As far as it is concern, if you want to go after your neighbour, do it big, dun scare about them coming after you, give them a big bang, make it a big issue, even they not happy, they will keep their noise lowered, but you must make it big
Originally posted by SBS 1000U:Those damn inconsiderate karang gunis downstairs are even more irritaing and noisy than my neighbours.
Don't know why they come everyday and empty handed.
Some looking for aunties or maids
why you seem to know everything?
Originally posted by troublemaker2005:why you seem to know everything?
she is an angel.
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Originally posted by Mr Milo:
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huh?
Take the broom and knock the ceiling.
throw banana skins outside their flat
Just send live or dead lizards, cockroaches, spiders....... New Year's gifts.
spray their house with a heavily scented perfume
Originally posted by Summer hill:spray their house with a heavily scented perfume
waste money on perfume!!!!
buy those cheap deodourants. lousy or not, scent must be strong.like the rexona can choke u one. 24hour
Originally posted by Summer hill:buy those cheap deodourants. lousy or not, scent must be strong.like the rexona can choke u one. 24hour
for such nasty neighbours i won't even spend half a cent on them.
Laugh and stomp ur feet in front of them
Originally posted by nature-ones:i called the hdb the day before going up to approach that dam neighbor. the hdb sent email to me that they had already go to that dam neighbor house and tried to persuade them to reduce their noise activity. but the noise seems not going down, so i go up and look for that dam neighbor and den the problem comes.
i ask them to stop playing with that dam ball in a peaceful manner and 10mins later, wife come down and shoot back me that i am rude?!?! give so much rubbish reasoning and really pissed me off so i raised my voice with her. now today his husband not happy come down at my doorstep to create chaos. called police and they tell me to call community mediation centre to settle this problem! called hdb the person who email me back, he say he forgot to tell me not to go up approach that dam neighbor cos that husband is a hot temper guy =.="
so the ending is i have to endured their dam noise
but i find the using bamboo stick method quite good le, at least can give back some noise back to them. but as for hiring the foreign worker come to my house, that one
my parent already cannot tahan foreigh worker liao, if hire them come my house, i will tio nag by them forever
Mr nature,
I have to spell bad news for you. Your situation is not good. If you don't get along with co-workers or friends, you can easily avoid them but if you have bad conflict with neighbours, it can be very bad, because you see them everyday !
I hope you spoke politely to your upstair neighbour. However, judging from their reaction, I think you scolded them? I understand your frustration but if you don't use diplomacy on your neighbour, if you make them hate you, it can get very messy.
At least if you spoke politely to them, tell them not to play ball, if they don't listen, it happen again, they don't take you as a threat. But now, they are angry, I am afraid that your upstair neighbour may try to take revenge. My cousin once have problem like you, after he got into argument with neighbour and tried HDB and police, the neighbour purposely cause more trouble to provoke him by making even more noise upstair. So be ready, if your neighbour is hot temper only - ok, but if they are revengeful - you may have to tolerate this.
Also you effectively involve your parents into the conflict. Did you ask them for permission before you lodge complain or spoke to the neighbour?
PS: YOU better stock up on bamboo brooms. You may get ball noise or upstair noise attack like 2 am. So you better be ready for retaliation. If your parents stay at home during day, ask them to use bamboo attack !
Originally posted by MagnificientDiagrams:Mr nature,
I have to spell bad news for you. Your situation is not good. If you don't get along with co-workers or friends, you can easily avoid them but if you have bad conflict with neighbours, it can be very bad, because you see them everyday !
I hope you spoke politely to your upstair neighbour. However, judging from their reaction, I think you scolded them? I understand your frustration but if you don't use diplomacy on your neighbour, if you make them hate you, it can get very messy.
At least if you spoke politely to them, tell them not to play ball, if they don't listen, it happen again, they don't take you as a threat. But now, they are angry, I am afraid that your upstair neighbour may try to take revenge. My cousin once have problem like you, after he got into argument with neighbour and tried HDB and police, the neighbour purposely cause more trouble to provoke him by making even more noise upstair. So be ready, if your neighbour is hot temper only - ok, but if they are revengeful - you may have to tolerate this.
Also you effectively involve your parents into the conflict. Did you ask them for permission before you lodge complain or spoke to the neighbour?
PS: YOU better stock up on bamboo brooms. You may get ball noise or upstair noise attack like 2 am. So you better be ready for retaliation. If your parents stay at home during day, ask them to use bamboo attack !
I've said already....the best solution is to leave the dreadful place....u can't do much to "neighbours from hell"....
Originally posted by MagnificientDiagrams:Mr nature,
I have to spell bad news for you. Your situation is not good. If you don't get along with co-workers or friends, you can easily avoid them but if you have bad conflict with neighbours, it can be very bad, because you see them everyday !
I hope you spoke politely to your upstair neighbour. However, judging from their reaction, I think you scolded them? I understand your frustration but if you don't use diplomacy on your neighbour, if you make them hate you, it can get very messy.
At least if you spoke politely to them, tell them not to play ball, if they don't listen, it happen again, they don't take you as a threat. But now, they are angry, I am afraid that your upstair neighbour may try to take revenge. My cousin once have problem like you, after he got into argument with neighbour and tried HDB and police, the neighbour purposely cause more trouble to provoke him by making even more noise upstair. So be ready, if your neighbour is hot temper only - ok, but if they are revengeful - you may have to tolerate this.
Also you effectively involve your parents into the conflict. Did you ask them for permission before you lodge complain or spoke to the neighbour?
