Secretary haress my friend...
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Originally posted by MagnificientDiagrams:
First and foremost, you seem to be very interested to know your friend's situation, you seem to have very high stake in the situation. Not sure if you are really the guy or the girl, in the story.
Should not jump to conclusion. It is very hard to conclude if the secretary is interested in him. Your friend should not make it a joke to say the secretary teasing is his girlfriend, it can cause misunderstanding.
If your friend doesn't like the secretary to tease and matchmake him, he should stop telling the teasing secretary to be his girlfriend (as a joke). This is because she would matchmake him even more, as she would want to find out more if he is interested in her, to eventually make him blurt out that he likes her. Not generally but some women, like the guy to say these things, because it makes them feel more wanted. But it doesn't mean these women like the guy, they just want to hear it that the guy likes them. When the guy say these things as a joke, they tend to fester and build strong crush on the girl, eventually he may not able to resist and confess his love to her. The final result is not good, once the secretary finds out, she would leave him high and dry as she is only interested to know how he feels about her.
Simply make it clear and tell the secretary to stop it. If it goes on, keep quiet and ignore. Better concentrate on the job because all these distractions can lead the boss to think that he is out of focus on his job.
I think your friend is not realistic, in saying that he would only marry when he achieves $5,000 a month salary. Sometimes, when love comes, he has to grasp that opportunity, it only comes once in a blue moon. Having said that, I am not saying that the teasing secretary is the one love that he should be chasing, because it seems that their relationship is only at platonic level. I have known a lot of guys who earn $5,000 a month, still single. Monetary is important but it is not all omnipotent in finding life partner. On the other hand, I have known people who earn $3,000 or $2,500 a month yet they are married at younger age.
I believe he or she is the guy or the secretary
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Originally posted by winsomeea:
I believe he or she is the guy or the secretary
Very high probability judging from the length and detailness of the story. -
Your friend should just start stroking his cock in front of the secetary until she becums (pun fucking intended) horny...
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You all don't believe is not my friend then nothing more I can say. The more I defend, the worse the misunderstanding is. I just relate what my friend told me.
Originally posted by MagnificientDiagrams:I think your friend is not realistic, in saying that he would only marry when he achieves $5,000 a month salary. Sometimes, when love comes, he has to grasp that opportunity, it only comes once in a blue moon. Having said that, I am not saying that the teasing secretary is the one love that he should be chasing, because it seems that their relationship is only at platonic level. I have known a lot of guys who earn $5,000 a month, still single. Monetary is important but it is not all omnipotent in finding life partner. On the other hand, I have known people who earn $3,000 or $2,500 a month yet they are married at younger age.
Love is blind, don't be too blinded by love but be practical in life.So what if they married at a younger age???
Most of them are immature, quarrel over small things frequently, always worried about money, and after that quarrel, sick of each other and threaten to divorce, etc. Other than that, else the girl will definately nag at the guy's inability to make more money to support the family better in years to come.
That happens to one of my sec school classmate. Married within 2 years, after that, everytime quarrel even on very small things. In the end, now they are seperated and it is a matter of time that they will divorce. This is just one example of people around me.
Be practical. A sweet don't last its flavor forever.
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Originally posted by SBS 1000U:
You all don't believe is not my friend then nothing more I can say. The more I defend, the worse the misunderstanding is. I just relate what my friend told me.
Love is blind, don't be too blinded by love but be practical in life.So what if they married at a younger age???
Most of them are immature, quarrel over small things frequently, always worried about money, and after that quarrel, sick of each other and threaten to divorce, etc. Other than that, else the girl will definately nag at the guy's inability to make more money to support the family better in years to come.
That happens to one of my sec school classmate. Married within 2 years, after that, everytime quarrel even on very small things. In the end, now they are seperated and it is a matter of time that they will divorce. This is just one example of people around me.
Be practical. A sweet don't last its flavor forever.
Reality is that all couples argue. There is no perfect marriage. Yes some divorce. Ultimately it is up to you whther you feel marriage is right for you or not. SOme marriages work, some don't work, some marriages carry on in misery for the sake of the children growing up.Sometimes being rich doesn't guarantee a happy marriage. I know a rich businessman who doesn't get along with his wife because of money. Yes being poor also don't guarantee happy marriage. So should one strike a balance? Be middle class? Not too rich, not too poor? I don't have the answers.
I am no expert in marriage. But i get a lot of feedback from friends. Some tell me the happiness in marriage are the children. Less the wife.
Marrying young has its benefits. Its easier to bear children. It is sad when I see some couples who marry in their 30s try very hard to have children but fail - they pay a lot of $$$ to fertility clinics. I am not saying people in their 30s cannot have children, it is just harder.
Also by the time you earn the level of $$$ you want in order to get married and established, you would have found many of your friends already married, your group of friends less and less. So it is harder to meet people especially the potential life partner. Usually people prefer to marry people at same age. You don't normally see a 32 year old guy going out with a 25 year old. Of course, got but not very often.
