Originally posted by Veggie Bao:I am very surprised with what you are planning to do.......it seems that you dont know your proper role.........you are a child of your mother........and you are planning to record a tape to report your mother to the authorities ?
Have you lost your mind...?
Another thing which makes me concerned....in one of your posts, you said that due to this problem, you did not have sufficient chance to be close to your maids......erm....what...?
Why are you concerned about being close to your maids...?
I guess theres some dysfunctions in your family.......but you need to evaluate yourself too........your attitude is not correct.....
First, your maid is a worker and is an employee......you can be close but only to a certain extent.....the maid is not your surrogate mum, is not your aunty, and is definitely not your lover.
Second, if you see your mum treating the maid badly, you can talk and persuade her to treat the maid more appropriately.
Third,
Some things like "lying, exaggerating, non-stop scolding" is not actually a crime, it is just a personality trait. Why do you want to tape it and report your mum to the authorities? In fact if her personality bothers you so much, I think you should tape it and report to a psychiatrist or a psychologist instead. Or approach other relatives for help.
Dont exaggerate the problem and take wrong action yourself.
Originally posted by jojobeach:Wah.. you really want to screw your mom over bad huh.
Never bite the hand that feed you.
Ever heard of the Aesop fable... the scorpion and the frog ?-" It is better we should both perish, than that my enemy shall live."
Oh. You again ha. You Aunt Agony troll or what.
Really la. You just don't see how immoral she's been do you. Maids leave their families to come here, then kenna fuck until like this.
Originally posted by Veggie Bao:I am very surprised with what you are planning to do.......it seems that you dont know your proper role.........you are a child of your mother........and you are planning to record a tape to report your mother to the authorities ?
Have you lost your mind...?
Another thing which makes me concerned....in one of your posts, you said that due to this problem, you did not have sufficient chance to be close to your maids......erm....what...?
Why are you concerned about being close to your maids...?
I guess theres some dysfunctions in your family.......but you need to evaluate yourself too........your attitude is not correct.....
First, your maid is a worker and is an employee......you can be close but only to a certain extent.....the maid is not your surrogate mum, is not your aunty, and is definitely not your lover.
Second, if you see your mum treating the maid badly, you can talk and persuade her to treat the maid more appropriately.
Third,
Some things like "lying, exaggerating, non-stop scolding" is not actually a crime, it is just a personality trait. Why do you want to tape it and report your mum to the authorities? In fact if her personality bothers you so much, I think you should tape it and report to a psychiatrist or a psychologist instead. Or approach other relatives for help.
Dont exaggerate the problem and take wrong action yourself.
Would u? If ur mum tell ur maid to "use her fucking filipino intelligence" or "shut the fuck up", shout every morning?
Eh. Personality is one thing. But if someone is a BIG asshole, how are they gonna learn it's wrong? Just because I wanna report my mom doesn't mean i don't love her.
So u saying I should keep quiet, allow her to continue because according to jojobeach, I don't bite the hand that feeds me. But then again, maybe my maid is an ungrateful bastard also right. Because my mom is so kind to hire her, so even if my mom fucks her up, it's ok.
There's only 3 of us in the house. To live together harmoniously, there must be some kind of respect between everyone. It's like society. If I see some guy hit his girlfriend in public, u think i stand there and watch ? It's WRONG. If it takes my mother getting barred from hiring maids or going to jail or whatever, frankly, SO BE IT. It's very wrong, and everyone learns lessons in life the easy way or the hard way. It's either that or as everyone else says, we kenna period blood in our food.
Originally posted by KonkeyDong:Oh. You again ha. You Aunt Agony troll or what.
Really la. You just don't see how immoral she's been do you. Maids leave their families to come here, then kenna fuck until like this.
Oh.. you really think your mother will change after you report her ah... ok lor.. go try lah.
Her meany behavior is only the manifestation of her inner anger, bitterness and frustration. If anything YOU are her source of agony.
You a handicap issit ? Cannot take care of yourself har ? You and your mother in the household only... hire maid for fuck ?
Because you are too bloody lazy.. she suay suay come into your family. It's her bad luck ok. Your maid coulda go work in another family who treats her well.
As long as you still a lazy shit... there will be more unlucky maid have to come into your household to be fucked upside down by your mother.
KonkeyDong, what progress have you made? Reported to the police?
Originally posted by jojobeach:Oh.. you really think your mother will change after you report her ah... ok lor.. go try lah.
Her meany behavior is only the manifestation of her inner anger, bitterness and frustration. If anything YOU are her source of agony.
You a handicap issit ? Cannot take care of yourself har ? You and your mother in the household only... hire maid for fuck ?
Because you are too bloody lazy.. she suay suay come into your family. It's her bad luck ok. Your maid coulda go work in another family who treats her well.
