I am so unlucky in love
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I am very unlucky dude. Each time I fall in love, the girl is actually in love with another person. Why? Why?
It all started when I was sent abroad to study in UK. I fell in love with Samantha. I stayed in the boarding house with Samantha, George, Lam and Sarash. Me and Samantha always do project together, I sometimes will walk Samantha home from classes. Then one day, i fell sick, Samantha decided to take care of me, boil porridge for me. Another day, when I felt unprepared and fear that I was going to fail my exam, Samantha helped me by sitting next to me during exam and exposing her answer sheet so that I can copy her results. I fell in love with Samantha, so I confess my feelings to her. But she wanted us to be friends. She began to spend more time with George. Having group study in his room until she fell asleep in her bed. I felt so hurt, I wanted to confront George but Lam told me that by then, George and Samantha are already a couple.
Years later, I came out to work. I began doing assignments with Amanda. The manager always assign us together, so I would drive her to the client's place and sometimes I took her back home. I began to admire Amanda's hard work ethic and our relationship grew closer as we began to work more closely and more often have office lunch and later night one to one supper together. Then I began to pursue Amanda. But it was this moment that Amanda began to stay away from me. Then the manager assign me to another team. Months later, I heard that a guy name Kee Ann was doing the same assignm,ent with Amanda, successfully pursue her and she became his girlfriend. MY heart is broken again.
Years later, I went out with a group of friends and within this circle of friends, met Cindy. Whenever we group of friends go out together, me and Cindy would joke a lot and laugh very loud. Cindy sometimes don't want to eat so much, she would give me her bowl of noodles or food to eat. Then sometimes, we joke a lot on the facebook. It was then I began to have feelings for her. There is this other guy, Norman who also seem to like Cindy. One day after finishing watching movie, I decided to go home like the rest of our friends. Then Cindy excuse herself to the washroom. I notice Norman still hanging around. I ask him what is he doing? He told me that he was waiting for his dad to drive over to pick him up. Apparently it sounded like an excuse. Then months later, Norman and Cindy are a couple. Again, I missed out, my heart is broken again.
Then now there is this girl, Sandy. We got close and there is this other guy, David. After we group of friends hung out at a shopping mall, I notice Sandy and David stayed back, while the rest of us left.
Should I approach Sandy? Or am I going to be missed out again? Why am I so unlucky in love? Why all the girls I like always get stolen by other guys?
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Hey mate, you need to spike your hair a little. I show you a classic example of a handsome guy. Reinvent yourself, add in more charisma, and you will get the girl you like.
Watch this video, and pay special attention to how Zaine looked like.
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there are only 2 major factors - $ and looks...
but the most important of all is the power of fractionation...a technique which with practice and experience wil make you more adept at controlling and attracting women to the final countdown....i can't tell you much but its a short form of seduction and hypnosis....can be powerful and harmful to women emotionally....
even on the phone, it makes her WANT you badly....
take care, bro!
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Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:
Hey mate, you need to spike your hair a little. I show you a classic example of a handsome guy. Reinvent yourself, add in more charisma, and you will get the girl you like.
Watch this video, and pay special attention to how Zaine looked like.
Just seeing that woman makes me wanna punch her face in with a jab.
We need to get their daughters' faces out there, so no unlucky guy will even think about dating them.
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Originally posted by Fcukpap:
there are only 2 major factors - $ and looks...
but the most important of all is the power of fractionation...a technique which with practice and experience wil make you more adept at controlling and attracting women to the final countdown....i can't tell you much but its a short form of seduction and hypnosis....can be powerful and harmful to women emotionally....
even on the phone, it makes her WANT you badly....
take care, bro!
that's a nice topic
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You are not unlucky in love.
1. You only have wishful thinking that you have a chance with a girl, when you are wrong. You should be more observant of the girl you are hopeful about. So that you won't target a girl that is already attached.
2. In all the cases, you mentioned, you did not pursue the girl, they came to you or were placed infront of you, and you started getting excited. The girls were sociable, and you mistook that as your chance. You must take the initiative, start by helping the girls, just like they help you. They must see you got something that they admire, at present you are just like a helpless boy, and they are compassionate to you.