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Originally posted by MagnificientDiagrams:
Reality is that all couples argue. There is no perfect marriage. Yes some divorce. Ultimately it is up to you whther you feel marriage is right for you or not. SOme marriages work, some don't work, some marriages carry on in misery for the sake of the children growing up.Sometimes being rich doesn't guarantee a happy marriage. I know a rich businessman who doesn't get along with his wife because of money. Yes being poor also don't guarantee happy marriage. So should one strike a balance? Be middle class? Not too rich, not too poor? I don't have the answers.
I am no expert in marriage. But i get a lot of feedback from friends. Some tell me the happiness in marriage are the children. Less the wife.
Marrying young has its benefits. Its easier to bear children. It is sad when I see some couples who marry in their 30s try very hard to have children but fail - they pay a lot of $$$ to fertility clinics. I am not saying people in their 30s cannot have children, it is just harder.
Also by the time you earn the level of $$$ you want in order to get married and established, you would have found many of your friends already married, your group of friends less and less. So it is harder to meet people especially the potential life partner. Usually people prefer to marry people at same age. You don't normally see a 32 year old guy going out with a 25 year old. Of course, got but not very often.
Love by itself is not blind, human can go blind, but not love.There are kind of walk of life in this world, for one to meet another and get married is something that need to be fully understood, not marrying for the fun of marrying which most people did and that is why end up...bonkered
Love is not blind, it is a package, a package that include, happiness, fun, glory, enjoyment, sex and fulfilment at one side and also, sad, hatre, jealous, non satisfactory, unhappiness, secret, lost, tear, broken and parting off. For this, all must understand, especially those who wish to fall in love must first understand, otherwise if you only look at the happiness, fun, glory, sex and enjoyment part, please dun fall in Love ya
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Originally posted by angel7030:
Love by itself is not blind, human can go blind, but not love.There are kind of walk of life in this world, for one to meet another and get married is something that need to be fully understood, not marrying for the fun of marrying which most people did and that is why end up...bonkered
Love is not blind, it is a package, a package that include, happiness, fun, glory, enjoyment, sex and fulfilment at one side and also, sad, hatre, jealous, non satisfactory, unhappiness, secret, lost, tear, broken and parting off. For this, all must understand, especially those who wish to fall in love must first understand, otherwise if you only look at the happiness, fun, glory, sex and enjoyment part, please dun fall in Love ya
Yes true.
Marriage got risk. Sometimes we don't really know. Go dating that day, we think this person is perfect for us. Then marriage, the glow of the romance start to wear off, then tension. Divorce or stay on can happen. Ultimately we must ask ourselves, do we want to commit to marriage? Sometimes when we want something badly, do we have to try? When a person wants to start a family, he or she knows there are risk of divorce and unhappiness, what should the person do? Wouldn't be to try as the first step?
Sometimes we thik about it, marriage is scary prospect. It could make you feel so good then somehow divorce can destroy your life. Then again, living alone also is a scary prospect. Nobody want to die alone. Nobody want to live alone, watching all their friends marry, siblings marry and then parents one day will pass away - leaving us alone. Ultimately one must make or risk the decision - should marry or celebate?
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My dear, marriage is a legal process, if 2 persons want to come together, they actually do not need to marry or make and announcement for the whole world to know.
But in the abiding laws, you need to get marry to have legal child, buy flats or house, being legally recognise in law as husband and wife. It is a legal binding. Just like if you want to buy a car here, you need to register.
It had somehow become a human life process, meaning after you were born, grow up, educated, work, become an adult, get married, have a family, grow old, sick and die. This is a typical human life process, and most peoples go by such rules of thumb, but it is not a requirement if you choose not to, however, since it become so common and usual, being single like us become a strange and out of normal process in life, but if you are open up, that is not the case, I hv the right to remain single, take single seat, book single room and sleep in a single bed.
Be yourself, dun be pull by the process which is not a necessities in life, marrying and set up family is not compulsory in life, it is just a traditional believes, because it had been past down since donkey years.
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THat is why, it is up to the individual. Some prefer to remain single. Some prefer to marry. Ultimately up to you.
External life influences can be very burden. Very hard to avoid the social pressures. If you have done so, I congratulate you.
I don't know about singapore, I know in western country they got domestic partner policy. No need to get married. Guy and girl live together and then start family. The australian Prime Minister, Julia Gillard is first PM to have domestic partner.
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They also got gay marriage.
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y u so lor sor one.
ask ur frd to cm post here himself lah.
he 30 alrdy stil nit u to huan loh such petty tings for him meh.
and acherly hor, 5k is easily attainable & not alot leh - he nits to set his target higher.
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his fren is a gay mah, nowaday, 30s ++ guy are still baby
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These kinds of stories always mean one thing.
They do not have enough work to do in the office so have too much time to indulge in nonsense.
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Too much sense can make one go senile, so have some non sense is also good.
Just like my english, full of nonsense, too bad the govt did not mention me
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Originally posted by charlize:
These kinds of stories always mean one thing.
They do not have enough work to do in the office so have too much time to indulge in nonsense.
yah man.... back side itchy, mouth flapping.
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TS, tell friend to tell everyone he is gay.
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Originally posted by mistyblue:
yah man.... back side itchy, mouth flapping.
...and brain dead