how to befriend a guy i have been secretly admiring?
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Originally posted by Little Red Book:
I know what you mean 2005 but i know as well if i didn't say hi or at least get to know him i will kinda regret. You know, it's not really love at first sight. It is thru 2.5yrs of observation. And whether he as good as it seems i really got to find out.............
you don;t get it. even if you spend an eternity online with hime, sometimes don't beat 1 min in real life talking to him.like me, many girls find me sexy online. but in real life offline they meet me up in person they disappointed with me. only my gut photogrpahy skills keep them cummin back
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Originally posted by angel7030:
I was stalked online for 3 years and still going on and strong, no big deal. Cyber space is certainly different from real open space. People just dun get it
let me count, my clones and i, i did you about 3years. youknow who iam
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dun tell me you are the ledgendary udon?
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nope
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Originally posted by troublemaker2005:
let me count, my clones and i, i did you about 3years. youknow who iam
know or dunno you dun earn me a dime, better stay put and eat my ben n jerry -
Originally posted by Little Red Book:
HI there,
after 2.5 years of hesitating, i have decided to step up and know befriend this guy that i have been admiring for the longest time on fb. What is a good way to know him without sounding needy or corny?
I am thinking:
I understand you are a trainer/motivator.
Can i learn from you and be your mentee?
Do you charge? haha..
I know it's not the best.
Please advice guys!
TQ
simple what.......................tell him you got an itch in your crotch and you'll like him to scratch it for you...................
just make sure you no wear panties lor...
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you stalked him on fb for 2years?!!!
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oh, that is consider a short time, mine was stalked since the introduction of fb
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cum here blow cow again har
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to befriend that guy u admire or love or like or watever...
first, let go of all materialistic education you have been brought up in our overprotective spoiled system of sluts
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can you be a prawn peeler for that guy u so admire or love or like?
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can you dun begrudge that guy you so admire or love or like if you were to break your sexypensive crystal nails while peeling the prawns?
these are questions facing a perplex bunch of sg gals who uphold the notion of true love....
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Ts, Muse over this - love knows no reasons, knows no fear(s) - when both are present -then it belies needs/expectations and unreconciled psycho hangovers and most likely misunderstood or misinterpreted as love! U are needy and corny , otherwise why the statement from you. Being freindly does not cause anything but your stance belies fear and that fear though suppressed is bound to surface, not now maybe, but sooner or later!
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Originally posted by troublemaker2005:
cum here blow cow again har
blow cow..???? wow! let be go take my airpump -
Originally posted by angel7030:
blow cow..???? wow! let be go take my airpump
your fart is enuff no need any pump -
You guys surely crack me up, especially angel and gorgor! haha.....and i would like to believe he is not gay!
And Gerberad, you got it quite right there. I wonder if my expectation are unrealistic sometimes. I am in my late 20's, been through a string of relationship. Never quite find someone who I feel is worth it. I ask myself if I should compromise on my expectation and live with it or should I live by this rule, Never settle for anything less and the best will happen. After all, life's too short to go for 2nd best right?
Since young, I am a go-getter. I go for what I want or at least i tried. But when it comes to relationship, I am always a really "see how it goes" person. I never initiate. I worry about what men feel if I initiate. You know he is 36 this year, what would he think if I initiate? I mean, in general how would men think if a woman initiate, would they kinda think this woman has no principle and get turn off?
Omg, it's driving me nuts, to initiate or not to initiate?
LRB
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Originally posted by Fugazzi:
Ts,
Muse over this – love knows no reasons, knows no fear(s) – when both are present -then it belies needs/expectations and unreconciled psycho hangovers and most likely misunderstood or misinterpreted as love!U are needy and corny , otherwise why the statement from you. Being freindly does not cause anything but your stance belies fear and that fear though suppressed is bound to surface, not now maybe, but sooner or later!
I fully agree Fugazzi. That is why i wanted to express myself. You think i should really go ahead. I have zero experience initiating to men. Maybe i should step out of my shell!
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Originally posted by Little Red Book:
You guys surely crack me up, especially angel and gorgor! haha.....and i would like to believe he is not gay!
And Gerberad, you got it quite right there. I wonder if my expectation are unrealistic sometimes. I am in my late 20's, been through a string of relationship. Never quite find someone who I feel is worth it. I ask myself if I should compromise on my expectation and live with it or should I live by this rule, Never settle for anything less and the best will happen. After all, life's too short to go for 2nd best right?
Since young, I am a go-getter. I go for what I want or at least i tried. But when it comes to relationship, I am always a really "see how it goes" person. I never initiate. I worry about what men feel if I initiate. You know he is 36 this year, what would he think if I initiate? I mean, in general how would men think if a woman initiate, would they kinda think this woman has no principle and get turn off?
Omg, it's driving me nuts, to initiate or not to initiate?