Wishing for girls is like wishing to strike the lottery, they'll never happen and you'll wonder why you are so unlucky.
Go get them tiger! Work.
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being kind and nice is on the surface....what u really need to master is to help her access into her dark sides...the unexplored territorities at the back of her mind....not being sexually upfront...
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No predator instinct.... Definitely husband material...
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what women need is to feel and be wholesome....not superficially kind or nice
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After reading the article - Young women want men with 5As, i feel like we have hope already.
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seduction, attraction, hypnosis....these are just momentary states though useful...
ultimately, nothing can or will ever rob the status of ...
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Originally posted by Unluckystreak:
I am very unlucky dude. Each time I fall in love, the girl is actually in love with another person. Why? Why?
It all started when I was sent abroad to study in UK. I fell in love with Samantha. I stayed in the boarding house with Samantha, George, Lam and Sarash. Me and Samantha always do project together, I sometimes will walk Samantha home from classes. Then one day, i fell sick, Samantha decided to take care of me, boil porridge for me. Another day, when I felt unprepared and fear that I was going to fail my exam, Samantha helped me by sitting next to me during exam and exposing her answer sheet so that I can copy her results. I fell in love with Samantha, so I confess my feelings to her. But she wanted us to be friends. She began to spend more time with George. Having group study in his room until she fell asleep in her bed. I felt so hurt, I wanted to confront George but Lam told me that by then, George and Samantha are already a couple.
Years later, I came out to work. I began doing assignments with Amanda. The manager always assign us together, so I would drive her to the client's place and sometimes I took her back home. I began to admire Amanda's hard work ethic and our relationship grew closer as we began to work more closely and more often have office lunch and later night one to one supper together. Then I began to pursue Amanda. But it was this moment that Amanda began to stay away from me. Then the manager assign me to another team. Months later, I heard that a guy name Kee Ann was doing the same assignm,ent with Amanda, successfully pursue her and she became his girlfriend. MY heart is broken again.
Years later, I went out with a group of friends and within this circle of friends, met Cindy. Whenever we group of friends go out together, me and Cindy would joke a lot and laugh very loud. Cindy sometimes don't want to eat so much, she would give me her bowl of noodles or food to eat. Then sometimes, we joke a lot on the facebook. It was then I began to have feelings for her. There is this other guy, Norman who also seem to like Cindy. One day after finishing watching movie, I decided to go home like the rest of our friends. Then Cindy excuse herself to the washroom. I notice Norman still hanging around. I ask him what is he doing? He told me that he was waiting for his dad to drive over to pick him up. Apparently it sounded like an excuse. Then months later, Norman and Cindy are a couple. Again, I missed out, my heart is broken again.
Then now there is this girl, Sandy. We got close and there is this other guy, David. After we group of friends hung out at a shopping mall, I notice Sandy and David stayed back, while the rest of us left.
Should I approach Sandy? Or am I going to be missed out again? Why am I so unlucky in love? Why all the girls I like always get stolen by other guys?
Sounds like a loser's dairy. Neverthless do not give up. Failure is always better than regrets.
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Originally posted by Fcukpap:
seduction, attraction, hypnosis....these are just momentary states though useful...
ultimately, nothing can or will ever the status of ...
I see that you're very knowledgeable. Would like to discuss with you.
In many of the first world country, $ seems to be the very important factor in attracting opposite sex especially the females.
My question is... How about 2nd or 3rd world country? What are the factors that have more significance?
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Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:
I see that you're very knowledgeable. Would like to discuss with you.
In many of the first world country, $ seems to be the very important factor in attracting opposite sex especially the females.
My question is... How about 2nd or 3rd world country? What are the factors that have more significance?
poor countries have very little access to the materialistic world ...the greatest luxury they ever enjoyed was the beauty of the quiet natural world and waters....
till, the richer countries, such as USA, came to disrupt their lives with greed and what money could buy...their natural world and innocence were then cheated away...
a working man from Cambodia may purchase the use of a child sex slave trafficked from Vietnam for US$1! Another Vietnamese girl of the same age will be charged out at US$200 – often more if she is still a virgin – to a European businessman in Hong Kong.... These girls will then be forced to service countless American and local military men...
