I feel really useless because I have no skills or anything. When I was younger, I didn't had the opportunity to pick up some interest. My parents weren't bothered about those issues and they would just bring home the money.
Slowly, I started to have this inferior complex because when facing others who are so talented, I feel so small. Right now at 16, my genes are really lousy and I am pretty short for a male. Sometimes I really hate my parents for giving birth to me and now I have to suffer being a loser.
What should I do?
Sorry for sounding like a whiner but this is what I feel about myself.
prove them wrong you are useful.
See a shrink
Originally posted by ThreeFiveTwo:I feel really useless because I have no skills or anything.
Okay lah, at least you are not a cultureless person like Harry Lee Kuan Yew.
You win him big time already.
Lee Kuan Yew has no culture and a weak identity, yet he can climb up to be PM of Singapore.
You have culture, so I think you can climb even higher than Lee Kuan Yew.
Rooney, my parents didn't thought that I was useless. It's just me, feeling inferior when you see others doing better than you. Always being at the bottom, I just slowly build up a lot of low self-esteem.
I want to get out of this?
Dalforce, thanks for the encouragement. Haha.
Go get some sleep, you will feel better afterwards Remember to eat something.
Originally posted by ThreeFiveTwo:Always being at the bottom, I just slowly build up a lot of low self-esteem.
Bottom can go up, up can also go bottom. Everything is just a cycle.
Originally posted by ThreeFiveTwo:I feel really useless because I have no skills or anything. When I was younger, I didn't had the opportunity to pick up some interest. My parents weren't bothered about those issues and they would just bring home the money.
Slowly, I started to have this inferior complex because when facing others who are so talented, I feel so small. Right now at 16, my genes are really lousy and I am pretty short for a male. Sometimes I really hate my parents for giving birth to me and now I have to suffer being a loser.
What should I do?
Sorry for sounding like a whiner but this is what I feel about myself.
You are 16. You still have many bright years ahead of you. Post sec education.. Tertiary education..
Just remember, explore and look forward the possibilities and opportunites ahead of you .. try out every new thing.. (yes it sounds cliche). You will identify the things you are not good at, and the things you have talent in. Though (Things you are not good at will definitely be > Things you are good at)
Since you are pretty short of a male and yet born with a male body, dun worry, study first, by 18yo, you can visit my short of male pubs at Neil road, from there, you can get lots of friends that may interest you alot. Till then, study smart
Go to gym, work out hard. Bang sm chicks.Join a volunteer club and start earning by yourself.And you will feel superior.
Don't waste time on what others advice u.
Start dressing in black and listening to Emo music. You'll fit right in.
Wear tight jeans, tight shirts with emo band logos on them, studded belts, and an old, black and worn down pair of sneakers. Thick, black-rimmed glasses are not uncommon for emo guys or girls. Also, stripes and checkers are big in the emo culture.
ya, maybe TS can try some G string kind of fashion...it may bring back his confident, but for 16yo, dunno if those sex shop can sell to him or not..I alway see those 16 and 15 odd kids peeping inside the sexshop and then giggled and laugh among themselves..haha
come on lah don't so dirty minded lah. not teens anymore 22 years old lady already still so chikopeh
there was a young boy having speech difficulties and was ridiculed by his classmates and his teachers as a dunce and backward....he even failed his poly entrance exam...but he never give up and keep exploring his curiosities in maths and science...and went on to topple conventional science and revolutionize it to become Father of Modern Physics...
this boy's name is Albert Einstein...
U'r only 16, don't feel so frustrated, it never too late to start to do something.
Find out what you'r interested in and work hard on it.
I'm going to be 24 and I'm learning Japanese and trying to learn some German, I don't think it is to late for me, but what I'm thinking is how to accelerate it.
You should have a positive mind. And you do have talent. It just you need to do something about it instead of just feeling low
Originally posted by Fcukpap:there was a young boy having speech difficulties and was ridiculed by his classmates and his teachers as a dunce and backward....he even failed his poly entrance exam...but he never give up and keep exploring his curiosities in maths and science...and went on to topple conventional science and revolutionize it to become Father of Modern Physics...
this boy's name is Albert Einstein...
And because of him, with the laws of relativity, many peoples suffered, most have relationship and funny personality problems. In life, sometime founder of certain thing can change the world more toward the bad than good if wrongly applied.
Originally posted by M874:U'r only 16, don't feel so frustrated, it never too late to start to do something.
Find out what you'r interested in and work hard on it.
I'm going to be 24 and I'm learning Japanese and trying to learn some German, I don't think it is to late for me, but what I'm thinking is how to accelerate it.
You should have a positive mind. And you do have talent. It just you need to do something about it instead of just feeling low
16yo, frankly, with a blink of an eye, you can be 61yo already, life is short, dun take thing to hard, learn to relax and do what you like most, do the thing with a future, dun go do something that end up with nothing but only add more frustration in life because you can do nothing about it and find is a waste of god damn time and money and effort. Go learn highway code first
Its not your parents' ffault.
When they were born, they were also as naked as you were, with nothing but mucus in the noses.
Everything came afterwards, most of which they got hold of it themselves.
You have it much better than them, yet you are whining and not being grateful. Thats because you want it easier, you want things to fly to you. You want your parents to serve you like they are waiters.
You have it easier than your parents, and if you don't know how to seize the opportunity, you are really useless, with no skill, and a loser.
And its not your parents' fault.
Objection your honor,
It is the parent faults, the upbringing fault and the fault that his parents knows how to enjoy sex, but never knows how to bring up a decent young man/woman
This kid grew up playing with his dad's hand phone, and computer games ok. He is just plain lazy do do things for himself.
Things happen for him, he does not make things happen. As he grows older less and less things happen for him, so he feels useless and worthless.
He does not know he has to go out and make things happen.
its okay this guys feel worthless, but whinning it here makes things none the better.
for people who are well to do parents bring home money, they have one big obstacle in life removed already and he can have the money to do what he wants and wishes, for charity a good cause or a business of his own.
i fear now is parent got no money to bring home already and he need to fend for himself - then come here kao his peh kao his bu
please lah like what mancha wrote youhave to do it yourself, don;t wait for the sperms to drop from the skies. liepeople wholawyas get jealous of people this and that - blame it on yourself why you are still like that after so many years - because instead of doing something for yourself, you dwell on what accomplished and wait on jealousy for life. even if that person die you will still be the loser you r now.
fuck all the girls in your class
all the boys will say you the man.
Originally posted by gunner77:fuck all the girls in your class
all the boys will say you the man.
to TS : go work now and get experience
the reason for god making man is to let men walk the life, but some choose instead to dwell and hybernate - come on god cannot be ther eto explain to everyman the meaning of life. but if he choses to be a dweller and whiner with no boner in life, god will never forbid becuase he had chosen his path, and god respects everypath every men chosen.
that's why the world is so screwed up as it is.