Why does this girl suddenly hates me???

• Kai Ying

  28 Sep 11, 17:09

  forget it, im giving up on our friendship

• likeyou

  28 Sep 11, 17:12

  Originally posted by Kai Ying:

  forget it, im giving up on our friendship

  
  If you really give up, then move on.

  But, if you meet her, smile and say hello to her.

• Kai Ying

  28 Sep 11, 17:36

  Originally posted by likeyou:

  
  If you really give up, then move on.

  But, if you meet her, smile and say hello to her.

  she don't even reply when i just say hello, she just diao me then walk away.

• Fugazzi

  28 Sep 11, 17:42

  TS, Intuitively it feel that you could be in your early teens or ... but what matters is that you know that you are so very insecure. If u are keen on being friens with her, surely u would be friendly, but she turning u away or snubbing you is not for you to know. However, considering the age and moreover (my assumption) u are in school - it is better to concentrate on studies and yet be friendly with all and sundry.
• Jiani

  30 Sep 11, 15:13

  Originally posted by Kai Ying:

  she don't even reply when i just say hello, she just diao me then walk away.

  
  are you Ding Xue

• angel7030

  3 Oct 11, 17:13

  or Xue Xue?

• Azrael74

  23 Oct 11, 00:10

  aww I have a song just for you in times like this:

  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qDkZdTJbSxw

• nrapmai

  23 Oct 11, 16:35

  Originally posted by Kai Ying:

  There's this girl in my school that hates me and i don't know why, we were pretty good friends at first but then for some reason she currently hates my guts and i really feel like i could do something to recover our friendship, what should i do?

  
  If she doesn't have any reason to like you, then she don't need any reason to hate you.

  The world is not perfect, you will only end up hurting yourself if you chose to hold onto your perfect idealism about how people should behave towards you.

  It's true that many people are desperately trying to behave in a perfect manner, living their daily lives giving model answers and thoughts to themselves and others.

  It's only a matter of time before their perfect world crash down upon their own imperfection.

  So what if you are trying to be perfect when nobody around you are perfect?

  Give up, and start to learn how to enjoy your imperfect life until you can find happiness within your imperfect world in the imperfect society.

• angel7030

  24 Oct 11, 16:55

  Originally posted by Kai Ying:

  she don't even reply when i just say hello, she just diao me then walk away.

  
  Her father must have taught her to concentrate on school works, and dun go around talking to boys unnecessary, most can be up to no good. So naturally, she will try to avoid you, same like me, last time study at Haig Girls', my Dad also told me not to go out and mix with guys, then got guys talk to me, I just keep quiet and walk away.

  I think it should be like this, she is still very much Daddy's gal hor.

• Lord dejavu

  25 Oct 11, 22:45

  I think she found out about your erection..

• gorgorlokaychyong

  25 Oct 11, 23:32

  Originally posted by Lord dejavu:

  I think she found out about your erection..

  

  Lecherous males turn gals off.      

• Sandy17sandy17

  24 Dec 11, 23:40

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  
  Her father must have taught her to concentrate on school works, and dun go around talking to boys unnecessary, most can be up to no good. So naturally, she will try to avoid you, same like me, last time study at Haig Girls', my Dad also told me not to go out and mix with guys, then got guys talk to me, I just keep quiet and walk away.

  I think it should be like this, she is still very much Daddy's gal hor.

  Im from that primary school too:D

• HiAy3Captain

  24 Dec 11, 23:48

  maybe u cant satisfy her enough lo

• Hseng25

  26 Dec 11, 20:45

  Sometimes girls seems to hate you actually because they have some feelings for you. They act this way to console themselves to hate you in hope to remove the romantic feelings for you. Girls don't hate guys for no reason. I reckon you approach her whenever you have a chance to be alone with her and approach her in a subtle way. Let her know that you cherish the friendship and ask her if there is any problem. If she refuses to tell you, let her know tat she can tell you about it when ever she's comfortable.
• MagnificientDiagrams

  27 Dec 11, 13:29

  It could be many reasons. She could be in a bad mood, PMS, not friendly person, etc, etc. So don't speculate that she hates you.

  So many classmates to make friends. Why bother about this girl? Just ignore and make friends with other people. That is not difficult to do. If she sees that you are friendly with other classmates and a joy to talk to, perhaps she would approach you for friendship. If not, just move on, life goes on. She is not the center of your universe. The more you show you are bothered with her behaviour, the more she will be unfriendly to you.

• Lord dejavu

  27 Dec 11, 14:56

  u try erecting @ her again??

• AsianMech

  27 Dec 11, 15:14

  hahah i like the hot milo example........its a clear sign of communication breakdown. regardless likes or dont, must clarify to get the bad air out. No doubts left behind. 

  If dont like, if i tried my best to turn your mind and yet you dont feel its good enough. If i care a lot then i try harder, if i dont care, then so be it.

  Better turn all stones, rather than sorry.