In love with colleague
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I did read your posts. Maybe I’m over sensitive or over analyzing things but she did a few things that puzzled me. 1) She stopped all contact & ignored me after I sent her a msg to stop texting me and that I don’t want a cyber gf. She took MC the next day. (She usually tells me whether she’s taking mc / leave that day a not. And that month she already took 4 days MC, she said she can’t afford to take any leave that month becos she don’t want to give the big boss a bad impression). 2) Most girls or all girls I know. when they are over this guy means really OVER. They don’t even waste their emotion of anger or hate on the guy. They totally ignore them as if they r transparent. But instead when my colleague had a casual chat with her, She pointed at my pic in the company photo and keep complaining about me to him. 3) I caught her many many times turning her head to my work area. The hallway only got left and right view of the production floor. And only 2 ppl work at my area and the rest on the other side. Its not that I purposely go see btw, just coincidence cos we are working in a small company. 4) She already told me who confessed to her.. why doesn’t she play with them instead. Most stupid thing is sending pics of herself to me about her hairstyle. Not scared I blackmail her? lol I’m just wanna hear your opinions so I can be more careful and be more aware next time. Because this is really my first time i met such a lady. Your views and opinions are greatly appreciated
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If she's really a player she must be mad to invest all of these. Furthermore she went out to buy things for me to eat. My colleagues at work told me that she will never do that. The most annoying thing when we were on cloud 9 is that she kept bragging to the other colleagues that how big my muscles are. That really freak me out cos no one except a few whom I told abt her knows we are actually chatting. Cos ppl in the production rarely communicate with the office staff. She really don't understand what is low profile zzz. She should have been more vary of ppl suspecting us cos of her high post. Think she's rather stupid for being a player.
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She Played You Like A Grand Piano.
Go watch the movie: 500 days of Summer (Good Movie). It will help you to understand better about Romance and not to read too much into a woman's reaction.
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Originally posted by Hseng25:
If she’s really a player she must be mad to invest all of these. Furthermore she went out to buy things for me to eat. My colleagues at work told me that she will never do that.
The most annoying thing when we were on cloud 9 is that she kept bragging to the other colleagues that how big my muscles are. That really freak me out cos no one except a few whom I told abt her knows we are actually chatting.
Cos ppl in the production rarely communicate with the office staff. She really don’t understand what is low profile zzz. She should have been more vary of ppl suspecting us cos of her high post.
Think she’s rather stupid for being a player.
Ah seng, from your insisting post that keep focusing on her, you cannot escape Angel mei mei think of what you are thinking, I think you do like or Love her, could be you cannot get a young gal or is attracted to mature ones.You see, ah seng, as a gal, in love, I know that if nothing move, nobody move, you talk so much about that aunty, i bet you are the one instigating the Love.
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Ya lor mr seng.
I agree u seem to like her more than she like u.
why do u keep questioning her actions?
Dont tink too much into a girls' action.. and yes.. watch 500 days of summer for a refrence.. -
Not bad.....you can attract a 40-year old woman...and defeat other competitors....means you have talent.
But you made a childish and stupid mistake in your texting.
First, why did you scold her that you "dont want a cyber GF and stop texting me"
That is so rude.
Even if she bothers you too much with the SMSes.....you can simply......answer less.....or answer after some delay.....or say you are busy and you will reply later.....
Those gentle moves are better...rather than scolding her so harshly like that......
I dont think she is a player or whatever....I think she was angry and hurt by you......
And then after that, dont keep SMS-ing her back, saying sorry, lets be friends, lets try again..........dont do that, because you are doing to her what shes been doing to you previously, namely, annoying and irritating her.
Ok nvm.....just learn from this experience.
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Hi veggie , thanks your ur views. Yeah it's entirely my fault. Never blamed her. At least she doesn't give me a black face whenever we bump into each other. I act normal she act normal, both of us moved on and that's end of story. And yes of cos I like her otherwise I wouldn't approach her and no.. Not that I have no luck with young girls lol... Just happen to fall for her. I can't help it
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My condolences......
Anyways...cheers yourself up........anyways it wont be any serious relationship....because of the age difference.......so in a sense you didnt lose anything, because it wouldn't work out anyway in the long run, even if this SMS fiasco didnt happen.
So just enjoy her and enjoy her looks, no need to think too much or think too deeply.
