I hate my mother!!

• lce

  24 Apr 12, 12:21

  Originally posted by Stranger33:

  Children are not susposed to interfer in adult things as they may not understand what is going on and easy being mislead by either party. In this case Father should jump in and explain but not adding fuel to fire. How much 苦中苦 is up to Individual how you manage it? Successful doesn't come over night if this bit of issue can make you shity then what's next for you. You can't choose your parents but you choose the life you want. How much the children being affected is depends on upbring. Now may feel that life is 苦 but if know how to 苦中�� then anything will be easier to handle than self pity. Originally posted by lce:

   

  "I always told my son whatever what adults do and decide, don’t interfer and do what he suspposed to do. You choose the kind of day you want to spend. Full of hatred or smiling"

  r yr children not affected by yr actions?

   

  �的苦中苦，方为人上人

  how much è‹¦ä¸­è‹¦å�¯ä¸ºäººä¸Šäºº?

   

  "Children are not susposed to interfer in adult things"

  is tis a law of nature or otherwise? n u r able to control their thinking?

   

  "How much 苦中苦 is up to Individual how you manage it?"

  perhaps u can tell è€�天 on how much 苦 to allocate to u for yr acceptance

   

  You can't choose your parents but you choose the life you want.

  人在江湖 身�由己

   

  "苦中��"

  � comes from the 心. wen there is 心 there is 希望

  世上无难事 �怕有心人

• speakoutfor

  24 Apr 12, 12:59

  Takes two hands to clap.

  But two want to punch each other.

  So is there going to solve amicably?

  No.