Maid Abuse At Home
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Hi guys,
thanks for ur advice. Nah none of it is exaggerated. I decided to borrow a zoom camera and this mic picked up EVERYTHING. I'd love to say it's exaggerated but it's not la. This fucking drama everyday at home damn sian. I'll record it for a month then burn dvd or something and send out to the agency and MOM. This is the best I can do.
I think the best thing to be now is ninja the whole thing. Then at least nobody has time to react and the truth will come to light untouched. Good plan?
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but then when you reported it to MOM, your mom being hauled to court or warned, your mom will wonder, how the heck did MOM knows about it. she will suspect its you who reported her. then relations will take a turn to the worse.
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TS
1. Tell your mum to change maid if she dont like her.
2. If the maid reports to the authorities, your mum will be in trouble.
3. Likely your mum and the maid has communication problems resulting many incidents.
4. If your mum treat your maid like that, your maid might put her period together with the dishes for your family to eat.
5. Treat her well, afterall, your maid is here to earn a living, and seeing your mum 24 hours per week per month per year can be very stressful.
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So far it seems like no one has a case against nobody.
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Originally posted by Rooney9:
but then when you reported it to MOM, your mom being hauled to court or warned, your mom will wonder, how the heck did MOM knows about it. she will suspect its you who reported her. then relations will take a turn to the worse.
No lah, you stupid, if his mother ask MOM, MOM can remain discreet, then TS can tell his mom that the maid is the one who do the video cam, she needed evidences to prove it. -
Originally posted by angel7030:
No lah, you stupid, if his mother ask MOM, MOM can remain discreet, then TS can tell his mom that the maid is the one who do the video cam, she needed evidences to prove it.
Aiyo...employ maid also got problem, dont employ lah. Do housework by herself lah. -
Yalor, all these singaporean aunties, overly pampered, should send them to cambodia and work in the rice field, then they open eyes big big. Peoples also got parents one leh, if no good, just ask maid to go, why need to torture them and make life difficult for them. There are many cases of silent abuse yet to be report, does not mean that maid who are uneducated and not cover by the employment act, you people can anyhow hantam them. Dun like them, dun employ them lah, then less foreigners here, and also good for women to do housework, it help you to keep slim and healthy, better than what acrobic or boxing shit..
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Originally posted by likeyou:
TS
1. Tell your mum to change maid if she dont like her.
2. If the maid reports to the authorities, your mum will be in trouble.
3. Likely your mum and the maid has communication problems resulting many incidents.
4. If your mum treat your maid like that, your maid might put her period together with the dishes for your family to eat.
5. Treat her well, afterall, your maid is here to earn a living, and seeing your mum 24 hours per week per month per year can be very stressful.
cannot keep changing lolmax 3 times after that tio ban from employing maid lol
but i think its better this way.
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still got 3 chances to abuse further, omg
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Originally posted by angel7030:
Yalor, all these singaporean aunties, overly pampered, should send them to cambodia and work in the rice field, then they open eyes big big. Peoples also got parents one leh, if no good, just ask maid to go, why need to torture them and make life difficult for them. There are many cases of silent abuse yet to be report, does not mean that maid who are uneducated and not cover by the employment act, you people can anyhow hantam them. Dun like them, dun employ them lah, then less foreigners here, and also good for women to do housework, it help you to keep slim and healthy, better than what acrobic or boxing shit..
+1 Angel. They are too spoiled. -
wahaha kiddies, sure, moms are human, i agree. u forgot to add this: MAID ARE HUMANS too. so convenient to forget, huh? i hate it when everytime i read the papaers and i see these 'aunties' and 'mucho' men bashing up their maids, then getting a mere three month sentence. pfffbbbbtttt. pathetic.
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Originally posted by KonkeyDong:
Hi guys,
thanks for ur advice. Nah none of it is exaggerated. I decided to borrow a zoom camera and this mic picked up EVERYTHING. I'd love to say it's exaggerated but it's not la. This fucking drama everyday at home damn sian. I'll record it for a month then burn dvd or something and send out to the agency and MOM. This is the best I can do.
I think the best thing to be now is ninja the whole thing. Then at least nobody has time to react and the truth will come to light untouched. Good plan?
Wah.. you really want to screw your mom over bad huh.
Never bite the hand that feed you.
Ever heard of the Aesop fable... the scorpion and the frog ?-" It is better we should both perish, than that my enemy shall live."
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what is it with gen Ys...?
they feel inclined to document and record everything in their lives.
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now i think u are trying to get ur mom into trouble...............
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Originally posted by angel7030:
still got 3 chances to abuse further, omg
Treat yr maid as a human, let her eat well, sleep well, let her enjoy her work and she will work hard for you. Remember, need both hand to clap. -
Is the threadstarter in love with the maid?
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Originally posted by gorgorlokaychyong:
Is the threadstarter in love with the maid?
wow...that is interesting..... -
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TS, I am reporting your mom to the police.
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Originally posted by BanguIzai:
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How do you know?>
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Originally posted by gorgorlokaychyong:
How do you know?>
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Originally posted by BanguIzai:
I see
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I respect your figurative balls TS. To the rest of you, just because such aunties are common doesn't mean we should let them live out their obstinate lives as they please. Might is not right and stupidity is not cause for exception.
Do it for your maid as much as you do it for yourself. It's obvious to me she's well past whatever yo can take.
Get it done, Stomp it, the whole shithouse.
Of course you should be prepared for your mom being barred from hiring a maid, to do your own housework or to move out to a room of your own if relations with her become unbearable.
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wat you are doing is correct.
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I am very surprised with what you are planning to do.......it seems that you dont know your proper role.........you are a child of your mother........and you are planning to record a tape to report your mother to the authorities ?
Have you lost your mind...?
Another thing which makes me concerned....in one of your posts, you said that due to this problem, you did not have sufficient chance to be close to your maids......erm....what...?
Why are you concerned about being close to your maids...?
I guess theres some dysfunctions in your family.......but you need to evaluate yourself too........your attitude is not correct.....
First, your maid is a worker and is an employee......you can be close but only to a certain extent.....the maid is not your surrogate mum, is not your aunty, and is definitely not your lover.
Second, if you see your mum treating the maid badly, you can talk and persuade her to treat the maid more appropriately.
Third,
Some things like "lying, exaggerating, non-stop scolding" is not actually a crime, it is just a personality trait. Why do you want to tape it and report your mum to the authorities? In fact if her personality bothers you so much, I think you should tape it and report to a psychiatrist or a psychologist instead. Or approach other relatives for help.
Dont exaggerate the problem and take wrong action yourself.