Think My Wife Is Having Affair
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Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:
I guess your level of understanding is very low. :)
Well, cowardly men talk in a cryptic way.
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I began to wonder if you're a widow. Based on observation, you seems to be online during midnight. If you have a blissful family, you should be sleeping already. Of course you can choose not to say anything, but I hypothesize that your marriage with your husband is a broken one. :) right?
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
You are like any foolish prideful male forumers here. Thinking a few Gucci/LV bags and Jimmy Choo shoes or tours to exotic places are all it takes to make your wife happy. No, women are more complicated than that !
Think about this, if she is truly set on leaving you, she don't need your permission to divorce you. She can go to the lawyer office herself and seek a divorce on her own.
In fact, the sooner she seeks a divorce, the sooner she will be released from it all. Why has she not done it yet ?
In her heart.. she has doubts. Because she know the next ship she jumps onto, may turn out a sinking ship too.
To salvage this ship, you need to be a better man for her. If she sees the change in you and see a future.. she will stay. We all know.. the pasture is not always greener on the other side.
The only way it can be greener.. is when the current one is as lousy as a pig sty.
Think about the issues she had been unhappy with in the past, figure out how to resolve the problems, not sweep it under the carpet.
Show genuine repentence.. there is still hope.
She is punishing you right now. Just stay calm. The more angry and unhappy you are.. the more vengence she feels.
The whole marriage had been all about you.. it's time you let her take the reign.
BULLSHIT!
Do not try to make her happy ,give her space etc.She will be back of course after she had all the fun and one day he will leave her(she's a cheap slut to him for fun now :) She will be back when he leaves her.
Leave that slut with the guy she is with,divorce don't give her a cent, bang some chicks(this will make life more fun and in perspective) then think of future. Don't waste time on that humiliating slut. If you were man enough you would have left her on that day. Seems like being a cuckold is a natural part of u!may be she trained you well to be a sissy. reach your hands down to between your legs,hold your balls.Yes your balls, you are the man. And don't ever listen to woman for relationship advice.
If now you let her have her way, she will file for divorce take the property/money you made working hard when she was fucking than guy. There are many woman in world who will appreciate you mroe than this slut,may be not in SG!
Warning to all guys, don't miss out the pre-nup.
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Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:
I began to wonder if you're a widow. Based on observation, you seems to be online during midnight. If you have a blissful family, you should be sleeping already. Of course you can choose not to say anything, but I hypothesize that your marriage with your husband is a broken one. :) right?
I will fill in the details,she is in US.And got married because her playboy husband got her pregnant^^.
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Originally posted by Bio-Hawk:
BULLSHIT!
Do not try to make her happy ,give her space etc.She will be back of course after she had all the fun and one day he will leave her(she's a cheap slut to him for fun now :) She will be back when he leaves her.
Leave that slut with the guy she is with,divorce don't give her a cent, bang some chicks(this will make life more fun and in perspective) then think of future. Don't waste time on that humiliating slut. If you were man enough you would have left her on that day. Seems like being a cuckold is a natural part of u!may be she trained you well to be a sissy. reach your hands down to between your legs,hold your balls.Yes your balls, you are the man. And don't ever listen to woman for relationship advice.
If now you let her have her way, she will file for divorce take the property/money you made working hard when she was fucking than guy. There are many woman in world who will appreciate you mroe than this slut,may be not in SG!
Warning to all guys, don't miss out the pre-nup.
Yea!! That's what a real man should do!!
SG law doesn't honor pre-nup :)
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Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:
Yea!! That's what a real man should do!!
SG law doesn't honor per-nup :)
No pre-nup in SG?No wonder the b1tches there are so spoiled.
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Originally posted by Bio-Hawk:
I will fill in the details,she is in US.And got married because her playboy husband got her pregnant^^.
how you know her so well?
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Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:
how you know her so well?
For me to know and you to guess^^
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Originally posted by Bio-Hawk:
For me to know and you to guess^^
cool~
that probably explain why she's into this thread
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Originally posted by mancha:
The relationship has gone beyond the fault finding stage now.
OK so if it is established that the fault lies here and there. Lets take corrective action. Do you think there will be a reversal?
TS is dead to her. She don't give a damn to his feelings.
What TS needs to do is to act, not rehash the scenarios repeatedly.
yea i totally agree with you. but the point is that while most of us are offering advices to TS and telling him what to act, some others are not. I do not see how this whole issue of TS equates to a total fault of TS as proclaim by the minority. And while us being 'prideful" guys are trying to help TS, I see some "prideful" species of the other sex trying to do otherwise. Neither do i see how in the issue of any r/s problem, the male has to play the bad role. Society has changed, members of the opposite sex can do the bad role also.As i've said, lots of advice already given, TS just needs to act. But i guess for him, this is 1 big and hard step. Talking is all easier than doing it. I can feel the attachement he has for his wife but not all can.
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Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:
I began to wonder if you're a widow. Based on observation, you seems to be online during midnight. If you have a blissful family, you should be sleeping already. Of course you can choose not to say anything, but I hypothesize that your marriage with your husband is a broken one. :) right?
LOL.. it's day time here. The earth is not flat.
How old are you dude ? Ever own a smartphone ? You know accessing the internet is so easy, even on the roads.
My marriage is not perfect, we take the good with the bad. Neither of us are perfect. What's important is we are not afraid to admit our faults and do our best to be a better person.
My husband knows, that once a while he needs his ass kicked, but he knows I do it to make him a better man.
TS's wife is giving him a ass whoop now. If he can survive it, he'll become a better man.
A man always seek a more virtuous wife. But is the man virtuous enough for the woman ?
