In love with colleague
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Thx for your opinions and views. It's not like I want to fall for her. It's just that I felt really comfy with her. I really don't know whether she's playing with me or just insecure. I guess I only can move on and let fate decide. She's really quite a weird lady according to my co workers.
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you may want to take it slow so both of you can really gauge your feelings for each other.
with the age difference many things can go wrong.
i am sure you dont want to end up hurting each other.
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Ah seng ar? both women and men alike, by 40s, still not married, something is very wrong, and weird behavior start to appear, very common. The envism of frens, relatives, siblings and colleagues getting married one by one making their own home with childrens can bring a person of her age go bonker, she will find herself being abnormal in life, and especially so in women, after getting a good man, family is the next important in their life, follow by childrens and so on. Years after years attending people weddings, other people's new born babies and birthdays and engagment party, and she herself got nothing, sooner or later will go siao, better weird now than later. A boy will alway find cmfy in his elder sister or mother arm
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Originally posted by angel7030:
Ah seng ar? both women and men alike, by 40s, still not married, something is very wrong, and weird behavior start to appear, very common. The envism of frens, relatives, siblings and colleagues getting married one by one making their own home with childrens can bring a person of her age go bonker, she will find herself being abnormal in life, and especially so in women, after getting a good man, family is the next important in their life, follow by childrens and so on. Years after years attending people weddings, other people's new born babies and birthdays and engagment party, and she herself got nothing, sooner or later will go siao, better weird now than later. A boy will alway find cmfy in his elder sister or mother arm
i have seen and know many who are normal.
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Sure, there are lots of actor and actress around, normal can be act.
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Originally posted by angel7030:
Ah seng, for men, at 40s, is a true blown dragon, for women, is at 18yo, is a nice pick rose, by 40s, just a weed with a few petal to spare will be great. Couple with our cycle, menopause will be on the horizon soon. I know some guys like mature ones, most probably you are one of them, or otherwise, you are unable to attract the young ones, so end up with older ones, those that had gone by the wind and lights.
Leave those 40s ++ women to those uncles lah, you should be chasing girls like me in our early 20s. No wonder I am puzzle as to where the young sg guys gone to...
no advertising here okay, now you stooped so loa as to advertise yourself
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Originally posted by dragg:
i have seen and know many who are normal.
forgive this angel lah, she gave herself an angelic nick to ceover the fact that she already get abnomral at age 22 already. she needing a man to set her on the right path, both in life and in the mind. i am doing that but its gonna be a challeneg. -
Originally posted by angel7030:
Sure, there are lots of actor and actress around, normal can be act.
yep, behind the doors of hotel room during photoshoots you acted so 'normally abnormal'. -
dun waste time on her . forget her since she is not gf material.
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she jus need attention with a young guy like u...to recall memories of lost love...to let her frens know that she is still wanted...and continue to be wanted....need constant assurance that she is still needed at her age....
很难� de......
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haha i agree=)
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Originally posted by Hseng25:
Im in the process of moving on.. Before I deleted her contact last night.. I texted her how I really felt and wished her all the best to her and her bf. She replied thx. I know I shouldn't have texted her but I just wanna have my final say. This morning she greeted me with a cheerful smile so I guess no more hard feelings between us. I guess u guys are right, she might be a player. A very pro experience player with lots of free time. It hurts... This is my first time I ever met such a lady. I guess I've boosted her ego already.
I believe you might have found the answer you seek - all the best for your love life.P.S: My sense (imho) is not so much about her being a player, but seemed more like some developmental issues to me. But well, that's only my two cents.
Cheers
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just like wat they said. sit bak and relax. ignore her for one week. don bother wat she did to u. just don talk,see and text her. one one weeks. she will spam ur phone and ask why u ignoring her all that nonsenses
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watever the case should be....it depends on how much u want her...
all things have expiries...do not overstretch yourself for the illusive eternal memories...
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Originally posted by 韩飞官:
just like wat they said. sit bak and relax. ignore her for one week. don bother wat she did to u. just don talk,see and text her. one one weeks. she will spam ur phone and ask why u ignoring her all that nonsenses
wow nice advice
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Hi all thx for your replies. I talked to her on the phone. She said we are friends. I Told her if being friends from a start will bring us closer, I will give this relationship my all. And if regular contact and spending some time together will rekindle what we had when we 1st know each other. Told her I dont play mind games with her, mind games are for kids and that's way history for me. And i asked her just to give me a 2nd chance and to take things slow. Her reply was " Sorry i have a BF now & thx" So yeah that was her reply. I guess its better for me to move on. I gave her my blessings to her and her bf and told her not to contact me anymore. Even better to totally avoid me even at work cos i can never be friends with her as i will always habour romantic feelings for her. I've deleted her from my HP and blocked her from whatsapp. I guess this is the right thing to do.
