Originally posted by I_hv_crush:I AGREE WIF JACK WOO.
U BLAME YER MOMMY WHEN IT IS BOTH YER MOMMY N DADDY FAULT. MOMMY - THINKS TOOMUCH. DADDY - TOO SOFT, NOT FIRM ENUF.
SO? AS 14 YEAR OLD - WAT U WANT TO DO? JUST MIND YER BIZ AND GO BACK TO YER SCHOOL. NOT WASTING TIME COMPLAIN ABOUT MOMMY.
U R PETTY, JEALOUS AND HOLD GRUDGES. U SHLD BE HAPPY FOR YER MOM. INSTEAD U COMPLAIN, COMPLAIN AND COMPLAIN. U EVEN COMPLAIN ABOUT CNY DECORATIN IN CLASS. SO PETTY.
AND THEN U LOSE URSELF IN TAYLOR SWIFT IMAGINATION.
WAKE UP TO REALITY.
tell me you are not gulity of holding grudges
Ts I know it's tough.But we all couldn't choose our parents can we? Now all I propose to u see stop hating ur mother.I know it's fucking hard after all that she has done or will do to ur father.But let it go,focus on the situation at hand,to help your father.After u have done that.It would prove to ur mother that no matter what she throws and u and ur family.U can always take it. P.S I believe now just ignore her the best.That's my opinion luh.All the best ts,I will try pray for u.
Originally posted by I_hv_crush:I AGREE WIF JACK WOO.
U BLAME YER MOMMY WHEN IT IS BOTH YER MOMMY N DADDY FAULT. MOMMY - THINKS TOOMUCH. DADDY - TOO SOFT, NOT FIRM ENUF.
SO? AS 14 YEAR OLD - WAT U WANT TO DO? JUST MIND YER BIZ AND GO BACK TO YER SCHOOL. NOT WASTING TIME COMPLAIN ABOUT MOMMY.
U R PETTY, JEALOUS AND HOLD GRUDGES. U SHLD BE HAPPY FOR YER MOM. INSTEAD U COMPLAIN, COMPLAIN AND COMPLAIN. U EVEN COMPLAIN ABOUT CNY DECORATIN IN CLASS. SO PETTY.
AND THEN U LOSE URSELF IN TAYLOR SWIFT IMAGINATION.
WAKE UP TO REALITY.
you are one big troll!
This is example when "Hell Bank Notes" is to be sent.
There are times when You simply wish someone dead but You cannot kill the person.. This is the time When I always encourgage folks to just send "Hell Bank Notes" to show You wish him/her/them dead, without killing them.
Update
my mum had moved out, but she kept on annoying me, kept on going to my house to take things, she even took my piggy bank! LOL, I can't even bear to spend the money, she go take.
she cursed my 80 year old grandmother to fall and die(i was like how dare you) and i scream at her. and suddenly, she preach about her 10 month pregancy, well, she's the "most expensive suggorate mother ever". haha, mother taking children piggy bank.
everday come and take things, i also want to block her number(which i did on my phone) and when she comes, refuse to open the door. and when maybe she call the police, or some sph reporter, i will scold her infront of them, what a parasite mum i have. haha, fact is fact ,some parents(or mothers) are messed up. :(
Originally posted by Summer hill:Update
my mum had moved out, but she kept on annoying me, kept on going to my house to take things, she even took my piggy bank! LOL, I can't even bear to spend the money, she go take.
she cursed my 80 year old grandmother to fall and die(i was like how dare you) and i scream at her. and suddenly, she preach about her 10 month pregancy, well, she's the "most expensive suggorate mother ever". haha, mother taking children piggy bank.
everday come and take things, i also want to block her number(which i did on my phone) and when she comes, refuse to open the door. and when maybe she call the police, or some sph reporter, i will scold her infront of them, what a parasite mum i have. haha, fact is fact ,some parents(or mothers) are messed up. :(
yo jaini
no matter wat yr mother did to wrong u, she is still yr mum. just let her be
someday u will be a mother too
anger will not solve any problem
is your father changing the lock so she can't keep coming back?
Originally posted by lce:yo jaini
no matter wat yr mother did to wrong u, she is still yr mum. just let her be
someday u will be a mother too
anger will not solve any problem
i am not going to be a mum.
I do not really know you but here is my advice:
Hating your parents is not a solution. I know how you feel about your mother. But, please save your emotions. Save your emotions for someone who deserve.
If she keep coming back to "disturb" you and your family. Change the lock. Do not talk to her even when she talks to you. Just starring at her if you feel that she disturb you. Starring until she look away or go away. Some people messed up with their own minds that they are actually doing the right thing...
The final solution. Avoid her. This is not a good solution but this is a good way to show her that you know about her mistake. Further, if you are a cruel person as I am (in some way I can be cruel), send her money or any thing that related to money on her birthdays, to remind her about her mistake.
