Originally posted by bom-pi-pi:
why never JIO me............... i TL liao
I still remember the last outing.... so many people attend!
bom, come along lar
see if u convienent then we coordinate lah
Originally posted by fibytprsu:Be careful.
May be he has sex on mind.
May be he has some dirty thought about you.
haha, I become more cautious after that unpleasant experience.
all desperados.
Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:
I still remember the last outing.... so many people attend!
how many attend?
20? 30?
Originally posted by M874:
haha, I become more cautious after that unpleasant experience.
yes! must be careful when you date guys next time okay? One day you will find the guy who loves you as much as you love him.
Originally posted by M874:
haha, I become more cautious after that unpleasant experience.
Good practice to be cautious.
Some men use women for sex only.
Originally posted by Mr Milo:
how many attend?20? 30?
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These were the past gatherings that we had
Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:yes! must be careful when you date guys next time okay?
One day you will find the guy who loves you as much as you love him.
Thanks, dunno when will that day come.
Study hard jiayou!
Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:
oh yah, those were the days, huh?
now is like..............????
Originally posted by M874:I know it sounds stupid, but please don't laught at me.
He is a married Singaporean. At first I didn't pay any attention to him, but he tried to contact with me whenever he could. He is extremely smart and very good at analyse other people's personality, I feel so happy and relaxed when I'm with him, he could find out what is in my mind even when I didn't say anything. so...I fell in love with him...I'm such a fool.
Though I loved him very much I still refused to be his so called "girlfriend", I don't wanna be anybody's mistress. He tried so hard to persuade me to have sex with him, but he just couldn't get it from me, for one reason is that he is married, and the other most important reason is I'm a virgin, I'm not gonna give my very first time to a married man who doesn't love me at all. He even asked me to find a boyfriend then have sex with him. In the end, he became so angry that he said so many dirty words to me, and all those dirty sex fantasy he had...
But that is not the worst thing, the "best part" is I eventually found out he is also chasing after a lot of girls, almost every woman he has met, no matter how old is she or whether she is good looking or not. and he actually do got what he want in most cases, he even had sex with someone I have worked with....That's really disgusting! , I feel like I had swallowed a fly. He is the kind of person who wants to get as much girls as he could, it likes a game to him.
ALL THE THINGS HE HAD DONE, ALL THOSE THINGS HE SAID ARE FAKE, he is not the one who I thought he is. And I have been acting like a fool all the time.
He said I'm too serious, it's very normal to just have sex with anyone you want, no need to think too much morality, right or wrong stuffs. But what I'm looking for is ture love, am I wrong? Or this is culture conflict? I mean do most Singaporean have the same thought as him?
Yes you are a fool and all men are like that. Rest of them are pussies with dicks.
Originally posted by Bio-Hawk:Yes you are a fool and all men are like that. Rest of them are pussies with dicks.
Then no good man exists?
Originally posted by M874:I know it sounds stupid, but please don't laught at me.
He is a married Singaporean. At first I didn't pay any attention to him, but he tried to contact with me whenever he could. He is extremely smart and very good at analyse other people's personality, I feel so happy and relaxed when I'm with him, he could find out what is in my mind even when I didn't say anything. so...I fell in love with him...I'm such a fool.
Though I loved him very much I still refused to be his so called "girlfriend", I don't wanna be anybody's mistress. He tried so hard to persuade me to have sex with him, but he just couldn't get it from me, for one reason is that he is married, and the other most important reason is I'm a virgin, I'm not gonna give my very first time to a married man who doesn't love me at all. He even asked me to find a boyfriend then have sex with him. In the end, he became so angry that he said so many dirty words to me, and all those dirty sex fantasy he had...
But that is not the worst thing, the "best part" is I eventually found out he is also chasing after a lot of girls, almost every woman he has met, no matter how old is she or whether she is good looking or not. and he actually do got what he want in most cases, he even had sex with someone I have worked with....That's really disgusting! , I feel like I had swallowed a fly. He is the kind of person who wants to get as much girls as he could, it likes a game to him.
ALL THE THINGS HE HAD DONE, ALL THOSE THINGS HE SAID ARE FAKE, he is not the one who I thought he is. And I have been acting like a fool all the time.
He said I'm too serious, it's very normal to just have sex with anyone you want, no need to think too much morality, right or wrong stuffs. But what I'm looking for is ture love, am I wrong? Or this is culture conflict? I mean do most Singaporean have the same thought as him?
Wow, i wish there r more singaporean women like u. U r so easy to please. U cannot imagine how difficult it is to live wif a singaporean gf. Frankly speaking, to handle a rship wif my gf give me extreme headache, esp we hv differences over $$$ (what exp shd be split).
Since you have found his real personality, then leave far away from him. this is the only way. He is really bad and fortunately you are not losing too much.
reminds me of my male cat in spore.always fighting n making loud noises at nite!!then one day , we took it to the doctor n had his balls removed.since then he doesnt fight n make any noise.
think it used to chase n fight with many other cats too all day n nite.
its now more civilised and just needs folks to pat it on the head.
Originally posted by Hitman Factory 1:think it used to chase n fight with many other cats too all day n nite.
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THANK u for ur help and post.
best he get sent to doctor.thats onky way to cure him.suspects theres some venom inside the balls that causes brain malfunctionin to occur.
Originally posted by Fugazzi:Ts,
U are not in love with him but rather projecting ideas, images of love that u carry in your head and he coming along has made it real. Hence, it is an illusion and it will sooner than u know burst!
His flirting ways is unhealthy not for others but mostly for himself – he lacks love, lacks self-respect. His love is more of an ego trip and nothing to with love.
As long as it is unknown, unacknolwedged any relationship (???) is bound to be that of using another to fulfil oneself. In the short term, it will stay but in the long term only fear,anxiety and misery for both parties.
Whatever he is is his choice, u are responsible what u are and feel. That is something no one can teach excepting pain which is a good teacher. The wise one observes, unlearns and moves along and yet grows.The unwise blames, escapes and only find onself repeating the same … cos there is no unlearning excepting that of …. which comes painfully.
One has to be wary of those who purport to love but only exploit and call it love
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THANK u for ur help and post.