just quarrel with a female fren
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I just had a quarrel with this female fren. some nasty words were exchanged, things heated up and she got really upset and says nvr wanna see me ever again.
she's the gf of my very very good fren and now my fren is getting the sh!t as she's venting everything on him, screaming at him, threatening to sucide (this gal has issues lah)
i really wish to settle this as i dnt want my fren to get into this, he has enough problems already.
i tried to intitate a talk with her by giving her a sms about it by she didn't reply at all.
This is really killing our frenship as i can't hang out with our grp of frens anymore as this gal is very sticky and will go with my fren everywhere.
pls tell me wat to do next
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simple, dun see her again.
if i were you, I dun see her again. is she worthy of being a friend, go ask yourself this.
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if she dun want to see you, make friends with other people. so many people out there waiting for you to befriend isnt it, esp those nice and courteous people.
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yah but if i were to meet up with our grp of frens, she sure will wanna stick along or worse ask the bf not to go
the bf is my very very gd fren, so i'm not gng to lose this frenship
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if the bf dun want to friend you cos of this minor matter, you think its worth befriending him?
the test of friendships not like this one. if the bf dun want to friend u no more, be glad so that you can see his true colours.
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If she is such a stupid fuck, both of you should let her go and make the world a better place.
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how old r u and the ger and her bf?
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Originally posted by Jacky Woo:
if the bf dun want to friend you cos of this minor matter, you think its worth befriending him?
the test of friendships not like this one. if the bf dun want to friend u no more, be glad so that you can see his true colours.
he won't give up our frenship one lah just tht it really makes things difficult for him and tht's the part tht i'm feeling sh!tty about
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Originally posted by alize:
If she is such a stupid fuck, both of you should let her go and make the world a better place.
i can give her up but not the bf cause she's so dependent and sticky on him that if this ends, her whole world will crush and we might see another case at bedok reservior
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Originally posted by redname:
i can give her up but not the bf cause she's so dependent and sticky on him that if this ends, her whole world will crush and we might see another case at bedok reservior
thats his business for having a bimbo gf right. so many gfs for him to choose, yet he choses her. imagine if the gf becomes her wife
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Originally posted by redname:
i can give her up but not the bf cause she's so dependent and sticky on him that if this ends, her whole world will crush and we might see another case at bedok reservior
don't worry, a lot of people patroling at bedok reservior
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Originally posted by redname:
he won't give up our frenship one lah just tht it really makes things difficult for him and tht's the part tht i'm feeling sh!tty about
why are you punishing yourself over this? just take it when it comes to it. the worse is, dun friend right? so why u worry over this now? u got other better things to worry than this right -
I last time also friend with my best friend... I ask her out for a meal..
On the way to the makan place, I just suck it up and say...
" I'm sorry for (say the reason)..., and I know i shouldn't have said that"
At first it's kinda hard to say sorry.. but after that once you got enough courage, all problems can be solved. That's probably the hardest thing to do; saying sorry to my bestie.
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Its time for you to find a girlfriend (I am guessing you are a guy).
Once you are into a BF/GF relationship, it will occupy your time.
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the problem is now between him and her bcos she is not handling it well.
u can issue an apology to her, and him.
then let them deal with it
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Originally posted by redname:
i can give her up but not the bf cause she's so dependent and sticky on him that if this ends, her whole world will crush and we might see another case at bedok reservior
In that case, the world would be a better place.
Imagine if you met another girl like her. "Ohhh shit..." you would say when the months of torture begin.
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She is still at the rage of anger. Give her and yourself time to cool down then settle.
When two parties are angry with each other it is pretty difficult to be sound and objective to talk things out.
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It doesn't matter who's in the wrong. The question is, do you want to salvage friendship. The first one who Apologise is actually the more superior one.
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Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:
It doesn't matter who's in the wrong. The question is, do you want to salvage friendship. The first one who Apologise is actually the more superior one.
Oops, if friendship is based on who being the superior one the friendship will be full of tension, jealousy, shallow, self-centredness, rage and negative .......... No or little peace in this kind of friendship. What a pity!
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sorry maybe superior is not the word...
I think cultivated is then the right word
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Originally posted by Jacky Woo:
how old r u and the ger and her bf?
she 25, me and the bf 30
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Originally posted by Jacky Woo:
why are you punishing yourself over this? just take it when it comes to it. the worse is, dun friend right? so why u worry over this now? u got other better things to worry than this rightok, perhaps i need to give more details on this.
I'm actually a very lonely person and in my live i only got 2 good frens, the bf and another guy.
one of them passed away, now left the bf only, so if no more frens liao then i really no frens liao
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Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:
I last time also friend with my best friend... I ask her out for a meal..
On the way to the makan place, I just suck it up and say...
" I'm sorry for (say the reason)..., and I know i shouldn't have said that"
At first it's kinda hard to say sorry.. but after that once you got enough courage, all problems can be solved. That's probably the hardest thing to do; saying sorry to my bestie.
she didn't even wanna talk about it :(
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Originally posted by MagnificientDiagrams:
Its time for you to find a girlfriend (I am guessing you are a guy).
Once you are into a BF/GF relationship, it will occupy your time.
i'm hopeless in BGR......
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Originally posted by FireIce:
the problem is now between him and her bcos she is not handling it well.
u can issue an apology to her, and him.
then let them deal with it
i don't get what you mean leh....