When things go wrong for a fool, he becomes angry and more damage is done.
Originally posted by Reruny:My wife has been "detained" by her 2 brothers since Saturday 24 Sept.
They had brought her for SOKA chantting sessions at Tampines. But had decided not to bring her home thereafter. They had decided to let her continue chantting at his house in Hougang Ave 8
I have asked for police assistance on 2 occasions on Saturday 24 and Sunday 25. But the police would only say that she had told them that she had wanted to stay on.
They did not allow me or any members of my family to talk to her.
Now the brothers had brought my wife to issue a PPO on me for violence on a certain day and time. But it is not true. I really cannot understand how she can swear on oath to the judge for the said violence when her NRIC is still at home.
The brothers are just trying to break up my family. Is this such a SOKA behaviour. It seems like they are trying to get us divorced and then perhaps enjoy the gains from my wife.
My wife has early dementia symptons. Are they trying to take advantage of the situation.
Please help me.
I understand the other brother is an insurance agent from AVIRA in River Valley. which is perhaps why he is initiating all these
I have tried to seek help from all various channels but no avail.
They feel that I have been "fierce" to my wife. Such excuse is an intrusion into my personal life. We are in our 50s and have been married for more than 30 years with 2 graduate children. We are retired.
You should have been fierce to ur wife.Now pay for being a sissie and not man enough.
Thank You Alize for your advice. I hope that all will end well too.
Thank you to all for writing and listening to my problem.
Yes we have all sorts of weird people here, who just shoot without reading or thinking.
They are just exhibiting a behaviour similar to my wife's brothers.
Something not right on TS.
If not, your wife and bro in law will not act like this.
What really happen to you?
I believe this is a extention from a domestic issue or dispute... what we have now here are the one sided facts from TS which may or may not be true or will probably only be the partial truth.
TS, since we only get the partial truth from you, i believe we can only offer you advise based on what you said which may not eventually help u. I believe you should clarify Hermit's question as i feel that it does make sense.
Since we do not have the full facts yet, i believe we shld not word lash TS first and blame him for everything that had happened since we do not have any prove of who's right and who's wrong. Probably we shld stay objective on this issue if we wld sincerely like to help TS.
Ommissions are not lies... Too much gaps to conclude anything. Anyways its your family affair, outsiders can't help. If you like them to help, please open up. (Not advisable in internet)
Originally posted by Reruny:Thank You Alize for your advice. I hope that all will end well too.
Thank you to all for writing and listening to my problem.
Yes we have all sorts of weird people here, who just shoot without reading or thinking.
They are just exhibiting a behaviour similar to my wife's brothers.
You can capture her , but she will escape again... unless you put her in chains and house arrest. That's no way to treat your love one.
The fool in you is a steadfast one.
Originally posted by Reruny:Thank You Alize for your advice. I hope that all will end well too.
Thank you to all for writing and listening to my problem.
Yes we have all sorts of weird people here, who just shoot without reading or thinking.
They are just exhibiting a behaviour similar to my wife's brothers.
Your wife's brothers get their feed back from your wife, their sister.
As I suspected what you wanted here is someone to agree to your side of the story.
Its all about you.
Time you consider in terms of the other person, i.e. your wife.
When everybody are against you (thread starter), your bil, your wife, etc....it says something not right on you.
Did you beat your wife daily?
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I have do not and have never lay hands on my wife. No harassment. I am not looking for comfort here. But I just need some advice to what I can do about those brothers acting in this way.
As I have said. My wife is suffering from dementia. All I want to do is to take her back or talk to her. But they are not allowing my wife to talk to me. I know my wife will want to talk to me.
I find that the people here are rather bias in their views. Seems like they are all females looking to find loopholes in my e mail.
Due to her dementia,I never let my wife do housework. Yes, I wash, clean up the house, do the laundry, wash, clean up the toilets and the kitchen after every meal. Sweep the house, up & downstairs. She just only prepare simple dish and watch TV. I also prepare breakfast for her.
Now you would come around and say that I am a perfectionist.
If you have nothing to contribute, I hope you can just keep it to yourself.
This is AUNT AGONY is really a turn off. Please change your forum name.
u will hv betta luck with SOS @ 1800 221 4444.
the ppl here hv had beri serious family & childhood issues so they hab beri skewed opinions.
Originally posted by Reruny:I have do not and have never lay hands on my wife. No harassment. I am not looking for comfort here. But I just need some advice to what I can do about those brothers acting in this way.
As I have said. My wife is suffering from dementia. All I want to do is to take her back or talk to her. But they are not allowing my wife to talk to me. I know my wife will want to talk to me.
I find that the people here are rather bias in their views. Seems like they are all females looking to find loopholes in my e mail.
Due to her dementia,I never let my wife do housework. Yes, I wash, clean up the house, do the laundry, wash, clean up the toilets and the kitchen after every meal. Sweep the house, up & downstairs. She just only prepare simple dish and watch TV. I also prepare breakfast for her.
Now you would come around and say that I am a perfectionist.
If you have nothing to contribute, I hope you can just keep it to yourself.
This is AUNT AGONY is really a turn off. Please change your forum name.
perhaps u complain too much
Originally posted by Reruny:I have do not and have never lay hands on my wife. No harassment. I am not looking for comfort here. But I just need some advice to what I can do about those brothers acting in this way.
As I have said. My wife is suffering from dementia. All I want to do is to take her back or talk to her. But they are not allowing my wife to talk to me. I know my wife will want to talk to me.
I find that the people here are rather bias in their views. Seems like they are all females looking to find loopholes in my e mail.
Due to her dementia,I never let my wife do housework. Yes, I wash, clean up the house, do the laundry, wash, clean up the toilets and the kitchen after every meal. Sweep the house, up & downstairs. She just only prepare simple dish and watch TV. I also prepare breakfast for her.
Now you would come around and say that I am a perfectionist.
If you have nothing to contribute, I hope you can just keep it to yourself.
This is AUNT AGONY is really a turn off. Please change your forum name.
Perhaps you need to be more informed about Dementia care.
Khoo Teck Phuat Hospital has a Dementia Care support group.
"The Dementia Support Group provides opportunities for interaction between caregivers of dementia patients, and the dementia care team at KTPH. Group sessions are free and open to all. Topics addressed range from prevention of and coping with dementia, to the impact of diet and occupational therapy activities. The group meets every 4th Saturday of odd months, from 1pm to 3pm."
For enquiries on the group and its activities, please email [email protected]
Originally posted by Reruny:I have do not and have never lay hands on my wife. No harassment. I am not looking for comfort here. But I just need some advice to what I can do about those brothers acting in this way.
As I have said. My wife is suffering from dementia. All I want to do is to take her back or talk to her. But they are not allowing my wife to talk to me. I know my wife will want to talk to me.
I find that the people here are rather bias in their views. Seems like they are all females looking to find loopholes in my e mail.
Due to her dementia,I never let my wife do housework. Yes, I wash, clean up the house, do the laundry, wash, clean up the toilets and the kitchen after every meal. Sweep the house, up & downstairs. She just only prepare simple dish and watch TV. I also prepare breakfast for her.
Now you would come around and say that I am a perfectionist.
If you have nothing to contribute, I hope you can just keep it to yourself.
This is AUNT AGONY is really a turn off. Please change your forum name.
Ya, actually, I suggested to change to Angel Agony, but mods insist to carry on, so be it. Good that you make a remark here, at least to prove I am not wrong after all.
As I said again, stupid old man, how on earth is the court going to award yr wife a PPO went she has dementia, she dun even be fit to attend court, not to mention a libel suit.