As long as you still a lazy shit... there will be more unlucky maid have to come into your household to be fucked upside down by your mother.
Oh yes. Super lazy. In fact all I do at home all day is watch tv, and live off my poor mother who has every reason to be a complete asshole to everyone else. And the least I should do is coax her everyday because poor thing, she has problems.
Fuck you, jojo. You base EVERYTHING on assumptions and completely illogical conclusions based on summaries people write. You don't even know fuckshit about ANYONE else, because hey, I read almost everything you posted and I realized you're exactly like how you just described my mom. You are bitter as fuck, and people don't need that here.
You should go reflect and consider why many turn to this forum. You've been using this as your fucking channel to oust your own bullshit.
My mother is god damn successful, and still complains life is horrible to her. There are other people suffering out there, and for a person who has amassed so much money in her life, there is no satisfaction. Her weapon of choice to assert her powertrips is insults. Now I'm sure people like YOU would enjoy being insulted 24-7, but self-respecting individuals don't.
We've tried the nice way, the hard way, every single possible way to persuade her. But if one person is blind, the rest of the world cannot force open his eyes.
You think you know alot about life, jojo? I would've applauded you if you were correct in your summary about me being a lazy fuck. In fact I probably wish I was. But I'm sorry. No. Just because I want to report this issue, does not mean I don't love my mother. I love her very much, but I cannot allow something so immoral to continue. In the end, what if she ends up losing all her friends, because it's happening already. Her family? Because that's happening as well. And perhaps preferably BEFORE my maid decides to murder her in her sleep or something. How the FUCK would I know.
So get a grip. Stop being impatient and dramatising shit. Just stfu, read and make constructive comments. In fact. wth. I'll just probably ignore you.
could jojo be parn in disguise, who knows
Originally posted by Rooney9:could jojo be parn in disguise, who knows
then u help to inform kk at one, kk looking for parn high & low
We'll be happy to take a look at the videos before you go to the police with them.
家和万事兴。。。
Originally posted by alize:We'll be happy to take a look at the videos before you go to the police with them.
Honestly,
that would be great if you could. I really appreciate it.
Originally posted by BanguIzai:then u help to inform kk at one, kk looking for parn high & low
Desperado!
Originally posted by BanguIzai:then u help to inform kk at one, kk looking for parn high & low
parn is around in our midst even if her nick is banned. you just need to observe carefully.
I want my home to be harmonious too. Deep down. But what to do. Some things have to be done, and I never ever once declared I was ever going to be super happy doing what I'm going to. But I feel that it's the right thing at the end of the day.
Alot of families should aim to preserve harmony and love. With love comes consideration, respect and warmth. It's not my mother's fault that she has bad days or says and does things overboard at times. I have never held anything against her for that. But to allow such things to continue, I can't sleep at night. According to Vegiebao, I am not "close" to the maid that way. At least say hello or me, my mother and my maid have a conversation in a civil manner at the dinner table, not yelling at the maid because she forgot to bring out the serviettes or placed the fork on the wrong side of the table. I work outside and hardly ever eat at home nowadays. I stay away from home in short spurts because the fury is simply too much to bear at home.
I'm human too. I came to Aunt Agony looking for answers and thank you all for being kind enough to walk me through. I do what I have to.
Originally posted by Rooney9:parn is around in our midst even if her nick is banned. you just need to observe carefully.
Who is parn btw?
Originally posted by KonkeyDong:I want my home to be harmonious too. Deep down. But what to do. Some things have to be done, and I never ever once declared I was ever going to be super happy doing what I'm going to. But I feel that it's the right thing at the end of the day.
Alot of families should aim to preserve harmony and love. With love comes consideration, respect and warmth. It's not my mother's fault that she has bad days or says and does things overboard at times. I have never held anything against her for that. But to allow such things to continue, I can't sleep at night. According to Vegiebao, I am not "close" to the maid that way. At least say hello or me, my mother and my maid have a conversation in a civil manner at the dinner table, not yelling at the maid because she forgot to bring out the serviettes or placed the fork on the wrong side of the table. I work outside and hardly ever eat at home nowadays. I stay away from home in short spurts because the fury is simply too much to bear at home.
I'm human too. I came to Aunt Agony looking for answers and thank you all for being kind enough to walk me through. I do what I have to.
how does your maid feel at home? simmering in anger or accepting what you mother threw at her?
its a time bomb waiting to be exploded.
Originally posted by KonkeyDong:Who is parn btw?
someone who is nasty and a bimbo at the same time.
Originally posted by Rooney9:someone who is nasty and a bimbo at the same time.
How do you know parn is a bimbo? Have you seen her?
I think TS is a clone
Originally posted by KonkeyDong:Honestly,
that would be great if you could. I really appreciate it.
You could upload them on Youtube or if you wish, upload them as private videos and PM those select few the links.
