help! my gf wanna cut her hair very short!
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we had been together for slightly less than a year...we got along well, our relationship is smooth lovely.
but yesterday, during lunch, she told me she wanna cut her back-length long hair before chinese new year... into a very short pixie cut!! she says she is sick of having long hair, n wanna try something new.
something as short as this! like guy's hairstyle like that. oh my god. photo ...http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_kFQlLrCa1s4/S6oF9LEBu5I/AAAAAAAAAzA/7lzg05663gE/s1600/Pixie-haircut.jpg
all along she had long hair... n i tried to dissuade her that the hairstyle is not suitable for her, n look like a dude, later get mistaken for butch, long hair nicer n prettier n more feminine, short hair not popular, it might not suit her face n style. (btw she's those feminine lady-like gal, thats y i think she shld keep her long hair, or otherwise a chin length bob if she wanna cut it shorter. not as short as a guy's hair...thats too drastic).
then i think she got angry, n said i dun own her hair. i have no right to tell her off. shes free to do whatever she wants with her hair n body. n i think she said she might even wanna shave it bald. wtf
then we kinda quarrelled, n to make things worse, she said some negative things about me which spite me. like i m a cheekopeh, mummy's boy, pervert etc. den also said if i like long hair, ask me go find another gal with long hair, or go get hooker.
i was angry, but i controlled my anger. n finally she left halfway throughout the meal.
den now we are not on talking terms. so what should i do?? how to patch back with her, n more importantly, persuade her not to cut her hair too short? coz i really love her, n we intend to get married soon. shes the right one for me, n i feel we r destined to spend the rest of our lifes together.
(even though we r in our mid 20s, but i already have a condo, car n financially stable, coz i m working for my father whos a rich businessman. intending to propose to her maybe sometime this year. wish to settle down. after all, father already agreed to sponsor wedding cost, banquet dinner, honeymoon, etc etc)\
i love her long hair leh... i dun think i will like a pixie haircut on her...its not feminine, n i dun want her hair to be as short as mine. besides, women with very short hair, cant turn me on.
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Bro, you serious? You guys quarreled over her hair..?
If you cannot stand it with her short hair, then she isn't the one for you. Anyway, I don't see the point of you saying your father is a rich businessman, trying to show off maybe?
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Aiya. If you love her you should love her decisions. Cutting hair short is not such a major life-changing event, what. Hair can be grown back. Anyway the cut she wants is a STYLISH pixie cut. Even if you think it will not suit her, it might.
A good hairstylist will make the style suit her. Who knows you might find her cuter and sexier aft the cut?
Ever heard of ai wu ji wu? Why wanna patch back AND convince her otherwise?
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(even though we r in our mid 20s, but i already have a condo, car n financially stable, coz i m working for my father whos a rich businessman. intending to propose to her maybe sometime this year. wish to settle down. after all, father already agreed to sponsor wedding cost, banquet dinner, honeymoon, etc etc)\ no wonder she say you are a mummys boy. all your money, car, condo came from your dad, he even wanna sponsor ur wedding?? seriously i think you should get married with a wig.
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post pic of your gf to let us help you see if she will look nice with short hair.
And introduce her so that we can help to convince her
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wtf
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Short hair now in fashion mah, like QYF, but for me, short hair is like aunty, better follow the korea girl groups' style, long and curl down, victoria secret
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cool
like f(x) amber
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u need to grow up
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honestly speaking,cutting hair short is nothing.she will look fresher with a new hair style too. wats the big deal about it??? -
Weather hot, just let her cut it short.
Tell her to cut like Quan Yi Feng bowl shape style:
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Originally posted by iforgottenx: honestly speaking,cutting hair short is nothing.she will look fresher with a new hair style too. wats the big deal about it???
maybe he can only get aroused by her long hair, being short to him is just like going to bed with a man. ahem...so beside cuttin her hair short, does she want to cut or shave other places hair??>.. -
Tok abt short hair...i once dump an ex-gf coz she cut her hair short...i told her to meet me after her hair grow back...boy was she piss...tat's the last time i heard from her since...><"
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Some people cut hair short to start anew, a new life, new year, new bf, new career or simply new sugar daddy
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Ask her to give you the long hair when she cut. You keep that, and let her go.
Win/win situation.
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Tell your gf to support the bowl shape hair trend.
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lawyer abbas hair looks nicer leh...
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Originally posted by Dalforce 1941:
Tell your gf to support the bowl shape hair trend.
Good idea, make a mature woman look younger.
Even the judge give her probation, like she is 12yo, when she kick a taxi driver in the balls.
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Originally posted by mancha:
Ask her to give you the long hair when she cut. You keep that, and let her go.
Win/win situation.
or when go out with you, buy her a wig and wear lor, can also use hair extension, mine is green and pink, so beautiful, add color to long hair -
Originally posted by angel7030:
or when go out with you, buy her a wig and wear lor, can also use hair extension, mine is green and pink, so beautiful, add color to long hairI think if you kick taxi driver in the balls, you kena rotan.
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she is correct.
It's her hair.
None of ur taiji.
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Originally posted by mancha:
I think if you kick taxi driver in the balls, you kena rotan.
Not really, I very gender with Taxi Uncle one lah, slight kick only, maybe the taxi driver ask for more...go airport book those expensive cab lah, they treat you like queen -
Face it lah, guys like girls to have longer hair.
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what is wrong with short hair?
Better than no hair.