How to befriend a stranger girl?
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Originally posted by Fcukpap:
i would further extend that brilliant idea inside jammed packed MRT train....and move closer to her ...shoulder to shoulder and ask:"u want to eat something before the train breaksdown again? i got nice sandwiches, you want?"
lol
Too advance may scare her off. Jammed packed train has no comfort for eating. -
Originally posted by coffeebreak:
about 1-2 years ago, i was at a haagen daz shop in taipei.. and there at the shop counter was one of the cutest girl i ever saw in taipei...
so i took my time to choose my ice cream and ask lots of questions and asked for her suggestions...and i also made a few really lame jokes which got her laughing.. not sure she laughed out of courtesy as i was a customer or not but anyway i didnt know for sure...
then finally i asked which flavour she liked, and i ordered two of that and gave one to her.. she was really surprise by that.. she said she wasnt suppose to eat it then as she was on her shift but she did say that she will keep it...
the following day, i went back to the shop but unfortunately she was not working then... but two weeks after that i went back to the same shop and she was working! and best of all she remembered me!
anyway, cut long story for TS, make a good first contact and impression and she will remember and look upon you favourably...
That is what i did to my customer too, alway they will buy a glass for me, joke with them, talk with them awhile, then go to the back and throw pour the drink away, then come out again, then at the end of the day, we gals will joke and laugh over all these silly guys
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Originally posted by winsomeea:
Too advance may scare her off. Jammed packed train has no comfort for eating.
MRT inside cannot eat, later she go to jail, how.If he took MRT with her and end up jammed at some underground, he can alway take the fire extinguisher and break the windows to show his machosim and bravery, maybe that can delight her
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I think the bus stop one is the creepiest especially if you don't do it properly and she thinks you are following her.
This was many years ago when I was still in school and this guy followed me all the way from school to my home to talk to me and I was totally creeped out >.<"
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Originally posted by angel7030:
If he took MRT with her and end up jammed at some underground, he can alway take the fire extinguisher and break the windows to show his machosim and bravery, maybe that can delight her
i always love to see some machoism from the boys. that will surely delight me!!!
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Originally posted by angel7030:
MRT inside cannot eat, later she go to jail, how.If he took MRT with her and end up jammed at some underground, he can alway take the fire extinguisher and break the windows to show his machosim and bravery, maybe that can delight her
You are right! pay fine when caught eating.
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Originally posted by Fcukpap:
i would further extend that brilliant idea inside jammed packed MRT train....and move closer to her ...shoulder to shoulder and ask:"u want to eat something before the train breaksdown again? i got nice sandwiches, you want?"
lol
lol can eat in train meh?
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Originally posted by winsomeea:
You are right! pay fine when caught eating.
Unless you are FT, singaporean sure get fined. I saw PRC get away with it by saying they are new and do not exactly know the laws, that is why FT can eat in MRT, singaporean cannot -
Hi Seth, After reading your posts...I find that you really, really remind me of my little cousin. He's a few years my junior, and he ever told me once that he really liked this girl and what he did to talk to her.. I can't really advise you on this, but I think one good thing to note is what kind of girl she is, ie intro/extrovert? And also would like to share my own experience with you, see if it gives you any ideas/hints what to do. A few years ago when I was in Poly, there was this guy (a friend of a friend) who had a huge crush on me..and he would be waiting/calling/texting me that he was 'around that area' as he was 'passing by'. I knew that was a lie, although it was sweet of him to be hanging around waiting for me. But then, all I thought of/worried about was WHY WAS HE THERE. I'd been dropping hints that I did not like him that way, which he did not get. I eventually had to block/delete him (which I agonized over cos I did not want to hurt him more - but he was driving me crazy). He was sweet, but he was TOO MUCH. And I didnt' feel anything for him beyond friendship. Just be mindful if she doesn't seem to like you that way. Take things slow..again, that depends on the type of person she is. Good luck =)
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Seem like everybody posts remind of you of something leh -
Originally posted by angel7030: Seem like everybody posts remind of you
of something leh
cos I experienced ma. hahaha. hao xin share stuff kena shoot by u. how else lei angel? -
Originally posted by AngelOfDarkness:
Hi Seth,
After reading your posts…I find that you really, really remind me of my little cousin. He’s a few years my junior, and he ever told me once that he really liked this girl and what he did to talk to her..
