How to stop my aunt's prejudice against me?
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So, i have this aunt, who told my grandma that i would steal money, ever since that day, my grandma was very careful and sometimes accuse me of stealing coins when i didn't, ( I SAVE ALOT) And also, I have DIGNITY and INTERGRITY and i don't understand why my aunt placed such prejudice on. i understand, my results are not as good as my rich aunt's children who are teachers now, but who is she to judge me, so what if i am poor? how am i supposed to react to such prejudice?
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Just ignore her lah. Maybe she is jealous of your youth and beauty.
Prejudice is prejudice, you can't stop.
Harry Lee Kuan Yew is biased against chinese dialects, wants to completely destroy it.
How to stop his prejudice? He is an anglophile british dog. How to change his mind?
Dog is dog. You can't stop.
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poor jiani....study hard, work hard and live smart
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You just got to ignore her. As long as you didnt do it, that's enough. Most of the rich people are like this. they just love to look highly on themselves. Karma will hit her ass, so just sit back and relax.
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Originally posted by Jiani:how am i supposed to react to such prejudice?
Your aunt don't sayang you, I sayang you Jaini. Old people like this one lah, got a lot of bias and prejudices.
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Originally posted by Dalforce 25:
Your aunt don't sayang you, I sayang you Jaini. Old people like this one lah, got a lot of bias and prejudices.
not all old people lah. I sayang Jaini too.
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Originally posted by Clivebenss:
not all old people lah. I sayang Jaini too.
i sayang you too jiani.
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Originally posted by kengkia:
i sayang you too jiani.i sayang you too jiani
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Originally posted by Jiani:So, i have this aunt, who told my grandma that i would steal money, ever since that day, my grandma was very careful and sometimes accuse me of stealing coins when i didn't, ( I SAVE ALOT) And also, I have DIGNITY and INTERGRITY and i don't understand why my aunt placed such prejudice on. i understand, my results are not as good as my rich aunt's children who are teachers now, but who is she to judge me, so what if i am poor? how am i supposed to react to such prejudice?
Is your grandmother rich ?
It's all about the money. Isn't it ?
Your aunt is doing her best to discredit your family.
She hopes that if your grandma thinks yours are a family of thieves.. grandma will not give your family anything when she dies....
Less for you and your family.. more for your aunt and her family.
That's how a lot of family feud started.
But .. if your grandma is poor.. got nothing to her name.. in poor health and needs to be taken care of... rest assured.. your aunt will be the first to disappear.
So don't take it too personaly how your aunt treat you. It's all part of her plan to cut you out. No matter what you do.. she's out to get you.
Being poor and bad at your work/studies just makes it easier for your aunt to stab you in the back.
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Originally posted by BanguIzai:
i sayang you too jiani
i sayang you too jiani
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wa thanks
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You don't steal money anyway, so there should be no problem except for the slur.
You grandma can lock up her money with iron chains, let her be, shouldn't matter to you. You have no intention, so let her put two locks or more. Don't give a damn.
As for you aunt, when you have definite proof that she said such things, confront her immediately. Always must defend yourself there and then. You must do this with anybody. Don't suffer in silence, confront the offender immediately, and that person will be afraid of saying things about you.
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Can recommend some these sayang you old uncles here to your grandma, once clicked, both can share the fortune.
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I'll sayang jiani too
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wa so many sayang wor !!
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Eh TS, very simple. sever ties with her and go live on ur own if u can afford. doesn't matter even if life gets hard alone. better off than spending it with a bitch. sever ties with ur family if they dun care. what's the point? better having no one than a lousy family who doesn't give a damn.
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no point talking. some ppl wont listen no matter what.
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er....cute jiani......like the gals in sgforums, r u one of the
自æ�‹å¹´ä»£- 部è�½æ ¼ (Blog)女å©....?
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Originally posted by Casopia-maplesea:
Eh TS, very simple. sever ties with her and go live on ur own if u can afford. doesn’t matter even if life gets hard alone. better off than spending it with a bitch. sever ties with ur family if they dun care. what’s the point? better having no one than a lousy family who doesn’t give a damn.
Sever ties with family is quite extreme. If TS is innocent, there is nothing to worry about. Most Aunites like to nag alot, especially those too free go nothing else to do. -
You have a very political auntie. Concentrate on building trust, let your grandma put her unshaken trust in you.
Your aunt could be that sort who "�低就踩, �高就拜".
The most you can do is to ignore her completely, treat as though she does not exist.
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Originally posted by Jiani:So, i have this aunt, who told my grandma that i would steal money, ever since that day, my grandma was very careful and sometimes accuse me of stealing coins when i didn't, ( I SAVE ALOT) And also, I have DIGNITY and INTERGRITY and i don't understand why my aunt placed such prejudice on. i understand, my results are not as good as my rich aunt's children who are teachers now, but who is she to judge me, so what if i am poor? how am i supposed to react to such prejudice?
Tell your Grandma, this aunt is a cheater.
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r u one of the 部è�½æ ¼ (Blog)女å©....?
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jiani.....自�比自�好...
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Originally posted by Bio-Hawk:
Tell your Grandma, this aunt is a cheater.
Ya, and also tell her, your grandma, that your aunt just want her coffin money, once your grandma signed and passed her will in the name of your aunt, good luck to grandma