Why is it so hard to find somebody who likes me?
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Originally posted by Jabberwockie2011:
The best diplomacy is to stop hanging out with this circle of friends, or hang out less. My absence will make Miss B sense that I am not interested and that I have more important things to do than to hang out with Miss B and her friends.
The point here is to try not to be hostile or diplomatically tell miss B you're not interested. Some women tend to misread this kind of diplomacy as "trying to play harder to get or pure ignorance", so they become ever more aggressive.
Moreover, to these circle of friends, they will gang up with Miss A and Miss B to force me play this silly game of cat and mouse: Me chase Miss A, Miss B chase me. In the end, I grow exhausted until I learn to accept Miss B. Its an unfair game that is designed to Miss A and Miss B's advantage.
I shall not fall into this silly games. That is why, I intend to lay low and cut down my social contacts with Miss A & B and their circle of friends for several months. Making myself not available will tend to frustrate them.
That is a good move. If you have the chance of meeting again, mind the body language, too. Some people will base on body language to tell if someone is interested.
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Originally posted by Jabberwockie2011:
The best diplomacy is to stop hanging out with this circle of friends, or hang out less. My absence will make Miss B sense that I am not interested and that I have more important things to do than to hang out with Miss B and her friends.
The point here is to try not to be hostile or diplomatically tell miss B you're not interested. Some women tend to misread this kind of diplomacy as "trying to play harder to get or pure ignorance", so they become ever more aggressive.
Moreover, to these circle of friends, they will gang up with Miss A and Miss B to force me play this silly game of cat and mouse: Me chase Miss A, Miss B chase me. In the end, I grow exhausted until I learn to accept Miss B. Its an unfair game that is designed to Miss A and Miss B's advantage.
I shall not fall into this silly games. That is why, I intend to lay low and cut down my social contacts with Miss A & B and their circle of friends for several months. Making myself not available will tend to frustrate them.
Yeah!!!, finally you got a solution, case close.
All rise, close door, off light, release door.
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Originally posted by gorgorlokaychyong:
That is a good move. If you have the chance of meeting again, mind the body language, too. Some people will base on body language to tell if someone is interested.
Oh, what body language, I just wear abit low cut on top or high cut below, all get interested, so much for body languages -
Originally posted by angel7030:
Oh, what body language, I just wear abit low cut on top or high cut below, all get interested, so much for body languagesman wearing low cut does not appeal to anyone.
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wonders about ordering dragon ladies 1-5 dvd .luckily porn is legal over here.:)
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sure legal, here also got alot of pondan for you, why need DVD, go live lah.
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Originally posted by Hello Kitty:
is B ugly?
To be fair. Both Miss A and Miss B are not pretty.
I do not go for looks. I go for inner beauty. Both have inner beauty but I have very little in common with Miss B and little chemistry. Miss B is a teacher, so when she speaks to me, she talk to me like I am one of her school students. Its hard to explain, her method of conversation, I don't find very romantic.
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Originally posted by Jabberwockie2011:
I have this problem.
"The girls whom I like, always stay far away from me. However, the girls whom I don't like, like to stay close to me".
Here is the start of my problem. I started to have feelings for this girl, A. Miss A gives me the hot and cold treatment. She sometimes, want me to go out with her. When she calls me out, I am either sick, busy or out of the country. When I call her, she is always busy or having meetings.
I am tired of Miss A's hot and cold treatment. Then during one time when Miss A ask me to come out with her friends, she didn't turn up. Instead, Miss B, turns up.
Miss B seem to show an interest in me. She always ask me to accompany her back home and want me to take her around. I have nothing against Miss B, she is a nice person. I like Miss B to be friends. However, I have known Miss B for 2 years, I have thought a lot about it, I just don't have anything in common with Miss B. Furthermore, I have no feelings for Miss B, no chemistry. I only like to be friends with Miss B. I have given all the opportunity to go out with Miss B but I still don't have any feelings for her.
The problem is how to shake Miss B off, without being rude to her? Should I wait until she confesses her feelings for me, then I let her know that we are just friends?
I am tired of these games. It seems everytime I like somebody, she would stay far away from me, and the person that I am not interested in, always want to be with me.
I am just tired, I have nothing in common with Miss B. I like to go play board games like Catan, etc. I tried to take Miss B to play board games, but she is not interested. Miss B is interested in kids, she keeps on talking to me about her students (she is a teacher), but I am just not so keen. However Miss B is a nice person, I like her kindness and caring personality, its just that I have no feelings for her except as friends !
Please HELP ME, ADVICE ? I don't want to offend Miss B nor do I want to lose her as a friend. However, I am tired of not being able to get Miss A's attention.
Dude, how you see Miss B is how Miss A sees you.Get it?
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Originally posted by Jabberwockie2011:
To be fair. Both Miss A and Miss B are not pretty.
I do not go for looks. I go for inner beauty. Both have inner beauty but I have very little in common with Miss B and little chemistry. Miss B is a teacher, so when she speaks to me, she talk to me like I am one of her school students. Its hard to explain, her method of conversation, I don't find very romantic.
She sounds like a mother figure.
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Originally posted by Bio-Hawk:
Dude, how you see Miss B is how Miss A sees you.Get it?
If Dun get it, go look for Miss C and so on... -
Originally posted by Jabberwockie2011:
To be fair. Both Miss A and Miss B are not pretty.
I do not go for looks. I go for inner beauty. Both have inner beauty but I have very little in common with Miss B and little chemistry. Miss B is a teacher, so when she speaks to me, she talk to me like I am one of her school students. Its hard to explain, her method of conversation, I don't find very romantic.
Well, it eitherA) Miss A
B) Miss B
C) Done of the above
D) All of the above
I alway score well in MCQ paper, never give chance one
If you find Miss B treat you like you are a student, then you act as the principal or the school master, she is sure to respect you. Anyway, teacher are mostly not pretty, if pretty, no need be teacher liao. Every month earn those pathetic paid and yet hv to mark all kind of papers at home and even in starbuck...really pity them, work until forget to get boyfriend, or no boy want..
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Originally posted by angel7030:
Well, it eitherA) Miss A
B) Miss B
C) Done of the above
D) All of the above
I alway score well in MCQ paper, never give chance one
If you find Miss B treat you like you are a student, then you act as the principal or the school master, she is sure to respect you. Anyway, teacher are mostly not pretty, if pretty, no need be teacher liao. Every month earn those pathetic paid and yet hv to mark all kind of papers at home and even in starbuck...really pity them, work until forget to get boyfriend, or no boy want..
You write very funny la.
Are you like some kind of comedian, dress like a clown and talk cock in front of crowd to make them laugh?
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Originally posted by Sasperillabob:
You write very funny la.
Are you like some kind of comedian, dress like a clown and talk cock in front of crowd to make them laugh?
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if she didnt say she likes you
dont assume
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If all else fails, there's always Bedok Reservoir for you..
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and even bedok reservoir, you hv to choose the far end one, near tampines, there water deeper, and you will not disturb other doing jogging and me doing canoeing there, hope to see you floating while I do my canoeing
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Originally posted by Sasperillabob:
You write very funny la.
Are you like some kind of comedian, dress like a clown and talk cock in front of crowd to make them laugh?
If you can laugh, you get the best medicine, ask so much for what, you get it free here