I can’t really advise you on this, but I think one good thing to note is what kind of girl she is, ie intro/extrovert? And also would like to share my own experience with you, see if it gives you any ideas/hints what to do.
A few years ago when I was in Poly, there was this guy (a friend of a friend) who had a huge crush on me..and he would be waiting/calling/texting me that he was ‘around that area’ as he was ‘passing by’. I knew that was a lie, although it was sweet of him to be hanging around waiting for me. But then, all I thought of/worried about was WHY WAS HE THERE. I’d been dropping hints that I did not like him that way, which he did not get. I eventually had to block/delete him (which I agonized over cos I did not want to hurt him more – but he was driving me crazy). He was sweet, but he was TOO MUCH. And I didnt’ feel anything for him beyond friendship.
Just be mindful if she doesn’t seem to like you that way. Take things slow..again, that depends on the type of person she is.
Good luck =)
I identify with you. Have the same problem. Cannot stand.
Finally, I showed him my fist!
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Hey everyone! Sorry for my lack of replies. I've been working on long schedules for the past few days. Finally getting an off-day tomorrow, :). I must admit, she's constantly on my mind! Especially now that Christmas is approaching and that the gift lays there in my cupboard. Not that I'm going to give it to her anytime soon but it does remind me of her. Hope you are all having a good week so far, :D! Coffeebreak : Wow. That was very nice of you. I would love to try but I doubt I'll ever be able to pull off something like that. Haha! Tmarcus : Haha! I'm pretty sure I'd probably look for the furthest table away from her! I don't know why but I seem to be subconsciously hiding my feelings for her. Fcukpap : I'd rather use that $300 to treat her to a sumptious meal / buy her something she likes. Hahaha! elindra : Oops! Looks like most ladies find it uncomfortable. Actually, she and I have to walk to the same bus stop. However, she continues walking from there while I've got to take a bus. No worries, I've given up the idea, xD. AngelOfDarkness : Hi! To be honest, I can't really be sure as to whether she's an extrovert/introvert. From what I observe, I don't think she's an introvert as I've heard her laughing loudly and openly on a few occassions. Plus, once when she was exiting the cafe, when the cashier thanked her from across the room, her reply was clear and loud enough for him to hear (short 8-10m?). I'm not sure, but for me, I'd just smile and walk away quietly, :S. I understand. Thank you for sharing, :). I must admit, I've purposely dropped by (outside) the cafe she's always hanging out at just to see if she's there. Well, of course I did it in a way that it seems like I was passing by, haha. Hope she doesn't notice it that way and that she doesn't feel what you felt! Thank you, ;)! winsomeea : I actually saw her carrying boxing gloves around before. Saw it tied to her bag on 3 seperate occassions. Maybe it was prepared for me, :O ?!
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Originally posted by winsomeea:
I identify with you. Have the same problem. Cannot stand.
Finally, I showed him my fist!
Lol you chor lor ah :P So what happened after? -
Originally posted by AngelOfDarkness:
Lol you chor lor ah :P So what happened after?What chor lor? I tolerating since 2005. He too much. Moans in the lift, scary leh, only me in the lift with him. He is very very sleazy you know. I know he has been telling his friends about me. Coz by the body language of the friends I know.
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Originally posted by Seth T.:
Hey everyone! Sorry for my lack of replies. I’ve been working on long schedules for the past few days. Finally getting an off-day tomorrow,
. I must
admit, she’s constantly on my mind! Especially now that Christmas
is approaching and that the gift lays there in my cupboard. Not
that I’m going to give it to her anytime soon but it does remind me
of her. Hope you are all having a good week so far, 
!Coffeebreak : Wow. That was very nice of you. I would love to try but I doubt I’ll ever be able to pull off something like that. Haha!
