I'm not the better man to judge you or your wife.
However, your last sentence " I did not
stop her because I am already so tired everyday have to worry about
her, hearing her complained, work stress, etc." was so disgusting at self-justifying yourself.
To her, she don't know how you feel. Only the lack of effort from you is evident to her.
To me, it's just a silly excuse. What values more to you? Your tiredness or having her back?
Edit: I don't really care if its your fault or hers. I only know that you have a choice to do something now to save your marriage or hopefully wait till she does something.
wen love is blind
Originally posted by Sky_Blue223:I'm not the better man to judge you or your wife.
However, your last sentence " I did not stop her because I am already so tired everyday have to worry about her, hearing her complained, work stress, etc." was so disgusting at self-justifying yourself.
To her, she don't know how you feel. Only the lack of effort from you is evident to her.
To me, it's just a silly excuse. What values more to you? Your tiredness or having her back?Edit: I don't really care if its your fault or hers. I only know that you have a choice to do something now to save your marriage or hopefully wait till she does something.
I dun know whether to agree or not to. Thanks for your comment.
Anyway, it's over and now waiting to end the marriage. Maybe you will say I am not responsible but since I know she can't bear with the lifestyle and she rather go back to her family.
I should just let go and move forward.....
You should, and when you hv really decided to let go and move on, make sure you do it, many end up unable to let go and start to move backward again. Then more problem arises. You are responsible for yourself and your action, you alway are, because of your action, you get a wife like this and end up like this, it is part of your responsible, responsible in getting the wrong wife, action and children
people create systems to rule your life, pragmatically and high handedly...
peoples tend to ask, what is life. Life is alive and breathing, as simple as that, if you are breathing and able to move, you are a Life of yourself, you created your own life, your own destiny, be it blind or conciously clear of what you want, its your Life. And being alive and unable to know about Life and yet ask about it, dun you feel awkward over it.