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Har avoid u at work? Erms... If there is any avoiding to be done - it should be from your side.. just sayying
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She's not a player this is one thing I'm very sure. And yes Yunhaier we started off very sweet but things went a little too fast till it crashed.
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Yeah.. doesn't matter anymore. Blocking her from whatsapp is kinda stupid also cos i know she'll never call or text me again. Its just my way of moving on and breaking all ties to me is necessary. It doesn't really hurt now as I expected the worst when I called her up. I don't blame her for moving on and getting another guy. If I were her I think I would do the same. Investing all your feelings and hope to a guy so much younger is dangerous. And I think she did the right thing. She's a nice lady, too bad I had to fall for her otherwise I wouldn't had asked for her number and all these things hadn't have to happen. I learnt from my mistakes. 1) If I had kept my cool on her sms bombing, we might had been together. 2) If i had left her alone when she mad at me, things would had been different ( If a girl doesn't care about u... she wouldn't be angry. Why waste her emotion.) 3) I should have considered her feelings before mine. Anyway it's over! And thx everyone for your views. I greatly appreciate it.
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with the support of women charter.....the reverse trend of elder women with xiao di di is now commonplace...
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Not really la... Most girls will still feel insecure with a much younger guy ba. Haiz, but really sad la. She's really an awesome lady except that she's EXTREMELY xiao qi. Maybe its a blessing in disguise that we didn't get together. It was really close though. Maybe I look young for my age. Couple of ladies at my work place call me xiao di di which is kinda annoying. I have to keep telling them i'm turning 30 liao. Come to think about it, I would really give my all if this lady had accepted me but its too late.I guess I can only console myself that at least I was able to get a hot 40yr old lady crazy enough to bomb my HP almost 24hrs everyday for 2 weeks and having her compliment me quite a number of times tat i'm a shy, cute & friendly guy lol. She must be damm free at work to chat so much during office hours >.>
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well.....u have to learn how to 收拾残局
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Originally posted by Hseng25:
Yeah.. doesn’t matter anymore. Blocking her from whatsapp is kinda stupid also cos i know she’ll never call or text me again. Its just my way of moving on and breaking all ties to me is necessary. It doesn’t really hurt now as I expected the worst when I called her up.
I don’t blame her for moving on and getting another guy. If I were her I think I would do the same. Investing all your feelings and hope to a guy so much younger is dangerous. And I think she did the right thing. She’s a nice lady, too bad I had to fall for her otherwise I wouldn’t had asked for her number and all these things hadn’t have to happen.
I learnt from my mistakes.
1) If I had kept my cool on her sms bombing, we might had been together.
2) If i had left her alone when she mad at me, things would had been different ( If a girl doesn’t care about u… she wouldn’t be angry. Why waste her emotion.)
3) I should have considered her feelings before mine.Anyway it’s over! And thx everyone for your views. I greatly appreciate it.
You didn't read my earlier post. I could smell that she has a bf miles away (based on your description).You didn't make any mistake. You could done it any other way, and still you would have reached the same result. Basically she wasn't that into you. Her bombing your phone was just a mere testing of her market value.
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It's a blessing in disguise. She seems like a very temperamental person and this will only spell trouble in a relationship.
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Originally posted by Hseng25:
Not really la… Most girls will still feel insecure with a much younger guy ba.
Haiz, but really sad la. She’s really an awesome lady except that she’s EXTREMELY xiao qi. Maybe its a blessing in disguise that we didn’t get together. It was really close though.
Maybe I look young for my age. Couple of ladies at my work place call me xiao di di which is kinda annoying. I have to keep telling them i’m turning 30 liao. Come to think about it, I would really give my all if this lady had accepted me but its too late.I guess I can only console myself that at least I was able to get a hot 40yr old lady crazy enough to bomb my HP almost 24hrs everyday for 2 weeks and having her compliment me quite a number of times tat i’m a shy, cute & friendly guy lol.
She must be damm free at work to chat so much during office hours >.>
People also call me xiao mei mei, no bad lah, a kind of respect mah, but xiao di di sound like small one..yuck!haiz, young men got young gal dun want, go after mother...this world really changing