Parn- is she Thai?
Try to talk to your mum.......say that you are disturbed and feel very unpeaceful.......
Try to communicate it........that you are having problem and she need to stop scolding the maid, if not for the maid's sake then for your sake, because you yourself is getting affected and feel stressed......
Try that method first.
Secondly,
If there is not much effect after communication..........just ask her, is it ok to stop using maid.......no need to hire maid anymore......or use daily maid.....those who come and work and then leave......not the stay-in maid.......
You can try this way.
Originally posted by Rooney9:parn is around in our midst even if her nick is banned. you just need to observe carefully.
Eeeeks!
Then viciouskitty74 is who now?
Originally posted by KonkeyDong:Oh yes. Super lazy. In fact all I do at home all day is watch tv, and live off my poor mother who has every reason to be a complete asshole to everyone else. And the least I should do is coax her everyday because poor thing, she has problems.
Fuck you, jojo. You base EVERYTHING on assumptions and completely illogical conclusions based on summaries people write. You don't even know fuckshit about ANYONE else, because hey, I read almost everything you posted and I realized you're exactly like how you just described my mom. You are bitter as fuck, and people don't need that here.
You should go reflect and consider why many turn to this forum. You've been using this as your fucking channel to oust your own bullshit.
My mother is god damn successful, and still complains life is horrible to her. There are other people suffering out there, and for a person who has amassed so much money in her life, there is no satisfaction. Her weapon of choice to assert her powertrips is insults. Now I'm sure people like YOU would enjoy being insulted 24-7, but self-respecting individuals don't.
We've tried the nice way, the hard way, every single possible way to persuade her. But if one person is blind, the rest of the world cannot force open his eyes.
You think you know alot about life, jojo? I would've applauded you if you were correct in your summary about me being a lazy fuck. In fact I probably wish I was. But I'm sorry. No. Just because I want to report this issue, does not mean I don't love my mother. I love her very much, but I cannot allow something so immoral to continue. In the end, what if she ends up losing all her friends, because it's happening already. Her family? Because that's happening as well. And perhaps preferably BEFORE my maid decides to murder her in her sleep or something. How the FUCK would I know.
So get a grip. Stop being impatient and dramatising shit. Just stfu, read and make constructive comments. In fact. wth. I'll just probably ignore you.
Time to get off your high horse Princess.
Have you tried TALKING to your mother about this ? If she don't want to listen to you.. then it's time to pack your bag and leave.. with only herself in the household.. she don't need a full time maid.
Your mom is not poor.. she is VERY RICH. That's why you refused to leave that house.
You want to bitch and moan about how IMMORAL your mother is.
You cannot get along with your mother.. yet you still want to enjoy her MONEY and the convenience of what HER money can buy.
You hide your ugliness under the guise of fillial piety? Frankly who are you kidding ?.. SHE's the one taking care of you.. not the other way round. After she dies.. it will be HER money that needs to take care of you until you die.
Like I said.. go ahead and tape your mom's atrocities..report her to the authorities. I'd love to see how you sink with that. These forumers here who nudged you along.. they'd be the one laughing at you.
Just because you are too stupid to realise what a fool you are... does not mean your mom is stupid as well. I bet she is many times more smarter than you. Too bad.. even the most powerful/smartest have their weakness.. and YOu are her achilles heel.
After that stupid deed of yours.. you will have NO maid.. NO place to stay.. NO more financial support from your mother. She may likely Will all inheritance to some distant relative you don't even know exist.. Best yet... Will all her money/assets to some Charity like the NKF just to spite the shit out of you.
And again.. when all you have to do is learn how to operate your washing machine so you can wash your own panties.... use a broom/vacuum cleaner.. and start the microwave oven so you don't starve at home.
Yet.. you want to continue this DRAMA of yours to screw your mother, it's simply amazing.
But wait.. this is not just about how she treats your maid is it ? It's about how much you hated your mom and truly wants to see her suffer because she treated you like dirt.
The maid issue is just one way you can have your revenge and get away like a cowardly little shit head that you are.
Gota love it...
Like I said... Good luck with your foolish way. Hope your mother do get some "education" out of all these.
After she lost her job because of what you did.. both of you can go hug/kill each other under a tent at Changi beach for the rest of your life.
Do you have a rich boyfriend yet ? I hope you do. Poor husbands cannot afford the kind of spoilt brat lifestyle you are so used to, Princess.
Indeed this is Aunt Agony.. I post so YOU don't need to get screwed over by your own stupid action.
Powertrips insults ? LOL.. that only affects people who have inferior complex Especially painful coming from someone you have no choice but depend on.
If you are confident of your own ability/independence.. powertrip insults are like farts. They stink .. but that's about it. So quit being such a leech.. your mom would have nothing on you.