Tmarcus : Haha! I’m pretty sure I’d probably look for the furthest table away from her! I don’t know why but I seem to be subconsciously hiding my feelings for her.
Fcukpap : I’d rather use that $300 to treat her to a sumptious meal / buy her something she likes. Hahaha!
elindra : Oops! Looks like most ladies find it uncomfortable. Actually, she and I have to walk to the same bus stop. However, she continues walking from there while I’ve got to take a bus. No worries, I’ve given up the idea, xD.
AngelOfDarkness : Hi!
To be honest, I can’t really be sure as to whether she’s an extrovert/introvert. From what I observe, I don’t think she’s an introvert as I’ve heard her laughing loudly and openly on a few occassions. Plus, once when she was exiting the cafe, when the cashier thanked her from across the room, her reply was clear and loud enough for him to hear (short 8-10m?). I’m not sure, but for me, I’d just smile and walk away quietly, :S.
I understand. Thank you for sharing,
. I must
admit, I’ve purposely dropped by (outside) the cafe she’s always
hanging out at just to see if she’s there. Well, of course I did it
in a way that it seems like I was passing by, haha. Hope she
doesn’t notice it that way and that she doesn’t feel what you
felt!Thank you,
!winsomeea : I actually saw her carrying boxing gloves around before. Saw it tied to her bag on 3 seperate occassions. Maybe it was prepared for me, :O ?!
Seth, I wish u good luck
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Originally posted by winsomeea:
What chor lor? I tolerating since 2005. He too much. Moans in the lift, scary leh, only me in the lift with him. He is very very sleazy you know. I know he has been telling his friends about me. Coz by the body language of the friends I know.
Just joking!! :D Most girls don't show fist when they're pissed ma. You must be one hell of a girl :DEwwwww. Luckily that guy didn't do that. But he was quite close to that. And it was disgusting as hell :S I just pushed him off to another topic.
If it were me in the lift with him and he moaned, I'd probably scream at him LOL. And not jus that EEK CAN YOU STOP THAT?! That's just EWWW.
what did you do imm. aft he moaned in the lift?!
oh gosh. I feel for you.
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Originally posted by winsomeea:
Haha, thank you, :)! Really appreciate all of the replies here, be it serious or not, :P. Anyway winsomeea, this "sleazy" guy you're talking about ; Is he your neighbour? How old is he? -
Originally posted by Seth T.:
Hey everyone! Sorry for my lack of replies. I’ve been working on long schedules for the past few days. Finally getting an off-day tomorrow,
. I must
admit, she’s constantly on my mind! Especially now that Christmas
is approaching and that the gift lays there in my cupboard. Not
that I’m going to give it to her anytime soon but it does remind me
of her. Hope you are all having a good week so far, !Coffeebreak : Wow. That was very nice of you. I would love to try but I doubt I’ll ever be able to pull off something like that. Haha!
Tmarcus : Haha! I’m pretty sure I’d probably look for the furthest table away from her! I don’t know why but I seem to be subconsciously hiding my feelings for her.
Fcukpap : I’d rather use that $300 to treat her to a sumptious meal / buy her something she likes. Hahaha!
elindra : Oops! Looks like most ladies find it uncomfortable. Actually, she and I have to walk to the same bus stop. However, she continues walking from there while I’ve got to take a bus. No worries, I’ve given up the idea, xD.
AngelOfDarkness : Hi!
To be honest, I can’t really be sure as to whether she’s an extrovert/introvert. From what I observe, I don’t think she’s an introvert as I’ve heard her laughing loudly and openly on a few occassions. Plus, once when she was exiting the cafe, when the cashier thanked her from across the room, her reply was clear and loud enough for him to hear (short 8-10m?). I’m not sure, but for me, I’d just smile and walk away quietly, :S.
