've also recently cut my hair and it didn't turn out great so im always wearing a cap whenever im out .
So im really concerned of the image i project to her .
I need help
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let us see ur pic
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dun worry so much lah, how u treat the girl is far more important than ur looking
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so u feel that the girl is only concerned about your looks? dun tink so right... if looks is not ur strength then dun focus on it... focus on projecting ur strengths to her.
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U dont like yourself already and u expect another to like u. Assuming the other likes u and when it stops - what happens to u?
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You should just be confident of who you are. Looks are just outward appearances which you can solve next time :) If the girl really likes you then she won't mind the pimples and stuff, like seriously which teenager doesn't get facial problems (unless they are super lucky)
or you can try going out in groups first? see her reaction then decide if you really want to ask her out. all the best! -
u shd try asking
if she agree to go out with u, u know she is touched by ur sincerity and not how u look
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What a golden opportunity to meet this girl and you are throwing it away over your pimples?
Silly...
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Just ask la..the worse u can get is rejection only...wun die la pls...
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to some ppl, getting rejected by a girl after u mustered so much courage to ask (even going to forums to post thread and ask ppl for advice somemore), is worse than scoring 36 raw for O levels.
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Pimples and marks faced boys, I hate de most, it show they are unhygience and also careless about grooming themselves
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Originally posted by FireIce:
to some ppl, getting rejected by a girl after u mustered so much courage to ask (even going to forums to post thread and ask ppl for advice somemore), is worse than scoring 36 raw for O levels.
Your majestic,How about girl getting rejected by boys, worse or not?
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Ask angel out. She will surely not reject.
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Originally posted by FireIce:
to some ppl, getting rejected by a girl after u mustered so much courage to ask (even going to forums to post thread and ask ppl for advice somemore), is worse than scoring 36 raw for O levels.
He already say he was frequently msn and sms with her. So chances of asking her out is high. -
Originally posted by alize:
Ask angel out. She will surely not reject.
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Originally posted by MagnificientDiagrams:
He already say he was frequently msn and sms with her. So chances of asking her out is high.
Try not to take chances in life, you only take chances with Singapore pool. Make sure you go in with an objective and a plan B, meaning if the gal said yes, what are you going to do,...get overly excited and forget to flash the toilet?? if the gal said NO, go into plan B, that is forget it and look for the next one. -
As a man who is not attracted to girls, I do not approach a girl with a sense of trepidation. The problem with heterosexual men is that they see a girl as a goddess.
I go to a girl and say 'hi there, what subjects are u taking'...As we walk pass the canteen, I say, I'm quite thirsty. U want a drink?' If she says no, then before she leaves ask her for her e-mail address. 'Btw could I have your email address so we could mutually hep each other with the homework questions?'.
I am not afraid of girls. If they are hiow, I am hiow back to them. If they are forthcoming treat them as if they are your male pals (without d dirty jokes).
Girls are not goddesses. If they stick up their nose at u, do the same to them.
70% of my friends are girls. They are the sincere and honest type. Not flirtatious. Not immoral.
Don't approach girls with fear. Add a mixture of straightforwardness, hiowness, and sincerity when talking to them and that will work mostly.
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In the first place, we never see ourselves as goddness, it is he who protray us to be, so be it, and then come and deny it.
We are also human, sure can be approached like all human beings interaction just like your aunties, mommy and sisters.
Of course we talk, look and see who we are talking to, social manner we are the best, hi, thank you, ok, sorry, please, bye bye is alway there in our way of brought up just like your sisters or nieces.
It should be 100% of gals are approachable, if 30% is not approachable, it must be your problem
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Originally posted by angel7030:
Try not to take chances in life, you only take chances with Singapore pool. Make sure you go in with an objective and a plan B, meaning if the gal said yes, what are you going to do,...get overly excited and forget to flash the toilet?? if the gal said NO, go into plan B, that is forget it and look for the next one.
What plan B? There is no plan B. If rejected, one has to learn to suck it up and take it. The only backup plan i can think of is TS going after two girls simultaneously, but even if that happens it is very rare. -
Somewhere out there there is a girl with the similar problem. here goes the story
So basically im in a dilemma, there is this guy that i like and he is quite normal looking. I've chatted with him frequently on msn or sms . But i don't really dare to ask him out on a date because im not confident about my looks and im afraid that it might not work out . Most IMPORTANTLY girls do not ask guys for a date.
But basically i am just not confident at all about my complextion and sorts . I have af ew pimples on my face and some hyperpigmentation marks. Frankly, I know how to dress well . i've also recently change to a new hairstyle and it didn't turn out well, so i always have to wear a cap whenever im out . So im really concerned of the image i project to him.
Get the idea?.
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^ No i don't really get it ? Anyway thanks for the helpful replies and advice guys . I've scheduled to meet her next fri , best of luck to me
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Got open mouth, got chance...
no open mouth = forever sit at the bench...
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Just ask. If rejected, move on. There are other girls if you open your mind.
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Originally posted by ZipUp:
^ No i don't really get it ? Anyway thanks for the helpful replies and advice guys . I've scheduled to meet her next fri , best of luck to me
Wow, good luck, remember must have a Plan B hor.Remember, we gals going out with guy is also testing the water, like eating buffet, we can go out with many guys, then choose our favorite, add in, then slowly we narrow down to a few good, handsome and yet, rich.
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@ DRC
If a guy rejects u because u have acne, he is not worth it and should be in yr discarded list. Even if u fancy him, if he won't reciprocate, what's the point?