LRB
Life is too short for u to drag this on and continue to secretly admire him.. if i am u, i would tell him directly that i like him.and to be honest lah, he is 36 years old and single and 'available'... i wonder if its me, or is he emitting gay vibes...
if he lives alone or 'not with his family', then i guess u better move on. that's my advice to u. u can choose to believe it ornot.
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Originally posted by Fcukpap:
to befriend that guy u admire or love or like or watever...
first, let go of all materialistic education you have been brought up in our overprotective spoiled system of sluts
ha...seriously i am not thinking materialistic cos I am good on my own. What I admire is his charitable character and good remarks from so many of his peers. How did he find such positive energy and passion in life especially in this judgmental world. I am truly amazed how he keep his level head in so many things and how he manage to get people of young and old to adore him alike. I want to learn from him, I want to know how to view this world through his eyes. That's all I want to know.......
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Originally posted by Gerberad:
Life is too short for u to drag this on and continue to secretly admire him.. if i am u, i would tell him directly that i like him.and to be honest lah, he is 36 years old and single and 'available'... i wonder if its me, or is he emitting gay vibes...
if he lives alone or 'not with his family', then i guess u better move on. that's my advice to u. u can choose to believe it ornot.
haha....it did ever crossed my mind if he is a gay. But he has ex-gf before, from his peers comments. And he lives with his parents still. haha...so i guess he is not gay.
Gerberad, if it is you. Would you get turn off if a woman say hi on fb? You probably get it many times, and would you probably think, another one? I mean honestly?
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Originally posted by Little Red Book:
ha...seriously i am not thinking materialistic cos I am good on my own. What I admire is his charitable character and good remarks from so many of his peers. How did he find such positive energy and passion in life especially in this judgmental world. I am truly amazed how he keep his level head in so many things and how he manage to get people of young and old to adore him alike. I want to learn from him, I want to know how to view this world through his eyes. That's all I want to know.......
Sounds like you admire him more than in love with him. If you so adamant to get in touch with him. Get to know him as a friend first.
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Originally posted by Little Red Book:
haha....it did ever crossed my mind if he is a gay. But he has ex-gf before, from his peers comments. And he lives with his parents still. haha...so i guess he is not gay.
Gerberad, if it is you. Would you get turn off if a woman say hi on fb? You probably get it many times, and would you probably think, another one? I mean honestly?
1st and foremost hahahhaha, i dont get women coming after me for certain motives, ever in my life. :) but i do get Hellos from my girlfriends.. anyway u get what i mean lah.i wont get turn off if i am him. since he is an extrovert and cheerful man, i think he will welcome friends greetings. yes, he may get it many times, but he will most probably think u are trying to be friendly with him. if u want him to know that u like him, just tell him directly.
do u know there is something called Bisexual too?? some people are bi and those people are harder for u to see through them. Having ex-gfs or peer comments doesnt mean he doesnt have special feelings for same gender. if he is a famous person as u said, maybe he would conceal his gayness from his friends/group. u must understand that there is people who are homophobes. i mean c'mon, u dont see most famous ppl telling the general public he is gay. even the local drag artiste kumar had to conceal till recently...
i have friends who live with parents but are closetted homos.
Nothing is for sure guaranteed until u know him personally. if u are go-getter, then go get it. u are not that young either...
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Originally posted by troublemaker2005:
your fart is enuff no need any pump
My fart is not cheap ya, the food i ate were expensive stuff.Blow cow? might as well go blow elephant better. Silly old man
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Originally posted by Little Red Book:
You guys surely crack me up, especially angel and gorgor! haha.....and i would like to believe he is not gay!
And Gerberad, you got it quite right there. I wonder if my expectation are unrealistic sometimes. I am in my late 20's, been through a string of relationship. Never quite find someone who I feel is worth it. I ask myself if I should compromise on my expectation and live with it or should I live by this rule, Never settle for anything less and the best will happen. After all, life's too short to go for 2nd best right?
Since young, I am a go-getter. I go for what I want or at least i tried. But when it comes to relationship, I am always a really "see how it goes" person. I never initiate. I worry about what men feel if I initiate. You know he is 36 this year, what would he think if I initiate? I mean, in general how would men think if a woman initiate, would they kinda think this woman has no principle and get turn off?
Omg, it's driving me nuts, to initiate or not to initiate?
LRB
For gals looking for Love
Rule nos 1, never initiate the first move, let the guy do the honor of being gentlemenRule nos 2, even if you really love and like that guy, see Rule nos 1
Rule nos 3, if really the guy is a dumb cutie, and you have no choice but to initiated it, you will be a bitch for the rest of your life, so called little red bitch
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Originally posted by angel7030:
My fart is not cheap ya, the food i ate were expensive stuff.Blow cow? might as well go blow elephant better. Silly old man
silly right. hey don;t bullie old man