PS: YOU better stock up on bamboo brooms. You may get ball noise or upstair noise attack like 2 am. So you better be ready for retaliation. If your parents stay at home during day, ask them to use bamboo attack !
You don't sound like you have any nasty encounters with neighbours. However polite or diplomatic people are to nasty neighbours, they don't give a damn la. Most make even more noise after the polite and diplomatic treatment. Wake up !!!!!!!!
You are contradicting yourself in your reply to TS.
Laugh and stomp feet is extremely childish! Behave like a spoilt kid. ahahhahahah!!!
Originally posted by winsomeea:You don't sound like you have any nasty encounters with neighbours. However polite or diplomatic people are to nasty neighbours, they don't give a damn la. Most make even more noise after the polite and diplomatic treatment. Wake up !!!!!!!!
You are contradicting yourself in your reply to TS.
You see, last time the neighbour did not intentionally do the noise. Now TS argue with them, they do even more, and intentionally to provoke TS. So it is "intention" + "non intention" noise.
I don't think I need to do the wake up because TS is the one who is going to do a lot of wake up because the neigbhours are going to disturb him in middle of night.
TS is now at war with upstair neighbour. According to Sun Tzu Art of War, the neighbour has higher ground advantage.
http://sgforums.com/forums/3545/topics/444525?page=1
Read the story above = smile wins !
Originally posted by Demon Bane:I've said already....the best solution is to leave the dreadful place....u can't do much to "neighbours from hell"....
Problem is the TS is living with his parents. So I presume it is his parent's place. So the only way if his parents not agree to move, TS must move.
Originally posted by MagnificientDiagrams:You see, last time the neighbour did not intentionally do the noise. Now TS argue with them, they do even more, and intentionally to provoke TS. So it is "intention" + "non intention" noise.
I don't think I need to do the wake up because TS is the one who is going to do a lot of wake up because the neigbhours are going to disturb him in middle of night.
TS is now at war with upstair neighbour. According to Sun Tzu Art of War, the neighbour has higher ground advantage.
http://sgforums.com/forums/3545/topics/444525?page=1
Read the story above = smile wins !
You still don't get it. Sigh!
Sounds like TS is at fault he deserves a nasty neighbour.
I hope you encounter nasty neighbours to understand and sympathise the plight of others.
Originally posted by winsomeea:You still don't get it. Sigh!
Sounds like TS is at fault he deserves a nasty neighbour.
I hope you encounter nasty neighbours to understand and sympathise the plight of others.
I don't know why you are wishing me this kind of bad things. I have witnessed this kind of neighbour through my cousin. I stayed with him before. I told him to speak to neighbour politely. But he went to scold the neighbour. That made the neighbour incensed and purposely do that drilling noise at 4am to disturb him. If you provoke the neighbour, they will provoke you back. In the end we had to take turns to use bamboo broom tactic. My cousin was inventive, he strap a hammer at the end of the stick. It worked.
You are getting my meaning all wrong ! You should not be wishing people bad things because it can go back to you.
Bad things happen to good people. I never said TS deserve this neighbour. TS is having bad luck.
Originally posted by MagnificientDiagrams:
I don't know why you are wishing me this kind of bad things. I have witnessed this kind of neighbour through my cousin. I stayed with him before. I told him to speak to neighbour politely. But he went to scold the neighbour. That made the neighbour incensed and purposely do that drilling noise at 4am to disturb him. If you provoke the neighbour, they will provoke you back. In the end we had to take turns to use bamboo broom tactic. My cousin was inventive, he strap a hammer at the end of the stick. It worked.You are getting my meaning all wrong ! You should not be wishing people bad things because it can go back to you.
Bad things happen to good people. I never said TS deserve this neighbour. TS is having bad luck.
You still don't get it. YOu are giving the message that people who have nasty neighbours asked for it, they go provoke neighbours to get them nasty.
Kid, some people need to go through life experience to learn, you are one of them. So wishing you face nasty neighbours is not something bad but good for you to learn from it.
Originally posted by winsomeea:You still don't get it. YOu are giving the message that people who have nasty neighbours asked for it, they go provoke neighbours to get them nasty.
Kid, some people need to go through life experience to learn, you are one of them. So wishing you face nasty neighbours is not something bad but good for you to learn from it.
No, no and no.
You got it all wrong. I am saying TS is making his situation worse by arguing with the neighbour. I am not saying TS is wrong, I am saying TS should have tried talking things diplomaticly first. Maybe if second time neighbour still not listen then TS has convinced himself he did all he can.
Yes I have experience thru my cousin. But because of this, I now have much better neighbours than last time. Thank you very much for your wishing because now I am blessed with better neighbours.
If you continue to wish this, the wish will go back to you. Enjoy your experience with your new nasty neighbours. Remember cursing someone will always cause the curse to go back to you - it is like a mirror.
Originally posted by MagnificientDiagrams:No, no and no.
You got it all wrong. I am saying TS is making his situation worse by arguing with the neighbour. I am not saying TS is wrong, I am saying TS should have tried talking things diplomaticly first. Maybe if second time neighbour still not listen then TS has convinced himself he did all he can.
Yes I have experience thru my cousin. But because of this, I now have much better neighbours than last time. Thank you very much for your wishing because now I am blessed with better neighbours.
If you continue to wish this, the wish will go back to you. Enjoy your experience with your new nasty neighbours. Remember cursing someone will always cause the curse to go back to you - it is like a mirror.
You are cursing. hahhahaha!
You have not experience it directly it is a different matter. When you get it yourself you will not say what you mentioned. Life experience is good for your learning.