Be proud of your spouse. But self-pride is the poison to all relationship.
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Originally posted by Bio-Hawk:
I will fill in the details,she is in US.And got married because her playboy husband got her pregnant^^.
ooooo.... well.. look at that...pulling fibs out of your ass..
Is that all you can do ? How about some more intelligent stuff ?
Sure, attack me as much as you like, it just makes you look more puny than you already are.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
LOL.. it's day time here. The earth is not flat.
How old are you dude ? Ever own a smartphone ? You know accessing the internet is so easy, even on the roads.
My marriage is not perfect, we take the good with the bad. Neither of us are perfect. What's important is we are not afraid to admit our faults and do our best to be a better person.
My husband knows, that once a while he needs his ass kicked, but he knows I do it to make him a better man.
TS's wife is giving him a ass whoop now. If he can survive it, he'll become a better man.
A man always seek a more virtuous wife. But is the man virtuous enough for the woman ?
Be proud of your spouse. But self-pride is the poison to all relationship.
"A man always seek a more virtuous wife. But is the man virtuous enough for the woman"
A woman always seeks a good husband, is the woman good enough for the husband? Some things works 2 ways. No prior evidence to say that TS needs a ass whoop from his wife. You based your assumption on faults of the TS... why not consider the faults of the wife herself? 2 sides to a coin... if thing were that bad, why do a silent rebel on TS while when things were getting bad, TS tried to get into a talk with her.
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I can't be a doctor because I made misdiagnosis of menopause....
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Originally posted by [imdestinyz]:
yea i totally agree with you. but the point is that while most of us are offering advices to TS and telling him what to act, some others are not. I do not see how this whole issue of TS equates to a total fault of TS as proclaim by the minority. And while us being 'prideful" guys are trying to help TS, I see some "prideful" species of the other sex trying to do otherwise. Neither do i see how in the issue of any r/s problem, the male has to play the bad role. Society has changed, members of the opposite sex can do the bad role also.As i've said, lots of advice already given, TS just needs to act. But i guess for him, this is 1 big and hard step. Talking is all easier than doing it. I can feel the attachement he has for his wife but not all can.
Are you saying TS is faultless ?
That all had transpired has everything to do with how EVIL his wife is ?
No, there's always 3 sides to a coin. A coin is 3 dimensional.. if you havn't noticed.
There's TS's story, his wife's story.. then there's the truth.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Are you saying TS is faultless ?
That all had transpired has everything to do with how EVIL his wife is ?
No, there's always 3 sides to a coin. A coin is 3 dimensional.. if you havn't noticed.
There's TS's story, his wife's story.. then there's the truth.
and if i did not recall wrongly, your version of truth for the whole issue = TS is guilty, and TS did not do his part in the marriage. A coin is 3 dimensional with 2 faces. A clap is made by 2 hands. And i merely said to consider the faults of his wife and u safely assumed that i felt that TS was faultless and everything was transpired and that his wife is totally evil. You are a goddess of assumptions.
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For all you virgins, unmarried trolls. Do us a favor.. keep quiet and learn.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Are you saying TS is faultless ?
That all had transpired has everything to do with how EVIL his wife is ?
No, there's always 3 sides to a coin. A coin is 3 dimensional.. if you havn't noticed.
There's TS's story, his wife's story.. then there's the truth.
Just in case you have left out or you may not know. It is a 4 dimensional situation that is happening right now. Not only it involve a 3 dimensional object, it also involve the 4 dimension, which is the time, it takes for such occurance to take place.Timespace is a very complicated subject which I do not wish to explain here in the forum.
If you haven't noticed yet, TS mentioned that it all start to happen around the beginning of this year which she went to a new company. Everything was great prior to that. That is the truth.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
For all you virgins, unmarried trolls. Do us a favor.. keep quiet and learn.
Learn how to control your hubby first. -
Originally posted by [imdestinyz]:
and if i did not recall wrongly, your version of truth for the whole issue = TS is guilty, and TS did not do his part in the marriage. A coin is 3 dimensional with 2 faces. A clap is made by 2 hands. And i merely said to consider the faults of his wife and u safely assumed that i felt that TS was faultless and everything was transpired and that his wife is totally evil. You are a goddess of assumptions.
Well, u guys assumed TS is faultless right ? I didn't.
Yes I agree, a wife should not act like that lah, in a normal, harmonious relationship. That's how they got pregnant wat... hello..
But his wife is an angry wife wat.. who is to say how she should behave ?
When agitated..
Some wifes throw knifes at their husbands
Some eat a whole big tub of ice creams
Some hit their husbands.
Some put poisons the food and fed him.
Some clobber their husbands when he sleeps.
Some...well.. you get the drift right ? OK Good.
TS wife is very kind to him alredy.. only emotional attack.. sup sup water lah..
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Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:
Learn how to control your hubby first.
wa.... very senior member angry liao! -
Originally posted by [imdestinyz]:
wa.... very senior member angry liao! -
Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:
Yea!! That's what a real man should do!!
SG law doesn't honor pre-nup :)
Yawnzz...you and bio hawk the ignorant brutes.
Pre-nup is not 100% enforceable lah. Even in USA, lawyers are making tons of money writing up pre-nups.. but the over-writing factor is family law.
I shoulda just go be a prenup lawyer... make more money that way leh...
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Yawnzz...you and bio hawk the ignorant brutes.
Pre-nup is not 100% enforceable lah. Even in USA, lawyers are making tons of money writing up pre-nups.. but the over-writing factor is family law.
I shoulda just go be a prenup lawyer... make more money that way leh...
Yes! you see! we discover a great way of earning money~