holding back anger
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Okay, I am 15, today had PE in school field with other Sec 5s..
I decided to practice my 2.4km run on the very crowded track, halfway during my run, there was this Sec 5 guy and his friend, both playing badminton on the track (Because there is no other open space).
As I jogged pass them, one of them tried to stop me, never mind I told myself, shun him. 2nd time I passed him, he threw the bloody racquet in my face, like pretend his hand slip, it landed on my face and he gave a smug laugh.
I wanted to stop jogging, pick up the racquet and throw it over the fence but I didn't want to blow things up, like involving some teacher and him picking a fight with me, and because he can just claim that his hand accidentally slip, so I just continued jogging, with my blood boiling.
After my run, I regretted holding myself back, like what I could have done to his badminton racquet and stuff..
Anyone can advice me on what to do in future? I'm sort of the soft spoken kind, but I'm not a pussy, if anyone were to flame me right now..
Thanks in advance.
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wat u have done is rite. no point getting urself into trouble. don't give these ppl attention and they lose
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Anyway, you have given this bully a miss this time, next time if the same happen you can report them to the office or teacher. Don't get yourself involve with them directly over such hooligans, let the authority handle them.
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Take his racquet and throw away.
Then again u studying in that school.
So ya, dont make your life so hard. Imagine everyday there's gangsters breathing down your neck.
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Originally posted by winsomeea:
Anyway, you have given this bully a miss this time, next time if the same happen you can report them to the office or teacher. Don't get yourself involve with them directly over such hooligans, let the authority handle them.
The teachers won't do anything without me presenting evidence to him/her.. Anyway, these idiots are very good at acting blur, private settlement works best in a situation like this. :)
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then wat u want? wong them via utube? tell them prease hor mai bully u. gobangwall
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Marcus,
you can get Win to deposit shit outside their flat door. She is very good and talented at that. :)
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Keep the anger.
Life is unfair.
It doesn't the favour the good guys.
Punch his face the next time it happens.
Remember every punch you gave him must be fill the anger you kept.
Live your life with no regrets.
Nevermind suspension, detention or caning.
Because deep down in your heart, you know these people are taught a lesson they will never forget.
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Don't worry =D if you work and study hard, one day you will be their boss
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You are only 15, it is normal to feel angry. But how you mature and grow up in life would depend on how you laugh off this incident and just forget about it. Its a one-off incident. Its not as if those two guys continually bully you and you have no choice but to stand up against them. Just forget about it.
Even if you reported this to the teacher, you would have made yourself infamous in front of your schoolmates, and two more new enemies of those two guys.
You must know when to stand up for yourself and know when is best to stand down. This incident is best forgotten.
Trust me, there are more battles for you to make as you grow. Especially when you go out there and work in the office, where's there is a lot of backbiting, backstabbing and office politics. Save your energy and wise up.
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In this world, it's either you bully people or you let people bully you. Decide for yourself. Retaliate when being provoked.
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They just want to get your attention. Ignore them. If you fight back with them , they will just annoy and disturb you more.
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Okay, so the next time something like this happens again, I just grab his racquet and jog to a secluded corner to dump it behind a bush or something and just act blur.
Thanks for the reply guys, I know what to do in future.
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then we will see u 横尸街头 on the news the following day
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u can do that only if u're sure u wont see them again
Other wise we have a "I wong you hor ryangobangwall" on youtube again
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Originally posted by Tmarcus:
Okay, I am 15, today had PE in school field with other Sec 5s..
I decided to practice my 2.4km run on the very crowded track, halfway during my run, there was this Sec 5 guy and his friend, both playing badminton on the track (Because there is no other open space).
As I jogged pass them, one of them tried to stop me, never mind I told myself, shun him. 2nd time I passed him, he threw the bloody racquet in my face, like pretend his hand slip, it landed on my face and he gave a smug laugh.
I wanted to stop jogging, pick up the racquet and throw it over the fence but I didn't want to blow things up, like involving some teacher and him picking a fight with me, and because he can just claim that his hand accidentally slip, so I just continued jogging, with my blood boiling.
After my run, I regretted holding myself back, like what I could have done to his badminton racquet and stuff..
Anyone can advice me on what to do in future? I'm sort of the soft spoken kind, but I'm not a pussy, if anyone were to flame me right now..