Some people can not understand that MONEY can not replace their own SOULS...
Originally posted by daniel126:I do not really know you but here is my advice:
Hating your parents is not a solution. I know how you feel about your mother. But, please save your emotions. Save your emotions for someone who deserve.
If she keep coming back to "disturb" you and your family. Change the lock. Do not talk to her even when she talks to you. Just starring at her if you feel that she disturb you. Starring until she look away or go away. Some people messed up with their own minds that they are actually doing the right thing...
The final solution. Avoid her. This is not a good solution but this is a good way to show her that you know about her mistake. Further, if you are a cruel person as I am (in some way I can be cruel), send her money or any thing that related to money on her birthdays, to remind her about her mistake.
Some people can not understand that MONEY can not replace their own SOULS...
thank you. :)
You have to change the locks, and not let her into the house. Just changing the padlock of the grille will do.
If she keep on banging the door and make noise outside, call the police.
Don't let her take anything any more, and also lecture you.
Don't let her abnoxious behaviour influence you to becoming a ruined person.
You must know who you are, and be that best person, and not think of your mum, and become a bitter person. Understand.
Originally posted by mancha:You have to change the locks, and not let her into the house. Just changing the padlock of the grille will do.
If she keep on banging the door and make noise outside, call the police.
Don't let her take anything any more, and also lecture you.
Don't let her abnoxious behaviour influence you to becoming a ruined person.
You must know who you are, and be that best person, and not think of your mum, and become a bitter person. Understand.
Yeah mancha is right.
Please understand and support your father...
Please understand your mother. She suffered much than you think... She could live poorly when she was small and she thought that MONEY can solve "every" problems. I think that is not totally true.
This is a problem with no solutions. Can't change who the mother is. Can't change daddy's situation. So how? Stuck.
Since no solution, leave this country and be gone for good, after all, beside a crazy mom, the society is also getting worst by the day...time to move on or move out.
Originally posted by speakoutfor:This is a problem with no solutions. Can't change who the mother is. Can't change daddy's situation. So how? Stuck.
You can't change what has happened.
You can change your reaction to it.
Originally posted by mancha:You can't change what has happened.
You can change your reaction to it.
Bingo ! Precisely !
Or, if you cannot change what is happening, then join and get along with it.
Like if your mom is crazy, you be more crazy than her, this is call mirror reflection therapy, once mom see you crazy, she see herself in you, she will stop disturbing you
Originally posted by angel7030:Or, if you cannot change what is happening, then join and get along with it.
Like if your mom is crazy, you be more crazy than her, this is call mirror reflection therapy, once mom see you crazy, she see herself in you, she will stop disturbing you
i don't think that will work
It works on kid, why not, do you know that kids will absorb what you said when they find common ground, you see most adult also act like kids inorder to get their message and learning transmitted to them.
Same goes to your mother, she is like this, you act like her, then she can see for herself that her siao had make you more siao.
Originally posted by Stranger33:Don’t lower down the standard of yours argue with this kind of people wait others said your dad never teach. It will make things worst. Divorce should be the parents issue not the child. Don’t pull yourself into the picture and feel bad about it.
You need to concentrate and do whatever you need to do. She will regret one day.
Please so blame it on the woman charter, it is the greed of human make it worst. I am also a divorcee but mine went through very well. No custody fight no maintenance fight however not everyone is that luckily that wife’s maintence only asked for a dollar.My mum left me when I was young and I follwed my dad. 3 yrs back my dad passed away due to cancer. My mum and siblings go through lawyer and court just to get my dad’s business, asset and money. I was in the grief of losing my dad and I had to go to court like my second home. I decided to give up everything and get myself out of shit.
I always told my son whatever what adults do and decide, don’t interfer and do what he suspposed to do. You choose the kind of day you want to spend. Full of hatred or smiling
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I hope you understand what I mean and you are not the worst. When time are difficult everything is possible and when being strong is the only choice then nothing will fail you.
empty talk is cheap
empty talk is cheap
Originally posted by Stranger33:I agreed empty talk is cheap not only that even talk is also cheap. It is truth that no point spending too much time on someone that not worthwhile. Time wait for no man if continue to "entertain" this kind of people is simply waste of time but of cos it doesn't mean that it given chance to show disrespect. Originally posted by lce:
empty talk is cheap
"I always told my son whatever what adults do and decide, don’t interfer and do what he suspposed to do. You choose the kind of day you want to spend. Full of hatred or smiling"
r yr children not affected by yr actions?
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"I always told my son whatever what adults do and decide, don’t interfer and do what he suspposed to do. You choose the kind of day you want to spend. Full of hatred or smiling"
r yr children not affected by yr actions?
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how much 苦ä¸è‹¦å�¯ä¸ºäººä¸Šäºº?