Merry Christmas and Happy new year..!
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Just as well. Older partners are a very sensitive lot. They are constantly paranoid of younger competitors.
There is a big diffrence when a commitment is made. Because then the tollerance level plummets, and the niceties wil be gone, and there will be constant bickering.
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Originally posted by angel7030:
Ah seng, from your insisting post that keep focusing on her, you cannot escape Angel mei mei think of what you are thinking, I think you do like or Love her, could be you cannot get a young gal or is attracted to mature ones.You see, ah seng, as a gal, in love, I know that if nothing move, nobody move, you talk so much about that aunty, i bet you are the one instigating the Love.
Haha angel7030! You shared the exact thoughts as I did! :-D
T.S is the one...who is very into that older lady.Lol.:-D
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Originally posted by white.jewel:
Haha angel7030! You shared the exact thoughts as I did! :-D
T.S is the one...who is very in love with that 'aunty'.Lol.:-D
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Originally posted by white.jewel:
Haha angel7030! You shared the exact thoughts as I did! :-D
T.S is the one...who is very into that older lady.Lol.:-D
Why I got it, because I also sometime love older guys... -
Originally posted by Hseng25:
Hi veggie , thanks your ur views. Yeah it’s entirely my fault. Never blamed her. At least she doesn’t give me a black face whenever we bump into each other.
I act normal she act normal, both of us moved on and that’s end of story.
And yes of cos I like her otherwise I wouldn’t approach her and no.. Not that I have no luck with young girls lol… Just happen to fall for her. I can’t help it
If you had fallen in love with her, you should not come here and post things which is bad about her action, you should protect her, care for her, and never expose your love one with comments and critics in the public. -
in singapore, no matter how u fall....always protect yourself FIRST....there should not be any guilt in dumping women as they are already well protected...do not be tied down by the so called "gentleman" code.. there is no appreciation in hard work in singapore...as u r aware...
love, in this country, is a barter trade and highly biased under a biased gender system...
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...and also social status system. Dumping of men occur when one find a higher and more comfortable life from the one being dumped. It is a mere exchange of men with their women, nothing concern women and certainly, nothing bother us.
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vice versa...and in other words, modern women need no empathy....
always protect yourself first..
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Originally posted by Hseng25:
She texted me ” Thx and appreciate it very much but no need for flowers and your juices. We shall remain colleagues and friends and I’m not suitable for you.”
You know it's over when she doesnt want your man juice.> _ >
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what? i'm just saying..
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That is why most sg guys lost out to ang moh.
They are so scared of failure and everything also scared to try.
By the time, they made up their mind.
The gal is either taken or married liao.
Just go ahead and make her your gal.
Stop analysing, guessing and discussing about it.
Be a man.
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Originally posted by Fcukpap:
vice versa...and in other words, modern women need no empathy....
always protect yourself first..
But men prefer not to use condom, so much about protection -
Originally posted by Medicated Oil:
That is why most sg guys lost out to ang moh.
They are so scared of failure and everything also scared to try.
By the time, they made up their mind.
The gal is either taken or married liao.
Just go ahead and make her your gal.
Stop analysing, guessing and discussing about it.
Be a man.
In fact, latest statistic shown that they even lose out to bangalas guys -
no lah angel, actual fact is haben save up enough money for dowry and wedding actual yet lah
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Originally posted by Medicated Oil:
That is why most sg guys lost out to ang moh.
They are so scared of failure and everything also scared to try.
By the time, they made up their mind.
The gal is either taken or married liao.
Just go ahead and make her your gal.
Stop analysing, guessing and discussing about it.
Be a man.
You did not read his further post?
The gal already declared she has a boyfriend. Still want to go after her?
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Originally posted by angel7030:
In fact, latest statistic shown that they even lose out to bangalas guys
where is the statistic?
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Originally posted by angel7030:
In fact, latest statistic shown that they even lose out to bangalas guysSure or not, that pathetic ?????
Local guys need a lot of help and encouragement on this issue.
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Happy new year to everyone. Let me share the truth to everyone. She's actually married with a daughter. Only people in the top management knows about her marriage. She is keeping her marriage a extremely low profile including her facebook. Her new so call boyfriend is another victim whom she is very close to even before I approached her. I have to give myself some credits able to make her shift all her attention to me among all the other guys in the company.