Thanks in advance.
First of all, they shouldn't be playing badminton on a jog track.They need to go to a badminton COURT to play.
Second, that guy is a bully. Bullies are actually cowards inside but acting tough outside. They are counting on you to be as cowardly they are so they can get away with being a bully.
Inform the school authorities the next time you see them playing badminton on a crowded track. They "accidentally" hurt you, they can also do that to someone else.
If your school authorities don't do anything to shoo them off, then they are also idiots. Maybe you should find another school to study. Principals and teachers are to enforce safety in their school compounds at all times.
If that same group of bully hit you again, you fight back.
Go and learn self-defence, build some confidence so you don't let people walk all over you.
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Originally posted by MagnificientDiagrams:
Marcus,
you can get Win to deposit shit outside their flat door. She is very good and talented at that. :)
YOu bastard gotta resort to flaming to get your frustrations out, LOSER, you bastard!
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Being a bully myself during my haig's gal sch days, I had alway picked on weak gals to bully them, like this can show my power and pride, I also found and formed the powerpuff gals gang there, I was the chief, no need to carry sch bag, someone would carry for me, even teachers also have to respect us.
Weak people like TS are what we are looking for to show our power. If they do not revoke back, we will keep bully them all the way.
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Originally posted by winsomeea:
YOu bastard gotta resort to flaming to get your frustrations out, LOSER, you bastard!
Don't swear at me, it will come back to you ! I where got flame you? I only tease you. You very sensitive is it?
I am holding the reflective mirror to bounce all your curse back to you.
Miss win, you are a lady, please act like a lady and don't use foul language.
Tmarcus, here is an example of somebody losing their anger, don't be like her aka miss win.
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Originally posted by Tmarcus:
Okay, so the next time something like this happens again, I just grab his racquet and jog to a secluded corner to dump it behind a bush or something and just act blur.
Thanks for the reply guys, I know what to do in future.
Yeah then, the two guys will act blur and follow you jogging into the bushes where nobody can see you three, then they will two people pound you like hell.
Just forget about it. You are playing all your thoughts of revenge in your head over and over again.
It is a one-off incident. It be different if the two guys are always bullying or targeting you as a victim - when that happens you must stand up for yourself.
Anyway what are the chances of you meeting those two again playing badminton on the jogging track?
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Originally posted by MagnificientDiagrams:
You are only 15, it is normal to feel angry. But how you mature and grow up in life would depend on how you laugh off this incident and just forget about it. Its a one-off incident. Its not as if those two guys continually bully you and you have no choice but to stand up against them. Just forget about it.
Even if you reported this to the teacher, you would have made yourself infamous in front of your schoolmates, and two more new enemies of those two guys.
You must know when to stand up for yourself and know when is best to stand down. This incident is best forgotten.
Trust me, there are more battles for you to make as you grow. Especially when you go out there and work in the office, where's there is a lot of backbiting, backstabbing and office politics. Save your energy and wise up.
it is not a matter of age, 15 or 51 also must protect oneself against unjust people, at 15yo, you protect yourself, by 51, you may need to protect your family, parents, ah ma and ah gong...so it is good that at 15yo, he start to train up.
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Originally posted by angel7030:
it is not a matter of age, 15 or 51 also must protect oneself against unjust people, at 15yo, you protect yourself, by 51, you may need to protect your family, parents, ah ma and ah gong...so it is good that at 15yo, he start to train up.
Yes, Marcus should have stood there and demanded an apology from those two guys.But it is already past. So, after two weeks Marcus come across this two guys at the corridor or during assembly and he say to them, "hey two weeks ago, you threw the badminton racket at me, I want you to apologise".
Hmm, interesting although I never seen people do that.
So, let the anger simmer and next time remember to do that.
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Marcus need to take both the hard and soft knocks of life, trival matter such as his case is jus peanut in everyone day to day life, from driving on the road, office walkway, clinic corridors, public pavements, shopping alleys etc etc all over the world, you get knocks and sometime tripped by peoples, and it is usually accidental, it he take it seriously, then next time he better stay at home and sleep, if want to run, buy a treadmills..run until your knees pop also nobody give a damn.
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There's this kind of people everywhere. Just bear with it uh. Not like he is in your class or something right. Just simply shows that they fella is so immature and no common sense to not use the track when people is jogging.