This is the human condition....
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and yet the stalk of love lies somewhere in the wide ocean....the message in the bottle remains afloat..
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Supply and demand. Economics of love. Find out her desire and you are in you way to be bedded... hahahahahah
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Originally posted by Fcukpap:
poor countries have very little access to the materialistic world ...the greatest luxury they ever enjoyed was the beauty of the quiet natural world and waters....
till, the richer countries, such as USA, came to disrupt their lives with greed and what money could buy...their natural world and innocence were then cheated away...
a working man from Cambodia may purchase the use of a child sex slave trafficked from Vietnam for US$1! Another Vietnamese girl of the same age will be charged out at US$200 – often more if she is still a virgin – to a European businessman in Hong Kong.... These girls will then be forced to service countless American and local military men...
This is the human condition....
Actually the poor in poor countries often patronize male prostitutes.
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Originally posted by Unluckystreak:
I am very unlucky dude. Each time I fall in love, the girl is actually in love with another person. Why? Why?
It all started when I was sent abroad to study in UK. I fell in love with Samantha. I stayed in the boarding house with Samantha, George, Lam and Sarash. Me and Samantha always do project together, I sometimes will walk Samantha home from classes. Then one day, i fell sick, Samantha decided to take care of me, boil porridge for me. Another day, when I felt unprepared and fear that I was going to fail my exam, Samantha helped me by sitting next to me during exam and exposing her answer sheet so that I can copy her results. I fell in love with Samantha, so I confess my feelings to her. But she wanted us to be friends. She began to spend more time with George. Having group study in his room until she fell asleep in her bed. I felt so hurt, I wanted to confront George but Lam told me that by then, George and Samantha are already a couple.
Years later, I came out to work. I began doing assignments with Amanda. The manager always assign us together, so I would drive her to the client's place and sometimes I took her back home. I began to admire Amanda's hard work ethic and our relationship grew closer as we began to work more closely and more often have office lunch and later night one to one supper together. Then I began to pursue Amanda. But it was this moment that Amanda began to stay away from me. Then the manager assign me to another team. Months later, I heard that a guy name Kee Ann was doing the same assignm,ent with Amanda, successfully pursue her and she became his girlfriend. MY heart is broken again.
Years later, I went out with a group of friends and within this circle of friends, met Cindy. Whenever we group of friends go out together, me and Cindy would joke a lot and laugh very loud. Cindy sometimes don't want to eat so much, she would give me her bowl of noodles or food to eat. Then sometimes, we joke a lot on the facebook. It was then I began to have feelings for her. There is this other guy, Norman who also seem to like Cindy. One day after finishing watching movie, I decided to go home like the rest of our friends. Then Cindy excuse herself to the washroom. I notice Norman still hanging around. I ask him what is he doing? He told me that he was waiting for his dad to drive over to pick him up. Apparently it sounded like an excuse. Then months later, Norman and Cindy are a couple. Again, I missed out, my heart is broken again.
Then now there is this girl, Sandy. We got close and there is this other guy, David. After we group of friends hung out at a shopping mall, I notice Sandy and David stayed back, while the rest of us left.
Should I approach Sandy? Or am I going to be missed out again? Why am I so unlucky in love? Why all the girls I like always get stolen by other guys?
Dont delay, if you like sandy, act now, ask her out for lunch, movies, whatever, call her, calling her wont kill you right?
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All I can say is, to screw them before they screw you, to avoid being in the losing end.
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Also, put aside your dignity or your man pose, take action and be humble...
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Maybe you act too desperate and needy?
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It's not about luck, it's something you didn't do right. If you keep doing the same things and getting the same results, maybe it's time you try something new.
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as a gal my advice will be:
take initative 2 woo the gal if u hav a feeling 4 her
n learn how 2 groom urseif n make u look manly n attractive 4 tat gal
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Dont take failure as a failure, take it as a lesson. Improve on it and try again and again and again. Dont give up.