I hate my mother!!

• Summer hill

  2 Jan 12, 16:02

  Originally posted by kilfer:

  Mommy for adoption.

  Do a good deed. Adopt Summer's mum. 

  yup give angel for free.

  then she will understand how i feel

• angel7030

  2 Jan 12, 16:04

  Originally posted by kilfer:

  Angel, talk is easy, when you are not in TS shoes.

  
  Not really, if you can look at a different perspectives and understand perfectly what is mental illness, you can deal with it, mental illness are people without a soul anymore, what is left is a body and a crazy brain. But of course, we a normal person, it will be much better, but too bad, if you got mental illness close one to look after, you hv to bear this in mind, because you can easily get hurt and unhappy when this body with a crazy brain start to torment you.

  Most mental illness get worsen, I hv never see any reversed and get cured, the most is sustained or controlled

• angel7030

  2 Jan 12, 16:05

  Originally posted by kilfer:

  Mommy for adoption.

  Do a good deed. Adopt Summer's mum. 

  
  Including her insurance? not bad

• Summer hill

  2 Jan 12, 16:06

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  
  Not really, if you can look at a different perspectives and understand perfectly what is mental illness, you can deal with it, mental illness are people without a soul anymore, what is left is a body and a crazy brain. But of course, we a normal person, it will be much better, but too bad, if you got mental illness close one to look after, you hv to bear this in mind, because you can easily get hurt and unhappy when this body with a crazy brain start to torment you.

  Most mental illness get worsen, I hv never see any reversed and get cured, the most is sustained or controlled

  i am very unhappy and unloved.

  she never cared for me since i was young

• angel7030

  2 Jan 12, 16:08

  There is nothing much you can do, just do more positive thinking, as long as you do your part, be good, discipline and cool, life goes on.

• Summer hill

  2 Jan 12, 16:14

  Originally posted by youyayu:

  Lesson learned don't get married 

  so that the goverment have more reasons to import more FT

• youyayu

  2 Jan 12, 16:16

  Originally posted by Summer hill:

  so that the goverment have more reasons to import more FT

  why not? 

• Summer hill

  2 Jan 12, 16:17

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• Darkness_hacker99

  2 Jan 12, 16:18

  *face palm*

• kilfer

  2 Jan 12, 16:24

  Angel, it's easy to say, but difficult to do.

  Since her mum is allowed to seek divorce, and the family court granted a portion of Summer's family assets to her; that would mean that she is still sane enough to make major decisions on legal matters. Won't that same level of sanity make her understand her responsibilities and how to take care of her family? So why didn't she do her part to control her illness and take her medicine?

  Btw, mental illness can be anything. It can be something light like OCD (gambling, alcoholic, insomnia...etc), and which does not affect her ability to make decisions in general.

  Her mum is an adult. The children are still very young and should be cared for, not abused.

   

• Summer hill

  2 Jan 12, 16:46

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  There is nothing much you can do, just do more positive thinking, as long as you do your part, be good, discipline and cool, life goes on.

  i don't know, i feel inseurce about my future

• MagnificientDiagrams

  2 Jan 12, 17:13

  Originally posted by Summer hill:

  when i was young, she said if i want to go university i must take on debt. -.-

  no saving for me. 

  
  I am afraid there is very little you can do about this. This is a matter between your father and mother. Of course it involves you but divorce is a complicated situation, both parties are so tired that they want out.

  The very least you can do is to be there for your father, be a good child and don't play truant. Study hard and achieve good results, make your father proud of you. Your father already got enough headache from the divorce, don't make things worse for him. Hang on there. What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger.

  Don';t forget your dad, he loves you. So if you think you are unloved, it is not true.

   

• Summer hill

  2 Jan 12, 17:18

  Originally posted by MagnificientDiagrams:

  
  I am afraid there is very little you can do about this. This is a matter between your father and mother. Of course it involves you but divorce is a complicated situation, both parties are so tired that they want out.

  The very least you can do is to be there for your father, be a good child and don't play truant. Study hard and achieve good results, make your father proud of you. Your father already got enough headache from the divorce, don't make things worse for him. Hang on there. What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger.

  Don';t forget your dad, he loves you. So if you think you are unloved, it is not true.

   

  thank you :)

• MagnificientDiagrams

  2 Jan 12, 17:21

  Originally posted by Summer hill:

  thank you :)

  
  You are welcome.

  Also tell yourself, you are not the same as your mother. You will be better person than she was.

• kilfer

  2 Jan 12, 17:24

  Concentrate on your studies and do well.

  If you study well, the school fees are quite affordable. You can also apply for scholarships and bursaries along the way. And a uni study loan is easily cleared in 2 or 3 years.

   

• Hitman Factory 1

  2 Jan 12, 17:26

  well with casinos n loan sharks....trhink she might end up ..........................

  jiani....the life insurance means nothing nowadays.its REALLY A SCAM  insurance.i bought insurance n founbd that i lost $$$$ in insurance.best u save $$$$.dun end up like your mom.

• Summer hill

  2 Jan 12, 17:35

  Originally posted by Hitman Factory 1:

  well with casinos n loan sharks....trhink she might end up ..........................

  jiani....the life insurance means nothing nowadays.its REALLY A SCAM  insurance.i bought insurance n founbd that i lost $$$$ in insurance.best u save $$$$.dun end up like your mom.

  life insurance pays for my  erm, medical fees...etc and i need one.

  later i meet something terrible, i still have somethinh to lean on.

• Hitman Factory 1

  2 Jan 12, 17:39

  Originally posted by Summer hill:

  life insurance pays for my  erm, medical fees...etc and i need one.

  later i meet something terrible, i still have somethinh to lean on.

  
  umm....i actually wasted my $$$$ by buying life insurance and payin it every month.never used it for decades.end up seems like my other banking investments got a better profit than my life insurance.life insureance is awaste of time n $$$$$$ unless u are really sick n need operations.

  other than that medisave will do jiani!

• Summer hill

  2 Jan 12, 17:43

  Originally posted by Hitman Factory 1:

  
  umm....i actually wasted my $$$$ by buying life insurance and payin it every month.never used it for decades.end up seems like my other banking investments got a better profit than my life insurance.life insureance is awaste of time n $$$$$$ unless u are really sick n need operations.

  other than that medisave will do jiani!

  i have NF1.

  genetics disorder

• Hitman Factory 1

  2 Jan 12, 17:48

  NF1??in that case...u do need an insurance.your dad should have discplined your mom but i suppose he was too busy when he was young.

• melodymaker

  2 Jan 12, 19:17

  If you're in need of someone to talk to contact Samaritans of Singapore http://www.samaritans.org.sg/

• Jacky Woo

  2 Jan 12, 19:22

  are you Jiani in disguise

• Summer hill

  2 Jan 12, 19:30

  Originally posted by melodymaker:

  If you're in need of someone to talk to contact Samaritans of Singapore http://www.samaritans.org.sg/

  i love SGF.

  i want a open disverse view

• Summer hill

  2 Jan 12, 19:30

  Originally posted by Jacky Woo:

  are you Jiani in disguise

  i am jiani, but i don't have clones

• Jacky Woo

  2 Jan 12, 19:32

  Originally posted by Summer hill:

  i am jiani, but i don't have clones

  oic. didnt know u have so many problems even though u are 14 only.