I understand. Thank you for sharing,
. I must
admit, I’ve purposely dropped by (outside) the cafe she’s always
hanging out at just to see if she’s there. Well, of course I did it
in a way that it seems like I was passing by, haha. Hope she
doesn’t notice it that way and that she doesn’t feel what you
felt!Thank you,
!winsomeea : I actually saw her carrying boxing gloves around before. Saw it tied to her bag on 3 seperate occassions. Maybe it was prepared for me, :O ?!
Good luck :D If you don't try you duno, right? Just make a move..a small one. Talk to her when she's alone but don'tttttttt scare her. Don't stalk her, don't profess your love (I LOVE YOU). -
Originally posted by AngelOfDarkness:
Good luck :D If you don't try you duno, right? Just make a move..a small one. Talk to her when she's alone but don'tttttttt scare her. Don't stalk her, don't profess your love (I LOVE YOU).
Yup! Just hoping to see her around, :P. If praying she'll drop-by my workplace helps too LOL! She lives SOOOOO near. That's the last thing I want to do, :/ . I'll bear that in mind! Once again, thank you, :]! -
Originally posted by Seth T.:
Yup! Just hoping to see her around, :P. If praying she'll drop-by my workplace helps too LOL! She lives SOOOOO near. That's the last thing I want to do, :/ . I'll bear that in mind! Once again, thank you, :]!
So cute sia :P if you got her lemme know. Just kpoh :P den maybe can help my lil cuz too :D -
Hehe, sure thing! I hope I'll be able to give good news, and not post another thread under 'Aunt Agony', haha, :P!!
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Originally posted by Seth T.:
Haha, thank you, :)! Really appreciate all of the replies here, be it serious or not, :P. Anyway winsomeea, this "sleazy" guy you're talking about ; Is he your neighbour? How old is he?He is around in my neighbourhood, I don't know if he is staying in my block. His parents are staying in my block. I dunno his age.
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Originally posted by AngelOfDarkness:
Just joking!! :D Most girls don't show fist when they're pissed ma. You must be one hell of a girl :DEwwwww. Luckily that guy didn't do that. But he was quite close to that. And it was disgusting as hell :S I just pushed him off to another topic.
If it were me in the lift with him and he moaned, I'd probably scream at him LOL. And not jus that EEK CAN YOU STOP THAT?! That's just EWWW.
what did you do imm. aft he moaned in the lift?!
oh gosh. I feel for you.
hey, u judgemental! BTW, he is as good as a stranger to me. I have been trying ways and means to avoid him but he keeps irritating me, scolded him when he stood next to me and grinned like a shit. No use. I am up to my neck that was how I plucked up my courage to show him my fist. He knows the unit I stay, if I dun want to show him I am fierce what happen one day he come my house and do someting funny. Normally, I won't show fist. He was the first idiot I showed fist to.
After the moan in the lift. I happened to be in the lift with him for about 2 to 3 times. I saw him coming in I immediately walked out. I hate to talk to him, feel he is too unworthy to talk to. The last time I walked out of the lift when he walked in he cannot take it, he questioned me why I walked out. I could not even be bothered to answer him, I ignored him.
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Originally posted by winsomeea:
hey, u judgemental! BTW, he is as good as a stranger to me. I have been trying ways and means to avoid him but he keeps irritating me, scolded him when he stood next to me and grinned like a shit. No use. I am up to my neck that was how I plucked up my courage to show him my fist. He knows the unit I stay, if I dun want to show him I am fierce what happen one day he come my house and do someting funny. Normally, I won't show fist. He was the first idiot I showed fist to.
After the moan in the lift. I happened to be in the lift with him for about 2 to 3 times. I saw him coming in I immediately walked out. I hate to talk to him, feel he is too unworthy to talk to. The last time I walked out of the lift when he walked in he cannot take it, he questioned me why I walked out. I could not even be bothered to answer him, I ignored him.
No la no la not judgemental! :) Just kidding only larh. I admire girls that can show fist to guys! Cos some ppl must be shown girls cannot be bullied de k.wa that perv, why don't you tell his parents?? Try telling his mum. 'Auntie ah, your son keep harassing me."
when and how did he start perv-ing at u??