losing big at mbs and rws :(
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hi help pls , i am very depressed that i keep losing big amount at casino but i am still young. all bcus my bf bought me free access 1 yrs to mbs and rws then i have been gambling a lot. i am not frm rich family and still student and working but i have lose all my saving and have some debts to friend and my cousin sister. my parents and bf don't know about this but they notice i am very poor. i can't affort to buy cigrate and eat meals at my work also :(
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so u are blaming ur bf?
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no but is he introduced me to it. he lose a lot too but he can affort it. last time we go together and i will tell him to leave if he win but if i play i cant leave myself. this mth i have lose 18k and i find hard to recover back even half of it
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18k one year expenses
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call the quit gambling hotline
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Lose 18k no big deal. It's not 180k. If you work hard, be smart after graduation, 18k takes only a short time.
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i have lose much more than 18k in overall , still owe ppl. my luck is too bad , always tried to beat dragons end up have 10 streaks many, natural 8 lose to 9 and even winning a lot of times only get 6 pts pay half. playing pontoon worst almost all time i double i will lose. i am scared to go now but i have to pay back money. my parents sure will kill me if my friend go to my house to ask it
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Simi pontoon? lol. Be like me, ignorant.
When you gamble, once you win, stop. You lose, also stop. Try another time. Don't keep thinking about it as your greed will overtake you and hamper your judgment. Now go and do some p/t job, save the money and pay it back. Be responsible as you've also lost the hard earned money of others.
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Originally posted by Tiramissyou:
hi help pls , i am very depressed that i keep losing big amount at casino but i am still young. all bcus my bf bought me free access 1 yrs to mbs and rws then i have been gambling a lot. i am not frm rich family and still student and working but i have lose all my saving and have some debts to friend and my cousin sister. my parents and bf don't know about this but they notice i am very poor. i can't affort to buy cigrate and eat meals at my work also :(
Apple online with SingPass for self-declared/controlled anti-casino exclusion:
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Quit smoking.it's not good for u.
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ger ger who ask you to gamble and smoke
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you should learn from this lesson. this is important. if you never learn from this incident, in future, you will incur even more money than this.
quote u an example. u know wu meng da, hk actor, always acted with stephen chow movies. last time he was good friends with chow yun fatt in the 80s, always go to his house for sleeping and makan before chow became a famous movie star. wu meng da incurred about 300k gambling debt, that time during his 1 year stay in Taiwan.
he tried to borrow money from chow, who refused to lend him. he was pissed with chow, as 300k is nothing to him, dunno why he refused to lend him. when no one lends him money, he decided to repay the debts himself. he struggled for many years to repay the debt and became very serious in his acting craft. look what happened in the 90s, when he was quite successful pairing with stephen chow.
he said that the good thing was he learnt his lesson well and that chow did not lend him money to repay his debt on hindsight. he would not became the wu meng da in the 90s if he has not decided to change over a new leaf.
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As long as you dont deal with the inherent greed within u, u may quit gambling, but it wont go away - it will manifest itself in other ways.
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in life there are vices to avoid. for guys, its drinking, womanising and gambling.
for women, its gambling and shopping
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Originally posted by Jacky Woo:
you should learn from this lesson. this is important. if you never learn from this incident, in future, you will incur even more money than this.
quote u an example. u know wu meng da, hk actor, always acted with stephen chow movies. last time he was good friends with chow yun fatt in the 80s, always go to his house for sleeping and makan before chow became a famous movie star. wu meng da incurred about 300k gambling debt, that time during his 1 year stay in Taiwan.
he tried to borrow money from chow, who refused to lend him. he was pissed with chow, as 300k is nothing to him, dunno why he refused to lend him. when no one lends him money, he decided to repay the debts himself. he struggled for many years to repay the debt and became very serious in his acting craft. look what happened in the 90s, when he was quite successful pairing with stephen chow.
he said that the good thing was he learnt his lesson well and that chow did not lend him money to repay his debt on hindsight. he would not became the wu meng da in the 90s if he has not decided to change over a new leaf.
Nice story.
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Cool story bro
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the root cause is she's now a hardcore gamblinf addict. she can also sell her body for 10 bucks to gamble there. please call gambling hitline.
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Sound more like another anti-casino lobbist.
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Originally posted by Rock^Star:
Nice story.
ya. but its real life story of we meng da. dun believe go watch his interviews at lu yu you ye.
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Originally posted by Jacky Woo:
ya. but its real life story of we meng da. dun believe go watch his interviews at lu yu you ye.
yes, its true. and he's a superb actor and comedian.
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You just have to focus on your work and stop gambling.
Forget about getting the money that you have lost.
Unless you want to end up worse than what you are, please continue to gamble.
Just focus on your work and do something else to occupy your time.
Either take up a course with your friend so that you dun have any time to go casino.
The choice is yours.
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No point crying over spill milk. Take a deep breath and ask yourself, what is it that you want now? To clear your debts by working hard or to recoup it at the table again? (99% you will lose more, not only money, but time, youth and trust) Talk to yr bf and if he is caring or responsible, 2 of you should work out a plan, e.g - to work hard together to save and repay yr debts. Take this time to quit yr cigges. One pack a day $10, is $300 a month. $3600 a year. You need to save on yr cigge for 5 years before you recoup yr $18k without going back to the table. Including yr cigges savings, yr partime jobs etc. I believe you should be able to clear yr debts in a few years. The most you are 20+, you still have a long way, a bright future. It all just depends on you. Jia You! Help yrself, coz no one can help you. Take a step forward to a brighter future now.
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what is the bf work as?
He sounds rich. Just ask him to pay the debts that you owe lor
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dun end up being social escorts or illegalized pros...not being offensive .....but its true that some gals i know owe huge debts in gambling and credit cards when i work part time as ktv waiter in my undergraduate days...one of them i know has quit gambling and happily married ...we r frens to this day and i never look down on them...
so long as u r not owing ah long is blessed liao...u stop all gambling and if its addiction, seek counselling...u must find ways to repay the debts to frens / relatives even if its in parts...work part time if u can and be determined....teach yrself a lesson...
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Originally posted by Tiramissyou:
i have lose much more than 18k in overall , still owe ppl. my luck is too bad , always tried to beat dragons end up have 10 streaks many, natural 8 lose to 9 and even winning a lot of times only get 6 pts pay half. playing pontoon worst almost all time i double i will lose. i am scared to go now but i have to pay back money. my parents sure will kill me if my friend go to my house to ask it
Why you never think out of the box?
If your luck is so bad, then ask your friends to bet the opposite of what you bet.